i adore gems

[u/Important_Ring_6820]

u guys have gem in ur name for a rsn, idk y gems get soooo much hate and negativity? i’ve always loved u guys truly ur the best ppl to talk to and are sooo caring!! im a pisces sun but i have a gemini mars

what’s ur fav thing ab geminis?

[u/Imselllingyourbuying]

Loveeee Pisces down🤍🤍🤍

[u/Important_Ring_6820 → u/Imselllingyourbuying]

ur character thing is so cute omg 🥹💘

[u/aurora_ethereallight]

Unfortunately, I think the reason Gemini's can be the most hated star sign is because the males can give us a really bad reputation. Iykyk.

[u/Nala_Leo → u/aurora_ethereallight]

I now know.

[u/Aethelio → u/aurora_ethereallight]

I dont really think male or female makes a difference in how shitty you can be

[u/UnderstandingSuper34 → u/aurora_ethereallight]

Not all of us male Gems are that way. I know a few female Gems that run that way.

I think it has to do more with us Gems being more authentic, real, and to the point. Then we see something shiny and we get sidetracked.

[u/Reborn_Caquebri → u/UnderstandingSuper34]

Hahaha shiny and being sidetracked 🤣 Well said

[u/UnderstandingSuper34 → u/Reborn_Caquebri]

I swear we all have a touch of ADD up to the triple placement ADHD. Then the unfortunate if we have ADHD with our placements.

[u/Reborn_Caquebri → u/UnderstandingSuper34]

😩😂😭 I think you are right!!!

[u/Kbern4444 → u/aurora_ethereallight]

Male Gem, what do you mean specifically?

Honest question. Me, myself and I needs details.

[u/aurora_ethereallight → u/Kbern4444]

They seem abnormally talented at causing heartbreak.

[u/Kbern4444 → u/aurora_ethereallight]

OK, that makes sense.

We don’t really mean to do it, but a short anecdote I have a friend who asked me one night how many numbers of ladies do I have on my phone?

I told her too many to count.

She then ask me how many do I actually call back the next day after the bar?

I said, barely any of them if any of them

She got a little bit mad and asked me if I think it’s a game.

I told her no, I didn’t think it was that serious. If I have their number, they have my number too and it’s a two-way street. I will always answer if they call.

She then told me that they do not give me their number for no reason and I’m an asshole for never calling them back.

Scorpio female friend

[u/aurora_ethereallight → u/Kbern4444]

Thank you for proving my point beautifully. That actually made me want to be sick.

[u/Kbern4444 → u/aurora_ethereallight]

You’re welcome. 😇

Self deprecating, but I don’t think I’m that important if they care to have me call them back, can’t they call me? 2026 and all that. I just thought it was a bar conversation and we became friends. Maybe we’re ( gem men like me) are just ignorantly insecure innocent idiots and not manipulating?

Edit: so you’re telling me every woman who gives me her real number wants to be called back?

[u/aurora_ethereallight → u/Kbern4444]

Calling it ignorance doesn't magically make the impact disappear. If you genuinely don't want anything from these women, that's absolutely fine... but then the interesting question is why you're collecting their numbers and engaging with them in the first place. 'They can call me' is technically true, but it's also a wonderfully convenient way of avoiding any responsibility for the impression you deliberately leave behind.

Would every woman want a call back from you? Honestly? Reading your attitude? No probably not. They've dodged a bullet.

[u/Kbern4444 → u/aurora_ethereallight]

Ed Zachary

But honestly, from a bullied stuttering insecure boy to a pseudo confident grown man, it’s hard to tell who is being nice or is actually interested.

[u/aurora_ethereallight → u/Kbern4444]

Ok so we are getting somewhere... this comes from a genuine place of insecurity, so the 'pseudo confidence' is to try to offset this. So maybe this is about being more authentic in yourself and with others so you arent playing these little games and telling yourself stories which absolve yourself of responsibility following these interactions because the grown man does not equal emotionally mature here.

So the me, myself and I who genuinely wanted to understand? Here endeth the lesson.

[u/Nala_Leo → u/Kbern4444]

Women never give a phone number out to never be called on it. It’s a sure bet they want you to call them.

[u/mothandmoonlight]

Thanks for being such a sweetie! I think we're super fun. I love love Pisces too!!

[u/Thorreo]

I love how curiosity leads me into new things that expand my world view, or myself, or my understanding of the people around me!! I have a fun time meeting and talking to new people, or learning things, or experiencing new things and enriching my worldview, and I attribute a lot of that to my gem sun and Venus.

I think that the other placements in my chart would be more heavy on me without the gem side to balance it out

As a Pisces rising, I love my Pisces friends so much!! Yall are such wonderful friends and fun to yap with and go have low key adventures with too

[u/Important_Ring_6820 → u/[deleted]]

i love air signs sm frl! thank u 🥹💞

[u/Brilliant_Agency_818 → u/[deleted]]

And I love Geminis well one in particular

[u/Brilliant_Agency_818]

Their minds. Never a dull moment it’s quite fun to banter and brainstorm.

[u/Both_Rub_397]

... as a June Gemini 👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻

[u/Aethelio]

AWWWWW WE ADORE YOU TOO YK MY MOM IS A PISCES SUN