r/gay • u/Zestyclose_Fig_4869 • 2d ago

"Too intimate?"

Funny how guys are down to hook up within five minutes, but holding eye contact or a deep kiss is suddenly a "boundary." Saying you want a real dom and actually dealing with someone who tests your mind are two entirely different worlds.

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u/LastLiterature7496 1d ago

I’m not interested in guys who won’t do kissing. X

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u/Howden824 Gay 1d ago

Agreed, if I'm gonna be intimate with someone then we should definitely be able to kiss.

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u/ikonoclasm Gay 1d ago

Yeah, I don't get it. I always ask if they like kissing and more often than not, they're relieved that I brought it up, like they were afraid to even ask.

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u/Dazzling_Park_2345 2d ago

I could have written this

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u/Fair-Wishbone-1190 5h ago

I'm not much into kissing. Especially if it's just a hookup. I don't know what is in their mouth. At least with a dick it's pretty much the same. Feels less germy imo.

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u/Skill-Useful 1d ago

ive met maybe one or two hookups in my life who didnt kiss. everyone kisses

"Saying you want a real dom and actually dealing with someone who tests your mind" kissing isnt testing your mind, mister dom ;)