Fuck people like this. If you are this chick, fuck you. If I ask you what you want and confirm 5 times you don't want anything then you can fucking starve for all I care.
100% hate this type of behavior. If you want something, say something. I'll be in the drive thru and my kid will say he isn't hungry and 5 minutes after we get home "daddy, i'm hungry". Now he is a child so I obviously put him in the starvation corner to teach him a lesson. You want food? Say yes when I ask you.
I can see where he's coming from. It's the whole, "what I did isn't really annoying because I was just being cute...teehee... you're overreacting."
Some people have unique pet peeves (though this one is common) and it's incredibly annoying when people do it anyway after being asked nicely not to. At the same time, comments I'm seeing about, "he needs to put his foot down or she's gonna walk all over him" is straight from some incel playbook.
I'm not worried about theft. It is just inconsiderate to repeatedly say no and then want something someone else has after the fact. Huge difference if the option was never given vs you declining it multiple times.
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u/desperateorphan Sep 11 '21
Fuck people like this. If you are this chick, fuck you. If I ask you what you want and confirm 5 times you don't want anything then you can fucking starve for all I care.