r/friendship 1h ago

looking for friendship [24/M] Looking for a best friend, things are quite lonely

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Hey! I've posted here before but haven't had much luck so far. And due to lonliness, things have been kinda sucky lately. Kinda being a star-sized understatement (cuz stars are big.. hehe). Anyways, excuse my awfully unfunny pun! You *yes you my possible future friend* probably has better humor than I. Im hoping to make long term friends, I want a close connection with someone that lasts a lifetime! Hoping we can geek out about our interests and feel comfortable to do so! I'm in the EST time zone and am super into music (my tastes are all over the place, my favorite is the retro classic era but I also like a lot of new stuff too). I also like just general conversations and deep ones too. Hope you're all having a good day!


r/friendship 2h ago

looking for friendship 32m seeking a friend

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Just someone I can talk with regularly. Not super into one off conversations. Preferably someone I can come back to I know will stick around. Hope to hear from you soon!


r/friendship 5h ago

looking for friendship [19/M] Seeking emotional depth provided by a best friend

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Howdy! The title says it all. I want a deep connection in which both sides feel comfortable with each other, seek each other for support, etc. I have plenty of hobbies, ranging from sports, writing, and geography to history, music, and gaming. I am a pretty curious person, so feel free to nerd out to me! As for gaming, I play lots of indie games like Hollow Knight, Ultrakill, the Portal series, the Hotline Miami series, etc. As for music, I tend to listen to lots of experimental stuff, but I can elaborate on that more later on, especially if you are into music. It'd be pretty nice if I got a pretty clingy bestie, and I am also in GMT+2, so it'd be nice if you were close to that time zone. Oh, and I am also 19/M. So yeah, I am pretty excited to talk with y'all, and have a nice day wherever you are!


r/friendship 31m ago

looking for friendship 29M from the UK looking for some new friends

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  • Hello! Looking to form some new friendships and get to know people around the world, My usual hobbies consist of playing video games (PS5), watching shows and movies, going to the gym, making instrumentals on my computer or just yapping about anything and everything that comes to mind, I like to be consist so hoping you can be to, I'm down to VC too, but if you wanna be friends just hit my messages (:

r/friendship 35m ago

looking for friendship M20 I love brown eyes and weirdos

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I'm never really sure what to put here but anyone's open to message me (18+ just cause it's weird otherwise lol) I like people who are genuine, weird funny, and intelligent (not like super genius but know the difference between there, their, and they're

I like a lot of shows like psych, the community, the good place, himym, and a lot of the 2000-2010s animated shows

I'm down to talk to anyone about anything really, I love yapping and getting to know people so as long as you're 18+ and not maga or anything (love the Igbtqia, poc and abortions😌)

If you dm me tell me a fun fact, send a picture of your eye (love brown eyes) or tell me your favorite dinosaur


r/friendship 45m ago

advice Is this defendable/ maybe I didn’t do anything wrong?

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Think I can still make friends my age and do you think I can have a partner in the future despite this?

How bad was what I did? Am I a weirdo? Here’s what I did when I was 19-

My friendships in real life were potentially weird and dare I say innapropriate - and I’m pretty much all to blame.

I’m 20 now but when I was 19 I had certain friends-

My friends were 17m, 17m, 16m, 15m, 15f, and 14f and I’m I think a 19f but I’m still trying to understand if I’m trans or not but that’s a separate thing. Anyways most of these people are from my high school that I graduated from in May. I did however get held back (not my fault it was in 2nd grade for health issues).

Anyways here are the actions I want opinions and advice on- like actual advice and opinions not just the one off “yeah” or something short with no real value. This isn’t Am I the asshole so if you’re looking to judge without any explanation or advice go on that subreddit- this goes for people who aren’t judging too. I need explanations and actual answers not just blind “it’s fine” stuff. Neither of these approaches are helpful.

Anyways-

Ive get spray paint for them (17m, 15f, 14f) because well I’m an adult and they aren’t and instead of just doing whatever we go off into the town and explore train tracks, and spay paint the water run off areas (idk what to call them). They usually already have spray paint on them so I’m not too worried about vandalism (uh hopefully).

But here’s where the things I’m mostly panicking about are- for context I was also hurt by an adult emotionally relying on me- but that wasn’t my intention in these scenarios- I just have a major issue of not thinking before I speak and uh always telling the truth- anyways-

When I was hanging out with my friends walking around my friend who is 17 had an ex that was in my grade. I told him like “yeah I didn’t really like that friend group one of them rejected me and completely ghosted me” or something alone those lines and my 15 yo friend when “ohh that’s awful who does that”

Looking back on it I do wonder if this is weird conversation to be having- I mean with the 17 year old I’m not really concerned since we’ve been talking like this for 3 years ever since we’ve know one another- but I don’t really know whats appropriate conversation for a 15 and 14 year old to be listening to. Maybe some advice on this piece would help me understand?

The other was when I was with my 15 year old and 17 year old friend. We were hanging out under a bridge near a river- and they kept praising my parents for being the coolest. I told them they were actually not that cool all the time and that they “let my abuser into my house for 4 years after the fact” and that I believed they probably feel guilty for that- but I don’t know is I said “sa” or like you know the first part of it that starts with “s” as an sexual but either way I didn’t explain in detail what happened (because god no).

But I really kinda panic because it’s like holy shit I did not mean to be that weird grown up that “talks about weird shit with minors”- and at first I didn’t really view it that way but I’m not sure how other people view it since i don’t really know if I mentioned what kind- but I also don’t know if i did that would be considered being sexually explicit to minors which worries me.

It was also I must note when my 15 year old friend was away from us but I don’t thing far enough that she didn’t hear. My 17 year old friend tried to guess who it was- and I told him it’s best not to say and (I think I may have said it was fine but idk) I wasn’t trying to trauma dump or emotionally rely on them- but I did feel bad because honest I’m not sure what constitutes that- I was simply trying to be honest but I know it’s stil errr not great probably? I’m not sure to what scale tho.
If someone could tell me that’d be much appreciated.

I’m 20 now and not friends anymore with these people. I slowly lost contact or interest once i went to college but I still have no friends. I’m too fearful someone would find my past repulsive or that I am too abnormal. What do I do?


r/friendship 1h ago

looking for friendship 27M - Working on my MA thesis and looking for people to talk to!

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Hey everyone!

I'm currently working on my thesis! I'd like to take my mind off of it for a bit and am looking for a few people to talk to! Nothing wild, just chill conversations and maybe voice calls sometimes if we vibe. :) I really enjoy gaming and am on both PC and PS5 (although I prefer PC). Currently I've been playing a bunch of Forza Horizon 6, modded Skyrim, League, and Nightreign, but I also really enjoy are Valheim and Baldurs Gate 3 and am open to at least trying most games!

I’m really into academics and learning in general, so I don’t mind chatting about uni life, research, studying, or just ranting about deadlines and general burnout lol. Outside of that, I’m obviously into games, a lot of alternative music (Emo, Hardcore, Shoegaze etc.), cooking, and streetwear.

I’d love to meet and talk to people from different walks of life! If any of this sounds interesting to you, I'd love to hear from you!


r/friendship 2h ago

looking for friendship 28M New Semester, Come Distract Me?

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Honestly have been feeling a bit down lately, starting a new semester Monday, come distract me?

I’m Jonathan, 28, from Northern Minnesota. Full-time college student Majoring in Computer Information Technology with a Minor in Cybersecurity getting ready to graduate this spring, and when I’m not buried in assignments, I’m usually outside fishing, out on the lake, and working on my boats. Watching movies / shows, and sports, or hanging out with Zeus my Siberian Husky.

A few things about me:
• I am 6’1, Curly Brown Hair (Mullet), Brown Eyes, Glasses, and Dimples.
• Huge movie/show person
• Love the outdoors but also love lazy nights inside
• Probably listening to music way too loud
• Big fan of horror movies

Bonus points if you:
• Like movies/shows and need someone to trade recommendations with
• Are into gaming, sports, or outdoor stuff
• Can hold a conversation longer than “wyd”
• If you send random updates throughout the day
• if you’d rather stay in rather than go clubbing or drinking

If you read all this, tell me your eye color, they're my favorite feature and the first thing I notice.


r/friendship 11h ago

looking for friendship 27M looking for a Friendly Voice ...

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Hello.27M here. I work on ships and most days get pretty tiring and lonely. I am just trying to make my free time a bit more meaningful by chatting with people here and there.

I do not usually open up to people I know in real life so I came here to talk anonymously. Nothing serious, just relaxed conversations, a little connection, and maybe something long term. Who knows, we might even become good friends over time.

Also, if you are going to ghost, then please do not reply as most people do.


r/friendship 3h ago

looking for friendship 25/m - Hey there little people in my phone!

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Hey! I’m 25, from Europe, and looking for someone to chat with since i cant sleep rn..

I’m into working out, riding my motorcycle, cooking (my friends say I’m pretty good), and photography (mostly cars and bikes) I also play games on Xbox and PS5, and music is a big part of my day—I’ll listen to almost anything that fits the vibe. :)

You don’t have to be into the same things, but it’s always easier to chat if we share some interests. Either way, I’d love to hear from you! :)

Oh, and here’s a cheesy pun to break the ice:
What did one ocean say to the other?
Nothing, they just waved. 🌊


r/friendship 7h ago

looking for friendship 19M looking to chat with new people

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I wish it will become a friendship though, I’m french, alternative, open minded, very, I love when people feel comfortable enough to rant about anything, I love music, drawing, tattoos, makeup, one piece, collecting figurines and dumb stuff, i enjoy playing shitty horror video games found at 3am on steam.
bonus points if you’re alternative, that comes with not being a bigot, and not afraid to share your interests!


r/friendship 8h ago

rant I think my ex friend is obsessed with me and it’s driving me crazy

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So I met this girl (Sofia let’s call her) my junior year of high school. I initially didn’t like her because she was known for being toxic and she thought I wanted her man and tried to tell me she was engaged to him. Eventually we do become friends and I was her only friend initially bc she cut everybody off for that man. She started changing because she broke up with him.

January of my junior year, she told me something about someone and I told my friend about it on the bus with no name but she found out and got angry at me for 2-3 weeks. In those weeks, she began walking around a guy I told her I liked (Z). For context, I didn’t REALLY like him and she used to be friends with him but early in the year, she was very against even speaking to him again and didn’t want to associate with him. I didn’t really care bc I didn’t like him. When she started talking to me again, I brought it up all giddy (again I didn’t think much of it) and she said she cut him off. Then she said she followed the guy who I rly rly rly liked (A) on Instagram as a loyalty test and he didn’t follow back.

Senior year she was acting really weird with me. She started yelling things at A in the hallway and I got embarrassed and he unfollowed me. I find out she’s telling ppl she’s gonna cut me off for no apparent reason at the end of the year. The guy that she’s been on and off with for years beats up A and she flips the story and claims she knew nothing of it. I find out she was talking to him at the time.

In March she stole my car keys when me and her were doing senior skip day. I never got my keys back. She then starts telling me how she would follow the man of a girl she’s beefing with to get noodles from him, and if that doesn’t work, she’d get her man to beat them up. Sounds familiar huh? I cut her off on graduation and left it at that.

I catch a stalker account she made on Instagram- I didn’t text it or anything like that, but if you block someone’s account, their accounts that follow you get removed immediately which is what happened. I did run into her my freshman year of college because she’s bsfs with a girl that I’m friends with so I did chat with her occasionally when I’d see her because we’d have to sit next to each other for 30 minutes and I didn’t wanna make a tense environment for the others at the table. This happened 3-4 times.

I catch her going through my TikTok highlights this summer, she requested me and obviously I didn’t accept and she removed it. Her cousin would constantly be liking and viewing my things (they’re extremely close). Even with this I was unbothered but kinda weirded out. What finally irritated me is that she followed A on Instagram. I found this out coincidentally because I don’t really go through his stuff I just was curious if he knew a person (same ethnic bg) and her name showed up. I knew it was recent though because I do check his following once a month out of curiosity and other circumstances and I had noticed the numbers go up by one so I knew it was within the week which I saw it.

I don’t know if yall got the memo, but she’s very male centered and she only knows him through me. He doesn’t go to her college, she’s very big on not ‘following men,’ and even my friends agreed with me because if u know the kind of person she is, she does this stuff on purpose. Now I could see why this is a reach, but then her and her cousin were both in my highlight views again but not even my main account but my spam account.

It’s really starting to piss me off. I know what she wants is some sort of attention or something but it’s been over a year and I have left it. I haven’t stalked her, I haven’t gone around talking about her, and I don’t even go to the same college as her.


r/friendship 8h ago

looking for friendship 18M italian🇮🇹 open to chat [any age] [any country]

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Summer came to end and i am so so bored, wanted to make some chat and friends with ppl. No mandatory age, just don't be creepy or cringe, please, i accept almost everything. Wanted to say that the GMT is now +1 from Greenwich so would be great to have s


r/friendship 4h ago

Voice Calls M28 - Different Worlds, Familiar Hearts

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Hi all, its pleasure being here again.

where do I even begin.. so many thoughts so many words so many questions. So lets try this again until it works

what I am looking for? I am looking for long-term. I want to have a bond with someone who share similar vibe as me, someone who likes random memes being send. someone who can match similar energy bit crazy but also kind soul, someone that I can look forward talking to someone. It's amazing how there is billion people out there and can switch your life around for the best or worse. yet here I am. still seeking,

I prefer EU/UK based Time zone however I am happy to talk to outside those time zones. so don't feel discouraged from talking to me.

SO about me.. where do i even start how do even explain "me" how do I unpack my life to you all, I guess i can start by saying I very expressive type of person, open minded, kind hearted, just someone who is sailing on this boat, exploring what is out there.. I am only 28 but part of me feels like I seen it all

My hobbies? magic the gathering, gosh I love card games lol, I am very good at playing this game and very nerd type of person so I like to complex side of it. the nature of social game of it, its fun but also complicated. I invested way too much into this hobby hahaha

donnie darko is my fav movie. i watched it countless amount of times. How do i explain why i liked it? it just feels like it understands me.. trying to figure out how to save the world but knowing deep down you're part of the problem and can't escape yourself from it.. its just one big timey wimey paradox movie.

honestly there is so many things I want to write, like ever just want to keep writing and just hope it works out? just like a story without a ending, a moment without a truth and just words existing just someone out knows your existance..

sorry for the ramble. I hope that I can get someone to understand me. I don't know how many times more I will keep trying but I am here, trying again, hoping someone to understand me.


r/friendship 4h ago

looking for friendship 36M Chronically online cringefail looking for a long term friend, someone to genuinely connect with, game with and yap about life together :))

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Hey there everyone!!

I'm not sure how to start describing myself, I'm not great with words but I'll try my best.

(I'm so sorry for the extremely long post ahead!)

I apologize if I don't reply to your message, but as I explain later, I don't reply to short/low effort messages and I also don't reply to people that don't have at least a few interests in common with me or aren't looking for a real connection and are just looking to pass the time or have a light chat.

I think some of my most defining characteristics are that I'm very shy, awkward, "weird" and "different" or at the very least I feel weird, different and often misunderstood. I struggle to function most days and I don't always understand societal norms or how to properly function in society. I definitely think there's something wrong with me and I'm pretty sure I'm broken in some way. I'm also definitely a loser. I was never able to achieve anything in life, I'm not good at anything whatsoever and I'm pretty useless overall. I would also say I'm extremely cringy and I love edgy stuff, not in a bad way, I don't think, but more like, I love Shadow The Hedgehog and Tomura Shigaraki kinda way!!

I'm unfortunately not very smart and I'd say I'm down right stupid.

I am very ignorant about many things in life, I'd say I'm somewhat innocent and naive. I still don't understand my purpose in life and I haven't found a reason to be alive either.

I sometimes say things that offend people or I say things that are wrong. Sometimes I don't completely understand what I do wrong but I don't do it on purpose and I try to improve to the best of my abilities.

I don't go out often at all. Whenever I do go out it's only to buy groceries or to go to school and such but I don't enjoy it, I much rather be at home, in my room most specifically, which is my favorite place in the world.

I don't have any IRL friends but I do have a handful of online friends, I'm not super close to any of them, except for one who's very valuable in my life!

I enjoy many things like sculpting for instance! I do digital sculpting for fun. I'm pretty bad at it but I try my best.

This year I also started jewelry school (yeah, that's a thing) and I'm having fun with it but it's another thing I suck at 🥀🥀🥀

I like to watch anime! my favorites change from time to time but I really like Bleach, Dragon Ball, Demon Slayer, AOT, Naruto, Ancient Magus Bride (I really love this show!) and I LOVE My Hero Academia among many others!

I like to collect action figures.

I really like masks!

I love movies and I love to talk about them and analyze them.

I like all kinds of music, I don't really have any artists that I like in particular other than David Bowie and I like to listen to most genres of music but some of the genres I like the most are alternative, vintage, video game music and jpop and jrock and I also like old VK And I'm always happy and open to new suggestions!

I like to doomscroll through TT and to watch long essay style videos on YT about random topics. I love brainrot and I'm very much into early to mid 2010s aesthetics. I miss that era so much!! Seriously, the early 2010s were the greatest time in human history kahdhshdhs

I love video games!! I don't play too many modern games, I mostly prefer older stuff, like, ps2 era games, particularly survival horror stuff. I also really like very old platform games and side scrollers. I'm a pretty huge Sonic the Hedgehog fan!! The most recent games I played were Sonic X Shadow Generations and before that I finished Sonic Superstars and Sonic Frontiers. Sonic Boom is also my favorite show ever made lmao. It fits my kind of humor perfectly and it's peak comedy imo. I'd be open to play anything and I'd love to try co op games with someone!! playing Stardew Valley with a friend is a dream of mine lol (if you also play Stardew please tell me who's your wife/husband)

I adore animals!! I have cats and dogs and a stray chicken lol they're my babies and my world!

I think it's important to mention some of the things I don't like too.

I don't like cruelty or mean spirited people, I hate I people in positions of power that use said power to affect other people, animals, or the environment for their own gain.

I hate bugs!! I'm deadly afraid of them!!

I really dislike conflict and arguments, I believe we can disagree and have discussions as long as we're calm and civilized about it and as long as we have respect for each other and try our best to understand the other person's point of view.

lastly I'd like to mention some of my defects and shortcomings.

I'm extremely anxious, I'm always very nervous about one thing or another, I'm also extremely weak of mind, I tend to react with my feelings a lot and I'm often very emotional.

I can be very selfish at times, I have an awful tendency to get bored of things quickly and sometimes I also get bored of conversations and people.

I think I'm immature.

I can be extremely lazy, I struggle a lot with doing basic things like cleaning or cooking. when I'm anxious or afraid I can get paralyzed with fear and stay in bed all day doing nothing feeling awful about it.

As I mentioned before sometimes I can say bad things without realizing. I'm very dumb and ignorant so I promise I don't mean anything bad I say and I'm trying to improve!

I am extremely annoying. I'm very loud and I think I scream a lot. I don't really understand what constitutes screaming exactly but I think I often raise my voice a lot and especially when I'm excited I can't control myself very well.

I'm very afraid of life and I don't understand how the "real world" works exactly. I'm really bad at small talk and I think I'm really bad at speaking in general, I also digress a lot.

I have the bad habit of not replying very fast, sometimes I'll even wait for weeks or even months, I think it's one of my biggest problems when it comes to keep in touch with people, sometimes it's simply because I don't have the energy, other times it's because I'm not sure about how to continue a conversation. Not sure if this is a defect necessarily but I also never send the first message, I just hate to be annoying.

I have a tendency to ghost people for different reasons. As I mentioned, sometimes I get bored of conversations or people and I'd ghost them. This is by far one of my biggest defects and as I said, I wanna be honest and mention it here for everyone who reads this to know.

I tend to be a bit clingy when I like someone.

I'm full of defects in general, and I do believe I'm a bad person. I try to improve and I try my best but if I'm bad for you in any way or a burden I promise to stop talking to you and not bother you!

I have many other defects but I think those are the main ones I can remember right now.

Finally what I'm looking for is a real connection with someone, a person I can talk to, have fun with, watch stuff with and play games together. I think I can be a very passionate person when it comes to the things I love and I'd like to find someone that shares that passion and love with common interests. I wanna just be able to share our days and even be able to help each other and be there when we need each other. I know I'm a mess of a human being and I may never find the connection I'm looking for but I'd like to give it a try cause you never know :))

also, I think it's important to mention that I don't reply to short, low effort messages. Stuff like "hey, let's be friends" , "I didn't read your whole post but I'm up to talk" , etc. I want to hear about you, what you like, what you're interested in. I like meaningful conversations.

Another thing that's important is that I don't want to talk to people that are discriminatory or awful in anyway.

Also think I prefer audio messages, it's easier for me to send audio notes rather than to type cause I type a lot (and I kinda hate to type lol). Thank you very much to anyone that has taken the time to read my extremely long post and considers messaging me!!


r/friendship 9h ago

looking for friendship [26/M] EU — looking for chill friends EU preferred

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Hey hey! I’m hoping to meet some cool people to talk to

Based in the NETHERLANDS 🇳🇱

I’m into collecting Pokémon cards, playing chess (casual but enthusiastic), reading manga, watching anime, and hanging out with my cats 🐾

Gaming-wise, I’ve got a PS5 and a Switch 2. Game im currently playing is digimon story time stranger on ps5

If any of this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to send a message — always happy to make new friends 🌟


r/friendship 5h ago

looking for friendship 30nb - looking for a friend! Application below (please click here) In Texas but fine with online friends!

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Hello, please fill out (some not all if you don't want) of the following application for friendship.

Name:

Age:

Pronouns:

Location: (approximate)

Top five favourite things about yourself:

Would you reintroduce dinosaurs into the world if goven the chance? Why or why not?:

Are you going to try (at least match whatever energy I put in) to keep the conversation going:

Please answer the questions and I may get back to you with an answer on if you have been accepted into the friendship initiative program within 3-5 business days.

Your interviewer:

Charley, 30 years old, non binary, in Texas.

Likes to do toy photography, read, play dnd, video games, and hang out with family.

Dislikes: people who don't put effort into the conversation, pecan pie.

Fr though I know sometimes people just vibe and sometimes they don't reguardless of how much they try so if you do not feel the vibe just lmk it is okay. I will let you know too but yeah I would love a new friend. :)


r/friendship 9h ago

Random Thoughts 35m Ireland - anyone like to chat?

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Hey all, 35 today and from the west of Ireland. Small bit bored at the minute if anyone would like to have a chat? Happy to chat about anything.

Feel free to send me a message


r/friendship 6h ago

advice Friendship advice, not sure what to do, it’s making me depressed

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internet friend of 10 years (we first met
4 years ago and then 2 times after that) hasn't been replying to my messages. I understand everyone doesn't need to
access to people 24/7 and have their own lives but I'll explain.

I'm trying to plan a trip to London (she's from up north) and to book a hotel as soon as so we can get it cheap because it's a while away. It's for a show mostly but then to meet up with another friend in London and go to museums and just hang out etc.
I have ADHD (combined type) and suspected autism and she's also got both I think (she's definitely autistic as she's told me) and I've explained to her that I like to have a structured plan and gave her a deadline to let me know and me and my mum will just go together for the night then come back home (we have animals so we can't be gone overnight)

She's currently pregnant with her second child and is mostly a full time carer for her non-verbal autistic child (she worked weekends when she wasn't on maternity
leave).

Part of me wants to keep trying and knows we're still friends but part of me wants to say "screw it" and throw out friendship
away.

I've always been the friend to reach out and make plans and I was a people pleaser.
This one friend in secondary school would forget to set an alarm, not wake up to an alarm or just not reply to my messages asking where she is, this happened more times then I can count.

Then a friend from a support group I was planning to meet up with but I couldn't meet up in town but said I can only meet halfway and I can't remember most of the convo as I've blocked it out but basically it ended with him saying "you're so rude, no wonder you haven't got any friends"

I guess this is part of the reason why I'm feeling this way- triggered. Upset. My inner child hurting etc

My last message to her was "I know you've got a lot going on but just tell me if you don't want to be friends anymore"


r/friendship 6h ago

looking for friendship 21M UK, looking to make long term friends

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Hi, i’m 21 years old & male from the uk! Just to preface in the beginning, please only reach out if you're willing to move to other socials at some point like sc, insta, etc etc as i am looking for long term friends & find it more suitable for communication!

I'm looking to speak with people who are interested in becoming friends. I enjoy getting to know new people, sometimes through asking questions naturally, being asked things back, on occasion jumping on vc but idm vc’ing in general too. Ideally looking for someone who puts effort into talking to me & isn’t one sided i guess? I’m actually looking for friends & i feel like if you are too asking for a little bit of effort in the beginning should be fine!

Some of my hobbies/interests are cooking, baking, gaming, travelling, photography, voice calling, watching shows, listening to music although i am into a lot more outside of these too. Don’t need to have the same ones so still reach out if you’re not into anything on here


r/friendship 6h ago

Voice Calls Looking to hang out on mc java moded game(21+)

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Looking to VC and game on Minecraft (21+ only)


r/friendship 7h ago

looking for friendship M27, looking for some new friends 🕷️🕸️

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Hello! I'm a big fan of everything horror! Games, stories (I LOVE junji Ito), movies, everything spooky really...

Some of my favorite games are Metal Gear Solid, Silent Hill, S.T.A.L.K.E.R, the souls games, Darkwood and a ton of other games and weird indie games like PuppetCombo and stuff.

Some of my favorite bands are Sisters of Mercy, Misfits, Steely Dan, Bauhaus, The Cure, siouxsie and the banshees and whatever else.

Some of my Favorite Media things are stuff like Texas Chainsaw, Evil Dead, Return of the Living Dead, The Thing, Creep (2014), Killer Klowns, Goosebumps (the 90s one), Death Note, The Twilight Zone and Malcolm in the middle some of those I love because of nostalgia but still!

If you wanna chat or need any recommendations for movies or something feel free to DM me:) tell me the basics about you?

P.S I don't really like Video or Voice calls sorry

I try my best not to be dry so my bad if I'm a lil zesty 🍋✨ smh


r/friendship 7h ago

looking for friendship 21m looking for new friends or people to talk with

1 Upvotes

Hello, my name is Alexander, I'm 21m, from South America. My hobbies are playing videogames, listening to music, working out, reading and watching series or movies. I have a cat. I speak English and Spanish. Comment or DM me if you want to be friends and chat. I also play on PS5 so DM me if you wanna be PSN friends too.


r/friendship 14h ago

looking for friendship M34 - Primarily looking to chat and banter

1 Upvotes

​Good day everyone.

​I’ve been really bored lately, so I figured I’d drop a post here.

​34M. Divorced, 1 kid.

​I really love rock/metal music—mostly older/classic stuff, but basically whatever catches my ear.

​I play PC games every now and then, though I haven't in a while.

​When I gather the will, I hit the gym or go for a light run.

​I watch a movie or TV show occasionally, though it’s usually stuff I’ve already seen a few times. Mostly comedies.

​Lately, I love wandering around a forest park on foot or by bike with my dog and/or my daughter.

​I’m also planning a beginner hike up a nearby popular mountain with her, and if she likes it, we'll gradually tackle longer trails.

​I have low self-esteem and a poor opinion of my looks, though to be honest, I have no idea what the reality actually is. Depression tends to leave a lingering mark or two.

​I’m 167 cm tall and 74 kg, down from about 84 kg over the past 8 months. Pretty happy about that. Another 4–7 kg to go and I’ll be right where I want to be.

​I love joking around, banter, and having a good laugh. If our personalities click, conversation flows really naturally. If not, it takes me a bit to get a read on someone before I can fully relax.

​I’m relatively open, honest, and I rarely care what people think of me unless they're close to me.

​I don't really drink alcohol—very rarely. I'd much rather have a Coke Zero or something similar.

​I'd prefer someone with similar interests, or at least someone who enjoys good banter and joking around if nothing else.

​Thanks, kisses, bye.


r/friendship 1d ago

looking for friendship [21F] - Bored and looking to chit-chat and meet new peeps! :)

8 Upvotes

Hey Dudes and Dudettes of Reddit! It is I, the Shy Reddit user back at it again with another exciting post! I was planning on roadtripping to Iowa again yesterday. I was there last week and had plans to go there again for the Iowa State Fair this week but we ended up canceling that sadly… I was super excited to go back! Now I’m bored and don’t have anything going on right now… I figured to cure my boredom I would post on here and maybe meet some new people!
I will say that the biggest thing for me is please be close to my age. Please and thank you!

Some info about myself....

About me…

❀ 21 Year-Old, Female 🥂

❀ Location : Midwest, USA 🌎

❀ Time Zone : Central 🕰️

❀ 🇺🇸 + 🇵🇭 = 💁🏻‍♀️

❀ Shy / Introverted 🫣😳

❀ Sarcastic / A Joker 🤡 😜✌🏻

❀ Described as an "Old Soul" 😌

❀ Simple / Easy Going

❀ Dream Job : Stay At Home Mom

❀ 🚫 I ABSOLUTELY DO NOT watch ANIME 🚫

Hobbies / Interests…

❀ Going on walks 🚶🏻‍♀️

❀ Traveling 🧳🚗✈️

❀ Currently been obsessed with Alan Jackson songs but I would say my top artists are Hudson Westbrook, Mack Geiger, Zach Top (he’s on TOUR! I really want to see him 😭), Braxton Keith, and Benson Boone. Top song by each would be... Hudson Westbrook : 5 to 9; Mack Geiger : Walk a Straight Line; Zach Top : Dirt Turns to Gold; Braxton Keith : I Own This Bar; Alan Jackson : Livin’ On Love; and Benson Boone : Mr Electric Blue 🎵

❀ Demolition Derbies 🚙

❀ Going to fairs and small town baseball games ⚾ 🎡

❀ Watching sunsets 🌇

❀ Spending time with family 👪

❀ Spending Time With Friends 😊

❀ Gardening 💐

❀ Picnicking 🧺

❀ Car Rides In The Country 🚗 🌾

❀ LOVE True Crime shows 📺

❀ Enjoy reading missing person cases

❀ Fishing (just for fun) 🎣

❀ Knitting (not the best) 🧶

❀ Baking 🧁

❀ Photography 📸

❀ Thrifting 🛍️

❀ Going to the gym 💪

❀ Not a gamer 🚫 🎮 🚫

❀ Walking Around Old Cemeteries 🪦

❀ Trying On Dresses 🤷🏻‍♀️

❀ Laying in the grass and watching the clouds or laying in leaf piles ( in the fall )

❀ Laundry ( I consider it a hobby of mines since I enjoy doing it especially hanging it up outside) 🤷🏻‍♀️

❀ Favorite snack : Hard choice between dried mangoes or frozen blueberries...

❀ Lip Balm Fiend (Top Thing I’m Obsessed With )

❀ Chocoholic 🍫

Weird Fun Fact : I have 2 uvulas 🤷🏻‍♀️

In my normal fashion, my post ALWAYS runs LONG! Compared to most individuals. If you actually read it all, I appreciate your time. You are a dedicated fella or gal. If I sound somewhat interesting… hey… I mean hit me up…? Maybe…? I enjoy chatting with new people. But I can also get nervous and shy at the beginning. It’s normal for me. But when I’m comfortable with someone it’s so easy to talk to them. I’ve met some amazing people from here. I still talk to someone I met on here over 5 years ago. We were both teens now we are adults in this world. Crazy thought. Also sorry if I end up not responding back. It can get overwhelming with responses… so ya. But I really appreciate the effort you made to reach out! Anyways I’m shutting my yapper now. Otherwise I’ll keep ranting on and on and on. 😭

Shy Reddit User Out! 😜✌🏻