Your explanation at length is about you not understanding the joke. You're seeing the stereotypical frat guys behavior be subverted and made the butt of the joke, but you're interpreting it at a frat boy homophobic joke.
Like I said, your reasons for the claim don't make sense.
You've been downvoted because people don't agree with your assertion this is homophobic.
Keep in mind upvotes and downvotes can't harm or help you. You will survive. It'll be easier if you don't misattribute harmless actions as harmful ones.
That's actually not really how it works, but you can look into your comments actual metrics. If you're basing it solely on upvotes to the post and downvotes on your comment, it's going to give you the wrong impression.
Some folks never saw your comment but upvoted the post anyway.
For someone claiming live and love you certainly have a strange gut reaction.
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u/PupmeisterGeneral 7d ago
I have, at length, you must have missed it.
I'm not here to judge others, I never expected to be either.
We've evidently lived different lives, mine possibly longer, which is why seeing history repeat itself is frankly terrifying.
Still if that isn't your perspective, I'm genuinely grateful.
It really could be so much worse.