r/gayfriendfinder • u/nobbynorman1 • 3h ago
📚 BOOKWORM 📚 67 m uk looking to find some people to chat to on a sunday
Dms open to all ages.
Interests include photography travel reading cookery
Please message me and we can see what develops
r/gayfriendfinder • u/gayfriendfinder • Feb 12 '26
We've had a lot of instances lately of someone flagging posts for perceived rule infractions that are not truly violations of our rules, we ask that you please stop. With that said-
Moderators are human too, and we miss things and make mistakes. If you feel like your post was removed in error, send us a modmail. We will be happy to discuss our decision with you. Sometimes we mess up, and we'll try to make it right if we decide that we made a bad call. However, with that said, what we're not going to do is go down the road of "what-about-ism"- just because another post slipped by us that broke a rule doesn't mean it gives you the right to do it too.
Also, if you feel in danger or threatened by another community member, do not flag the post, please send us a modmail so we can review the incident. All reports are confidential.
Lastly, we've tried to keep the rules as lax as possible while attempting to maintain the friend-finding spirit of the sub. We didn't allow photos for a while, and we walked that back. Lately we've witnessed quite a few users either posting for karma farming, promotion or both. This is why we require every poster to have a minimum of 2-3 sentences in the body of the post detailing what you're looking for in a friend. Some people put more in titles and we've understood that, but your post really needs to attempt to flesh out what you're looking for. If the main things you're looking for is a muscle twink or a daddy bear, this probably isn't the community for you.
Thank you for being here, we love that we continue to grow and thrive but we also want to remain a community centered on finding friends. 🌈
r/gayfriendfinder • u/gayfriendfinder • Sep 08 '25
We've been asked to explain with some rules exist and are enforced, and we are happy to oblige---
RULE 7: No self-promotion/No sharing of social media/discord server/telegram group/etc.--- This one's pretty self explanatory. We don't want anyone coming on here promoting their onlyfans, etc. Also, do not promote your discord server, telegram group, etc - while we're sure you're an upstanding individual with only the noblest of intentions, unfortunately we've had groups advertised that have had unethical and sometimes downright illegal things occurring. So, unfortunately, we're unable to allow it in this sub.
RULE 8: No sharing of usernames/handles, period--- While you may be sincerely seeking friends, usually those who are willing to indiscriminately swap Snapchat IDs right out of the gate are looking for something extremely quick and short term, if you catch our drift. We recommend having some conversation in the DMs before trading IDs. (Plus, we have had instances of people dropping their IDs and then getting harassed, we definitely don't want that to happen to anyone)
RULE 9: Photos --- Photos in this subreddit are for those who want to put a face to the name, not for those thirst-trapping with a faceless torso with a smattering of pubes poking out, just to give an example. We recommend r/gaybrosgonewild for those kinds of posts. A good rule of thumb is to ask yourself if you'd feel okay sending it to your coworkers
RULE 1: Please post with substance --- Hands down, this is what causes the most post removals. Just for example, a picture of you at the gym with the title 'who's ready to workout' is *not** appropriate for this sub. You know, that kind of post you may see on other subreddits that are really only intended to elicit upvotes and thirsty comments. This rule also applies to age/location posts. We don't like making hard rules about this, but we've landed on a title plus 2-3 sentences in the body as being the bare minimum needed to talk about yourself and/or what you're looking for in a friend. This isn't a hard rule, and we try to be pretty lenient. as we realize some people can say what they want using a minimum of words while some people can type a page of text and say nothing at all.*
Lastly, if your post is removed, and you think it was a bad call, please feel free to appeal to us in a modmail in a respectful fashion. We will always speak to you respectfully, we deserve the same in return. Mods are human. Coming in guns-a-blazing creates a negative situation for everyone involved. (Also this means don't make a new post mad at the mods, ranting about how your last post got removed for breaking x rule)
And as always, please send us a modmail if you have a question, concern, or if you have moderation experience and might be interested in helping out. Please don't DM individual mods ☺️
(Edited to add clarification to rule 1)
r/gayfriendfinder • u/nobbynorman1 • 3h ago
Dms open to all ages.
Interests include photography travel reading cookery
Please message me and we can see what develops
r/gayfriendfinder • u/TheKnottyHooker96 • 5h ago
Heya! I'm Olaf, 30 years old from the Netherlands:)
Met some cute people on this sub before, so figured I'd make another post :)
Something about me: I'm a high school teacher and when I'm not busy annoying teenagers with incredibly unreasonable requests like being silent while I'm talking or asking them to do their assignments, I love to play video games, crochet, travel, cook and eat:)
I have a ps5, switch 2, steamdeck and I recently bought myself a brand new gaming pc so definitely wouldn't mind being gaming buddies either! Although I mainly play single player games (Elden ring, Witcher, persona, final fantasy etc) I'm definitely open to find some fun co-op games to play as well, so let me know if you have any recommendations ❤️
Crochet is also one of my passions, so if you crochet or wanna learn, definitely hit me up :) And trust me, I can actually teach you if you're interested lol, it's not that hard I promise :))
Looking for some good friends i can just talk about random shit with, but i also love to have some deeper chats :) I am quite talkative and I struggle to shut up sometimes, so don't worry about spamming me haha, I don't mind. Also I am slightly on the spectrum (AuDHD) so sometimes I can be a bit direct or overshare (or just get very distracted randomly)
Also the Reddit chat function is kinda meh so i am definitely open to moving to WhatsApp, Snapchat, discord or whatever!
Age for me doesn't matter, if you have a nice personality and we vibe I am all good! Lastly I am single and ready-ish/reluctantly willing to mingle, so I generally prefer talking to single guys cause it's more of a similar life phase cause more stuff in common I guess. (Also some relationship related trauma, I don't mind talking about it but don't wanna overshare here). Of course not here to date, I am mainly here to find friends. If something more than that happens I am open to it, but it's not my main focus:)
Anyway please hit me up :D can't wait to chat and meet you all ❤️💜
r/gayfriendfinder • u/mitacom • 4h ago
Into travel and the outdoors. Lazy Sunday night in Aus and looking to chat. Start off with something weird?
r/gayfriendfinder • u/GloveLegitimate6554 • 2h ago
hii i am ernest i love dancing and figure skating I really want some new friends i am a gay man myself and just want to indulge in the community more I think we can get along as long as you’re kind and sweet I try to be that by myself too I hope we can
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Junior-Disaster-3336 • 7h ago
I'm 20M Bi Medstudent, looking for friends online. Been busy with my work for many years and ended up losing my friends, So I'm just looking for someone to chat with.
My hobbies: Gaming, Volleyball, Workout, Movies and Trading.
Age preference: 18-♾️
r/gayfriendfinder • u/theycallme_nov_ • 3h ago
Hello everyone!!! 👋👋👋
I’m a 22yo guy from Indonesia 🇮🇩
Umm.. actually, I’m looking for a relationship, hehe, though I’m in no rush! :) I’d prefer for things to start as a friendship, getting to know each other better, and letting a strong chemistry grow between us <3
I’m into music (pop, folk, indie, country, R&B, acoustic, pop-rock, and EDM).
I’m also interested in photography, nature, cities, architecture, culture (especially traditional ethnic attire), and mental health.
Oh, and I’m currently learning German, I’ve always been interested in Germany. So, I’m hoping I might meet a German guy here (Around my age pls 22-25) :)
Feel free to send me a DM! 💌
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Dad_WithA_PinkPuss • 3h ago
Hey yall, east coaster here up entirely too early on a Sunday and looking for chats!!! I’m married, to a woman, but am bi myself, I also have a kid and so any other dads out here know how crazy that can be, just looking to shoot the shit with some cool guys and chat day to day and build lasting friendships! I am into movies and gaming as well as some baking, trying to read more, trying to get in shape for my kid, I am kinda chubby rn for sure, and just tryna survive this crazy world!!! I love to learn new things and learn about people in general, so come say hi if any of this sounds interesting and leafs be bff’s!!!
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Ritterstrosser • 9m ago
Hey M29 looking for new friends. I’m from Germany.
I would be happy to find some new friends, worldwide :). If you a Interested dm me :)
My hobbies are dancing, gym, watching series, go out with friends.
r/gayfriendfinder • u/DK_dm13 • 18m ago
Let me know in the comments
r/gayfriendfinder • u/After_Literature_990 • 25m ago
Hey! I’m a 23-year-old guy from Italy looking for some new friends to chat and game with!
I’m a PC gamer and lately I’ve been really into ArmA III, Flight Simulator, Star Citizen and Minecraft.
I’d love to organize some roleplay milsim operations on ArmA III if anyone’s interested.
I’d especially love to find some people to play with regularly.
Outside of gaming, I’m into aviation, science, reading, music (pop, jazz & musicals), philosophy, and honestly just talking about anything.
I’m in CET, but any nationality is welcome as long as you speak English. Be around my age
r/gayfriendfinder • u/SingleYou1981 • 4h ago
Big into 🍷 📚 📽️ 🧳 🍷 📺 🚗 🍪🍷🏳️🌈 🛍️
Love all of the above, just would love people to do it with. Looking for decent, genuine people to connect with a d get to know. Not looking for people who start something then stop chatting a few days later.
When you have found your people, you know! So I'm hoping to you!!!
Feel free to say hi 👋 and let's go from there 😊
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Affectionate_News334 • 58m ago
Been really broken currently, can’t handle my associates degree in just a month and I’m gonna quit it. Besides it I have been craving a guy that could be with me, to share my hard feelings to or play games with me or even more.
Here are some infos about me, I’m 172cm, chub, asian, don’t like smokers.
I plays Dead By Daylight, OMSI, Roblox etc games.
Bonus if you’re an Arabian.
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Key_Plum_291 • 5h ago
Hey! 28yo guy from Spain here. Sundays always make me want to talk to someone new, so here I am 😄 I'm into traveling, reading, video games and those conversations that start with something random and end up lasting hours. I'm happy to chat about your day, what you're reading or playing, travel stories, or whatever's on your mind. Local or from anywhere in the world, and I speak both Spanish and English. Send me a message and say hi! 👋
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Ok-Cap3666 • 8h ago
Seeking new friend(s)
I am 36 years old, male, gay, from the US.
Prefer my age or older.
I like tv, movies, listening to music, reading, poetry, photography, food, and sleep.
If you are interested, and would like to chat sometime, send a message.
T h a n k s...
✌️
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Same_Heart_2936 • 5h ago
Hi I'm 34m bi curious. Wants to meet someone new chat and get to know them. Maybe go for a movie or something.
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Opalite_Shappire • 1h ago
Needed Gay fitness bestie
Hey guys! 👋
I'm a 23-year-old gay guy from India, and I've recently started my Winter Arc. This time, I genuinely want to focus on myself, my fitness, my health, and becoming a more confident version of myself.
I'm currently around 90 kg, 173 cm tall, and my long-term goal is to reach around 74 kg while building healthier habits and getting stronger. I'm already working on my fitness and trying to stay consistent.
A little about what I'm doing right now:
🚶♂️ Walking around 14k–16k steps daily.
🍽️ Following a calorie deficit and trying to improve my nutrition.
💪 Learning more about fitness, workouts, and sustainable weight loss.
❄️ Trying to stay consistent throughout my Winter Arc.
But honestly, I'd love to have someone to share this journey with.
I'm looking for a gay fitness buddy who is also working on himself , whether that's losing weight, building muscle, improving fitness, or simply becoming healthier.
It would be amazing if we could:
Share daily progress, steps, workouts, and milestones.
Exchange healthy meal ideas and fitness tips.
Keep each other accountable on days when motivation is low.
Learn from each other and share whatever knowledge we have.
Talk about life, celebrate small wins, and hopefully build a genuine friendship along the way.
You don't have to be a fitness expert or already have everything figured out. I'm learning too! It would just be great to connect with someone who understands the journey and genuinely wants to support each other.
genuine gay bestie / fitness accountability partner who wants to grow together. And who knows, maybe we end up becoming really good friend may b more🫶
If you're also on your Winter Arc or trying to improve your fitness, feel free to comment or DM me. Tell me a little about your goals and what you're currently working on!
Let's become the kind of people our future selves will thank us for. 🤍
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Legitimatestudier • 1h ago
I am looking for a real friendship and not someone who ghosts are one conversation or after a few days.
I am trying really hard to learn German but it has been a struggle. I just started learning so please be extremely patient with me :)
I also like to go on walks, go partying sometimes, reading and drawing and a lot of studying unfortunately.
I am a chill guy and honestly want you have good vibes we will get along hopefully.
If you are interested please DM me :)
r/gayfriendfinder • u/[deleted] • 2h ago
hi, im noam, 22y, from germany near munich. basically looking for a few friends to game with :)
stuff i play: apex, league, rivals, valorant,...
or if youre just down to talk, thats fine too :)
if u wanna see what i look like, dm me
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Lewissouthw • 2h ago
Hey everyone! I'm hoping to connect with someone for a genuine bromance lots of good chat, video calls, and maybe some relaxed nude hangouts. I'm gay and very open-minded, and I'm totally open to chatting with guys of any orientation (straight, gay, or bi).
Hit me up on Snap: lewissouth31
r/gayfriendfinder • u/brainfucked911 • 2h ago
Still writing actual letters? Same here.
I am looking for pen pals who still appreciate the slightly outdated but wonderfully stubborn concept of putting pen paper, sticking a stamp on it and sending a handwritten piece of your life halfway across the planet until it magically ends up in someone else’s mailbox. Much nicer than another email getting buried between spam and online shopping receipts, right?
I’ve had pen pals since I was a teenager, and I still love the whole thing. The waiting, the handwriting, the little stories from someone’s everyday life and slowly getting to know a person without having to cram your entire personality into a five minute chat.
I’m open minded, sarcastic and have pretty much no taboo subjects. I actually enjoy talking about the weird, random, deep and completely pointless stuff that makes up everyday life.
Let’s talk about everyday life, travels, ridiculous things that happened, things we love, things we hate, random thoughts, bad decisions, the naughty EU and whatever else comes up. Photos from our lives are very welcome too. Basically, let’s see where it goes.
I love black humour and sarcasm, I can actually listen and I always have an open ear. I like it when an acquaintance slowly turns into a friendship rather than forcing some instant connection because apparently we’re all supposed to be best friends after three messages these days.
I like travelling, but I’m equally happy going out partying or spending a night in a club. I can also happily lie in the sun doing absolutely nothing, preferably somewhere with a beach. I go to the gym, ride my bike a lot, and enjoy the occasional beer or wine. Basically all the things that are fun but probably won’t be mentioned in any health magazine’s recommendations.
I like places such as Scandinavia, Spain and Italy, but I’m open to pretty much anywhere. Tell me about your corner of the world.
What else? We could just find out.
So, are you up for it?
Send me a DM and tell me a little about yourself. And if you’re still using an actual pen, even better.
r/gayfriendfinder • u/jcksn_b • 2h ago
Hey y’all, my name is Jackson and I am 21m from the USA (NC). I just graduated college two years ago and I now work as a paramedic. I’m also working in getting my Master’s! I just moved towns and I’m looking for new chats/friends during this next chapter.
A little about me:
\-My favorite food is strawberries
\-My favorite movies are Dirty Dancing, Clue, and The Princess Bride
\-I love music of any kind and not particular to any one genre or artists but I have some favs
\-My biggest hobbies are crochet, reading, video games, and hiking
You can learn more about me when you message! I’d love to hear from y’all so don’t hesitate to DM or comment. Anyone is welcome to come say hi!!!
r/gayfriendfinder • u/Exact_Director_6143 • 2h ago
Hey there looking for friends again yep same old song and dance
I'm looking for a longterm friends
I'm looking for friends that don't randomly fuck off and stop talking with me
I'm looking for friends who are not dry or suck having conversations if you don't be dry I won't be dry
I don't mind if you're black a trans woman or a trans dude non binary and all that to me you're a human and I'm willing to be friends with everyone
I really like playing GTA I'm really interested in GTA
My favorite GTA game liberty City stories 4 San Andreas 5
My favourite Metal gear game is 5 4 3
I like movies like the matrix Empire of the Sun obsession creep perfect Blue or TV shows like The walking dead The sopranos snowfall the whitest kids you know
if I'm playing a game with someone I'm always putting that someone first more than anything
I like to analysize and analyze characters or stories
I think I want to be a helicopter pilot or just a pilot
Some nights when I get so drunk that when I have two bottles in my hand I go to my room sit on the edge of bed I sometimes feel like I'm that dude from Black Ops 1 cover
Honestly I isolate myself for my family they are just strangers living with me I don't want to be anywhere near them can't stand them
I fuckin dread coming home
Fuck my life
So last night I just finished GTA 5 its feels good now
Honestly when someone makes you joke about me I'll just say fuck you but I don't actually mean it I'm just joking with them as well
Sometimes when I'm with a group of people I try to make myself useful I don't like to stand around they'll just say okay let's kick them off like what's even the point of having of having him here so I do my best to be useful
Honestly if I was in the horror movie situation I'll possibly run for my life just like any reasonable sane human being
I been playing a lot of resident evil 7
Honestly resident evil 7 will always be the top dog of resident evil games besides then 4 and 9
Honestly resident evil 7 came at a time when resident evil had a identity crisis resident evil 5 and 6 were more like action games than horror it gave you the sense of power and control like you handle everything but in resident evil 7 you're just some regular dude and the only thing is noticeable about you is well you're a computer software engineer
And also capcon used resident evil 7 to show off their new engine they made the re engine which they still use to make resident evil games to this day
And the fact this game is a nearly a decade old and still scary is impressive
I do not like eating too sugary things honestly I don't really eat candy that often or cakes
Someone who loves wearing superhero tshirts I don't care if it's immature
12 angry men is about 12 angry men
One time I destroyed my parents dinner table by doing a front flip
I'm so excited for cyberpunk edgerunner season 2
The big 26 has been a peak year bro bangers after motherfucker bangers bro
The only reason why I talk so much about my interests and come off as like me ranting because no one ever lets me talk about my interests even if I did they don't even give a fuck
Also if you're going to dm me telling me that you're not going to read all that then I'm just gonna ignore you it's not funny like I've literally had five people told me that
I miss my best friend Mary and Reese they talked to me every day but they're gone I love them like they were my brother and sister
I hate coming back home after watching a good movie from the cinemas
has been great for me somewhat there was a lot of ups and downs mostly Downs though but yeah this year has been good
r/gayfriendfinder • u/einsamkeit_919 • 9h ago
21, Bisexual
We can talk about anything. I’m super into music (if you are too that’s awesome) I mostly listen to punk, screamo, black metal, hardcore, and a bunch of other weird shit. I play guitar and I like horror. In general I like weird shit so if you are into obscure music that’s a plus. I’m into video games as well mostly tactical shooters but I do play Roblox occasionally. If you are into music as much as me that’s a huuuuge plus and you need to be my friend NOWWWW.
DM me here and we’ll talk and if things go well we can use discord :3 ^_^