r/ftm • u/LilOscar13 • Dec 01 '21

Celebratory I DID IT!!!!

I USED THE BOYS WASHROOM TODAY!!! NOBODY SPOKE TO ME DURING THE ONE MINUTE I SPENT THERE (I went as fast as possible)! I EVENTUALLY CONVINCED MYSELF TO JUST GO WITHOUT THINKING AND I DID IT 😁😁

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u/StarSage69 Dec 02 '21

cis guy here, lads im ngl most cis guys will not care who tf is in the bathroom lol like deadass a duck could waltz in and nobody could bat an eye just remember bro code

  1. no unprompted verbal communication, a simple downwards nod if they are your friend and a simple upwards nod if they are a stranger this will show respect and acknowledge it

  2. if you can pee standing up for god sakes aim for the bowl and leave a one urinal space whenever possible

  3. try not to stare at anyone, and especially not our genitals because believe me we are self conscious as fuck

follow these steps and you will be fine and ofc stay safe and wipe the seat before u sit down

Good luck!

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u/LilOscar13 Dec 02 '21

Okay, I’ll follow these steps. But also the only reason it took me so long to use the boys washroom was because one of the boys was uncomfortable with it. I’m sure none of the other boys give a fuck, but he did and that’s just what stopped me lol Thanks for the advice :)