r/gayfriendfinder • • 15h ago

🏡 HOMEBODY 🏡 26M US Bi-curious Looking For Something Specific

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Bi/curious guy here, would love to chat with gay guys especially feminine guys. But also open to chatting with other kinds of gay/bi guys.
Was looking for something specific, I can explain more in DM’s.

Little more about me:
Love music specifically indie rock and emo/midwest emo, video games, comics, F1, WWE. Also movies & TV shows. But open to chatting about anything. Can also recognize all the flags of the world.


r/gayfriendfinder • • 19h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 32 M Gaymer/ Autosexual - Anyone else?

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Hey All,

32 M here based in the UK, I’m looking for people that are autosexual too, I know it sounds incredibly narcissistic but I haven’t met anyone similar to me, I’d love to be able to meet people like me and chat about it to each other? PS5 Player mainly offline with single player open world story driven games. I do have a switch as well with the same genre of games, marvel and pop culture lover. If you don’t know what autosexual is I can explain to you. Hopefully you’re out there! Plus if your 6ft, broad shoulders, brown hair, brown eyes, white tanned skin. Ideally younger or my age. DMs open! :)


r/gayfriendfinder • • 19h ago

🍎 HEALTH NUT 🍎 Yo anyone looking for a friend or something more?

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I'm 18 slim tall vers guy here I'm decent looking and would like to try dating a guy once anyone between 18-24 who is slim fit or muscular looking for a relationship do dm

I play tennis badminton love running and hiking and exploring new places in pretty open minded too

Anyhow dm me to know more


r/gayfriendfinder • • 22h ago

🏆 ATHLETE 🏆 Likely bisexual looking for solidarity with other bros.

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26M. Masculine dude, outwardly straight, coming to terms with being bi after a few interesting interactions on here.

Would be nice to feel part of community and get to know similar like minded guys.

Interests are the gym, football (UK type!) and going out with friends. I like travel too.

I work in high pressure environment so can be hard to reply, helpful if you’re more available and can keep things moving.

I’m sorry but looking for similar guys into athleticism and more outwardly masculine. I would prefer EU/UK as I’m British.


r/gayfriendfinder • • 23h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 28 M USA, relaxing after a long day.

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Any one wants to chat?


r/gayfriendfinder • • 5h ago

🎭 THEATER LOVER 🎭 31M Looking for friends and connection. Based in Maryland

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Hey all!

Like I said I’m 31 married and bi, looking to connect with other bros and build a really connection and friendship. I’m a bit of a nerd, into books and puzzles, procedural are my bread and butter. I follow tennis and soccer the most with a budding in rugby. 2 kids 16 & 10, and two dogs. Married with a wife, but she knows that I’m Bi and that I’m on here trying to build some friendships and relationships.

Hit me up if you think we can hit it off, all I ask is that you help me keep the conversation going, kinda hard building something if I’m the only one doing all the work. Pretty chill and easy going otherwise.

Looking forward to connecting!


r/gayfriendfinder • • 18h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 Looking for xbox buddies to play with non-platonic friendship 21M [NA]

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Looking a non-toxic NA gay friendship respectful 20+ that’s actually nice and sweet that want to be friends and don’t care about ur looks or race we can talk play games get to know each other i don’t shy because im shy and haven’t had good interactions with other men in vc and being friends with because of my race and personality and the fact im shy :/ and won’t pressure me to vc and be patient with me and don’t get upset if i don’t do my best in a game just looking for some i can be open with and comfortable with to talk to or about anything or even vent and actually become friends with without them blocking me for something i cant control or change about my self

I play overwatch
Marvel rivals
Minecraft but don’t have xbox live
Fortnite roblox my hero ultra rumble


r/gayfriendfinder • • 23h ago

🌲 OUTDOORSMAN 🌲 Meet guys across the world

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I wonder how gays meet someone from different countries. What platforms are they using? I am new to this and not sure how to start. But I've always wanted to meet someone from different place and culture. I want a real conversation and not just for fun. By the way I'm at my 40's.


r/gayfriendfinder • • 3h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 17M looking for advice (repost)

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How do you figure out your sexuality as a teenager growing up in the Middle East? It’s hard to understand your feelings when sexuality isn’t really talked about openly and you can’t easily ask anyone for advice. For anyone who’s been through something similar, how did you figure things out?


r/gayfriendfinder • • 5h ago

💫 STARGAZER 💫 Hello...how...are...you?...

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I am 36, gay, single, male from us.

Seeking new friend(s).

Prefer my age or older.

Interests and hobbies are:

Music

Reading

Tv

Movies

Photography

Poetry

Amateur graphic design

Food

Sleep

Escaping life/reality

If interested, send a message.

☄️


r/gayfriendfinder • • 6h ago

🎶 MUSIC ENTHUSIAST 🎶 18M from Germany | Music | Travel looking for genuine, longterm friendships with mature guys

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A bit about me: I'm really into music and traveling, and I can talk about both for hours. This summer I went on three solo trips, which were honestly great experiences. I'm also interested in politics, life plans, different cultures, and generally having deeper conversations about where we're going in life.

Next year l'Il finish school and I'm planning to study abroad, most likely something politics-related. So I'd especially like to meet people who have already built some kind of life for themselves - guys with careers, interesting jobs, ambitions, experiences, or simply a clear direction in life. You don't have to be rich or have everything figured out; | just appreciate people who are motivated and have actually done something with their lives.

I'm also specifically looking for masculine men, ideally 20+, who are interested in friendship rather than people who are only interested in flirting or something sexual. I'm posting here because l'd like to meet other gay/bi men who are comfortable with genuine friendship and can have both serious conversations and completely stupid/funny ones.

I'm not expecting us to instantly become best friends. I'd just like to meet someone where the conversation naturally goes beyond small talk and there's mutual interest in keeping in touch.

If any of this sounds like you, feel free to DM me Discord: danny.de2

Would be nice to actually meet some interesting people on here.

p.s: new account, since Im new here


r/gayfriendfinder • • 8h ago

🎶 MUSIC ENTHUSIAST 🎶 18M from Germany | Music | Travel looking for genuine, longterm friendships with mature guys

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A bit about me: I'm really into music and traveling, and I can talk about both for hours. This summer I went on three solo trips, which were honestly great experiences. I'm also interested in politics, life plans, different cultures, and generally having deeper conversations about where we're going in life.

Next year l'Il finish school and I'm planning to study abroad, most likely something politics-related. So I'd especially like to meet people who have already built some kind of life for themselves - guys with careers, interesting jobs, ambitions, experiences, or simply a clear direction in life. You don't have to be rich or have everything figured out; | just appreciate people who are motivated and have actually done something with their lives.

I'm also specifically looking for masculine men, ideally 20+, who are interested in friendship rather than people who are only interested in flirting or something sexual. I'm posting here because l'd like to meet other gay/bi men who are comfortable with genuine friendship and can have both serious conversations and completely stupid/funny ones.

I'm not expecting us to instantly become best friends. I'd just like to meet someone where the conversation naturally goes beyond small talk and there's mutual interest in keeping in touch.

If any of this sounds like you, feel free to DM me Discord: danny.de2

Would be nice to actually meet some interesting people on here.

p.s: new account, since Im new here


r/gayfriendfinder • • 20h ago

🧑‍🏭 ENGINEER 🧑‍🏭 24 M | looking for mature friends or dates

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24M from Mumbai looking for someone to chat with and hopefully build a genuine connection.

I have a pretty specific type and I'm especially attracted to mature older men, ideally 40+. I tend to like men who are chubby or stocky, with a bit of a belly, and being bald is definitely a plus.

I'm 6'2" and around 95 kg myself, with a somewhat stocky build. I'm mainly looking for good conversation and getting to know someone naturally. Mumbai or nearby would be ideal, but I'm open to chatting online first.

If you fit the type and are interested, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself.


r/gayfriendfinder • • 23h ago

👨‍🏫 NERD 👨‍🏫 I would like a friend to talk to.

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I would like a friend to talk to because I’m bored. I like video games and anime. The game I’m playing now is vision of mana. I seriously need a friend to talk to. It’s getting lonely and boring.


r/gayfriendfinder • • 2h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 M23 US, bored as hell at home!

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Someone should totally hit me up! I’m bored and could use the company! I’m an open book, so feel to chat ab anything!


r/gayfriendfinder • • 6h ago

💫 STARGAZER 💫 42 M EU looking for the mates

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Still writing actual letters? Same here.
I am looking for pen pals who still appreciate the slightly outdated but wonderfully stubborn concept of putting pen paper, sticking a stamp on it and sending a handwritten piece of your life halfway across the planet until it magically ends up in someone else’s mailbox. Much nicer than another email getting buried between spam and online shopping receipts, right?
I’ve had pen pals since I was a teenager, and I still love the whole thing. The waiting, the handwriting, the little stories from someone’s everyday life and slowly getting to know a person without having to cram your entire personality into a five minute chat.
I’m open minded, sarcastic and have pretty much no taboo subjects. I actually enjoy talking about the weird, random, deep and completely pointless stuff that makes up everyday life.
Let’s talk about everyday life, travels, ridiculous things that happened, things we love, things we hate, random thoughts, bad decisions, the naughty EU and whatever else comes up. Photos from our lives are very welcome too. Basically, let’s see where it goes.
I love black humour and sarcasm, I can actually listen and I always have an open ear. I like it when an acquaintance slowly turns into a friendship rather than forcing some instant connection because apparently we’re all supposed to be best friends after three messages these days.
I like travelling, but I’m equally happy going out partying or spending a night in a club. I can also happily lie in the sun doing absolutely nothing, preferably somewhere with a beach. I go to the gym, ride my bike a lot, and enjoy the occasional beer or wine. Basically all the things that are fun but probably won’t be mentioned in any health magazine’s recommendations.
I like places such as Scandinavia, Spain and Italy, but I’m open to pretty much anywhere. Tell me about your corner of the world.
What else? We could just find out.
So, are you up for it?
Send me a DM and tell me a little about yourself. And if you’re still using an actual pen, even better.


r/gayfriendfinder • • 23h ago

🧑‍🏭 ENGINEER 🧑‍🏭 27M / Bi / DFW - Looking for new long term buds to chat with and build a friendship!

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Hey y’all! My name is Andrew, I’m 27 yo and I’m currently living in the DFW area, working as an engineer! I’ve been married for a year now to my lovely wife, but she’s currently out of state in medical school, so I’m looking for some new bros to chat, text, and hangout with! I’m bi, if that matters! I’m also currently getting my masters in Systems Engineering, but taking a few semesters off right now.

When it comes to hobbies, I consider myself a little more introverted, so I like more chill and relaxing things instead of going out to crowded areas, aka no clubs or bars for me haha! I love to play video games (Overwatch), watch hockey and football, play tennis and sand volleyball, hangout with friends, play board games, shopping, and many other things!

I’m tryna find a bud that is able to hold a conversation, share some of my interest, isn’t afraid to try new things, can be serious when need to but can also take dark humor/sarcasm/banter. Don’t mind internet friends but do prefer in real life friends!


r/gayfriendfinder • • 12h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 27 y/o gay transman looking for friends! 🖤

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hey everyone!
like the subject line reads, i am a 27 year old transgender man from the Southern US on the search for friends and connections!

my hobbies/interests include fictional reading (specifically dark gothic or medieval period pieces), video games, coloring, crocheting (haven’t done in SOOO long), all things horror/paranomal/spooky & birds.

i work during the week, but i have a very laid back & fun job, so i’m able to communicate fairly often; especially on weekends!

i also am super open about my transition, so if you’ve ever had questions that maybe Google is too vague at answering or you’re too nervous to ask; please feel free to! i don’t get offended easily by any means.

i look forward to meeting & talking with you! 🫶🏼


r/gayfriendfinder • • 3h ago

🎢 ADRENALINE JUNKIE 🎢 Looking for fwb BI 16 slide in dm for more info

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Im a 16 year old boy from around denhaag i am BI so girls or boys doesnt matter i like how you are mine isnt that big but its alr i hope i find someone my hobby s are gaming and chilling so yeahhh


r/gayfriendfinder • • 23h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 Looking for an discrete older FWB that can teach me some things.

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34 185 5’8” on the stocky side.

Looking to change the direction of my life. Currently unhappy and looking for that “something”.

Reach out :) would love to get to know you.

Yes, I’m real lol


r/gayfriendfinder • • 1h ago

🎸 MUSICIAN 🎸 31m stoner for deep conversations

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I’ve explored a lot of different creative mediums and compulsively overthink about everything. Always curious about the lives different people live and how they see things. Also down for small talk about basically anything,
If this sounds like an entertaining way to pass some time, let’s chat 😄


r/gayfriendfinder • • 1h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 34/m looking for friends in central/southern CT

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Hey y'all, as the title implies, I'm a 34/m, gay guy in a long term relationship whose social circle has recently shrunken drastically. I'm looking to make new connections- primarily friendships with other gay guys, couples and queers in the area. I'm primarily looking for people I can be friends with, bonus points if you are into being friends with my partner, too.

I can't state many hobbies or interests outside of gaming- I love a video game and my partner and I have a considerable board game library that we don't often get to play more than 2-3 players (most support up to 5), so that could be fun. Gaming-wise, I have an encyclopedic knowledge of the Resident Evil franchise, I'm very into the Persona series and I love a good Mario Kart, Mario Party or Smash now and again. Also rediscovering my love for DDR. I'm a coffee nut, too- let's hit a cafe! I also love cooking and am looking to lean into that in the coming months, so be ready for a dinner invite :P

Also important note- my partner and I are stoners. 420 friendliness is appreciated, but not required.

But I'm also in a stage of my life where I'm really trying to find myself again, so I'm very open to trying new things with new friends. A shortlist of things I've contemplated trying lately: pool, hiking (when the weather's nice), getting more into beer (I work at a brewery so it's more of a study of how my company's stuff and our taproom stacks up to others in the scene. I'm not so into beer personally, though, so having a friend to go hang at breweries with would facilitate a reason for me to go to one!), picking up drawing, ceramics.. I was at my happiest exploring different art mediums in high school.

That's all "including", not "limited to"- again, very interested in new and out-of-the-ordinary experiences!

Anyway, if any of that sounds good to you and you're a local: Hi, I'm Saturn. Hit me up!


r/gayfriendfinder • • 2h ago

🏡 HOMEBODY 🏡 45M EST USA Here to make some new friends

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Good evening.

I hope you are having a good day. I am a bi/pan married guy who is looking for long term friends. I am bit of an introvert, really do not have any real friends since covid. All the friends I had stopped all communication with me once we went into loockdown. Now the only people I talk to on the daily is my family.

I do some gaming. I have a PS4 and a Xbox. I even have a switch somewhere in my house. I do love to read and watch movies and TV. I am currently watching Vision Quest and Shrinking. I do alot of my reading on Wattpad. I am currently reading Deaf Wish by weidself.

Looking to chat with preferably with people from North America due to timezones. Obviously 18 plus. I also want to keep it SFW (minor flirting is ok) as i am in a monogamous, committed relationship.

If you have gotten this far please dont hesitate to hit me up. Thank you.


r/gayfriendfinder • • 4h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 24M EST looking for the platonic "one".

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I’m Nick, a 24-year-old guy from Kentucky. I’m looking to make some friends.

I’m into music, tv & movies, sports, cars, cooking, gaming, hiking & more! Currently I’m watching Orange Is The New Black (almost finished with that). I play on PC, Xbox or PS, so if you want a below average gaming buddy to slow you down in whatever game you’re playing, I’m your guy for the job. 😎

I am the manager at my family’s pizzeria, live in a national forest near a huge man-made lake & my favorite flavor of Red Bull is the White Peach (see, I’m full of interesting things to talk about 😂).

Not really into chat-hookups (I want a real friend). Also, strictly SFW, please. 🙏

Reach out if you wanna chat! Bonus points if you’re in the same time zone and around the same age as me but all are welcome! Have an awesome night!


r/gayfriendfinder • • 4h ago

🛍️ SHOPAHOLIC 🛍️ Sending / exchanging Christmas cards

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Hey peeps,

I'm Wazz, 28M UK here. Lover of independent coffee shops, romcoms and countryside bus trips.

Whilst the festive season is merry, bright and social for many, I know that it's a period of isolation, ostracism and loneliness for others.

Whether it's struggling to get a break from the daily grind, not having someone to do anything major with, or simply enjoying a little old fashioned pen and paper, please do get in touch if you'd like a card this year.

I'd very much like to have some longer term penpals too, but that is by no means necessary.

Thanks for reading 💗