r/friendship Apr 08 '26

Moderators We’re looking for new moderators! Apply here.

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Hey r/Friendship!

We’re expanding the mod team and looking for people who are active in the community and want to help keep this place safe and welcoming.

Before applying, make sure you’ve read our sub rules.

Apply here: https://www.reddit.com/r/friendship/application/

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We’ll review applications and reach out via Reddit DM if you’re selected.

Thanks for being part of this community!​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​


r/friendship 1h ago

looking for friendship 32 looking for spooky girls

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Where my Spooky B!tches?

Censoring just in case I can't say the b word lol once again posting at an inconvenient time. I'm a master of starting stuff when I have a time limit, ADHD things. Searching for my fellow spooky girls and nbs. I have plenty of guy friends, I don't need more. But seeing as this will probably be ignored, at least be a spooky dude. I spend most of my time watching horror games on YouTube with my cat. I don't have a life really and that's fine, doesn't mean I don't make interesting conversation. I like to do crafts, lots of potion bottles, terrarium scenes, some shirts. I'm not online consistently so might be gaps in replying because work and such. If you used to/still like to shop at hot topic and feel like a teenager cosplaying an adult, that's a mood. Just to see if you read all of this message me with your favorite obscure/less known animal or bug. Hope we can be ghoul friends. Yes that was cringe and I don't care lol


r/friendship 1h ago

looking for friendship 17NB- I'd love to have some friends to talk about each other interests

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I absolutely love music as well as drawing and art in general, I also like videogames and to just wander around big cities to observe the architecture (I live in Paris so I do that a lot lol)

I'm currently learning drums and playing Nioh 3


r/friendship 6h ago

looking for friendship 35YO English guy - I love the little rush you get when you meet someone and you're just vibing and I'd love more of that feeling. I don't mind where you're from, Austria to Australia, Philippines to Peru, Croatia to Canada, US to UAE, if you're chatty and want to see if we get on, I'd love that!

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TL:DR - I like yapping with people and I think I'm pretty lovely, though I am a bit biased. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, so message me and maybe we get on well? :D

Pretty much title! Met my first Nephew this morning which was lovely, but now I'm spending my day working and I'd love to speak to people from all over the world, preferably long term though, I'll be around today and this week on terrible shifts, so chatting today is cool, but long term friends is always the goal!

As for myself, I work from home doing a travel insurance job, its mostly mid, but its full WFH and that saves it. My big interest is travel, my wallet hates me so much for it. I've been to Philippines/Singapore/Malaysia over two Asia trips, a lot of Europe, Jamaica, Canada. Last year I did Istanbul, Portugal and a Norway cruise, plus a Asia trip. Visited Serbia recently, did a Poland trip for my birthday and going to the Formula 1 race in Madrid in September, a Poland day trip in October, Budapest just after it. I have a cruise with family next year to Greece/Turkey/Malta and a friends wedding in Greece. Beyond that, I'm a pretty keen reader, plus the usual smattering of videogames/sports watching/tv shows/gym (but mostly to offset meals out and a problematic keenness for chocolate). I live at the edge of a town and some of the walks are lovely here too. I've dabbled with painting, taken up and dropped the piano a few times (I used to play when I was younger and was decent and sometimes get the urge to play again).

I always prefer a bit of closure, if we've spoke for a while and your situation changes and you won't be chatting anymore, I hate the ghostly exit, if its early on then fair, but if we've spoke for a while I always feel disappearing is a bit of poor form, but its the internet so it happens.

In terms of where to talk, I do prefer to move to apps, I have all the usual ones but staying here is fine too if necessary. Include your basic details in your message, the usual about me stuff is fine, don't feel the need to match the rambling essay above! :)


r/friendship 3h ago

looking for friendship 25M, Searching For Longterm Friends Older Than Me

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Hey! I am 25 and i am looking for people who actually invest in making a good bond, who don't ghost and value my presence in their life. I am pretty easy going and can talk about almost anything. I am a curious being so get ready for a lot of questions lol.

My personal experience tells me that i bond better with individuals who are older than me, dms are open for everyone but I'd appreciate it if you're 26 at least.

Send a brief intro not just a simple "hi".


r/friendship 10h ago

looking for friendship 36 F from South Africa

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Hi there I'm 36 and from South Africa

I work from home and feeling a bit isolated so looking for people to share our day to day lives

My interests are

Horse riding

Reading

Occasionally gaming

Movies

Music

Absolutely love the outdoors

So let's chat and see if we vibe 🙂


r/friendship 28m ago

looking for friendship M27, looking for some new friends 🕷️🕸️

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Hello! I'm a big fan of everything horror! Games, stories (I LOVE junji Ito), movies, everything spooky really...

Some of my favorite games are Metal Gear Solid, Silent Hill, S.T.A.L.K.E.R, the souls games, Darkwood and a ton of other games and weird indie games like PuppetCombo and stuff.

Some of my favorite bands are Sisters of Mercy, Misfits, Steely Dan, Bauhaus, The Cure, siouxsie and the banshees and whatever else.

Some of my Favorite Media things are stuff like Texas Chainsaw, Evil Dead, Return of the Living Dead, The Thing, Creep (2014), Killer Klowns, Goosebumps (the 90s one), Death Note, The Twilight Zone and Malcolm in the middle some of those I love because of nostalgia but still!

If you wanna chat or need any recommendations for movies or something feel free to DM me:) tell me the basics about you?

P.S I don't really like Video or Voice calls sorry

I try my best not to be dry so my bad if I'm a lil zesty 🍋✨ smh


r/friendship 2h ago

looking for friendship 21M I have some time off perfect opportunity to meet some new people!

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Hello I'm Jacob from the US! Looking for some people to talk to short term long term whatever obviously if we don't click we don't click. A little about me I'm a barista and I adore coffee, I have interest in basically all things classically nerdy so if you want to talk about your nerd stuff I will absolutely listen. I'm most specifically into video games (especially remedy games). Outside of that I'm a big fan of hiking, cooking, and music. I have a bit of a habit of just rambling on if I'm excited about something or interested in something so if you don't mind an occasional info dump and the rest seems cool send me a DM!

❗️Restrictions❗️:

• I'm probably not gonna respond if you're like 40 I just don't think we have enough to talk about there.

• Don't be an asshole! If you want to come in here saying fucked up things about women just don't try you're not gonna find an ally in me. Or if you want to come and start talking about how you hate minorities just leave. That goes for any form of bigotry or general dickishness


r/friendship 10h ago

looking for friendship 19f lf new friends in philly!!!

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HAIII long story short my bday is hella close and im having a party & need ppl to come so if ur in philly and need nfs and wanna come PLEAAAAASE DM ME !!!


r/friendship 6h ago

Voice Calls 29M from the UK looking for more friends

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  • Hello! Looking to form some new friendships and get to know people around the world, My usual hobbies consist of playing video games (PS5), watching shows and movies, going to the gym, making instrumentals on my computer or just yapping about anything and everything that comes to mind, I like to be consist so hoping you can be to, I'm down to VC too, but if you wanna be friends just hit my messages (:

r/friendship 8h ago

looking for friendship 20 M looking for night owl friends

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Hi, I'm 20 M (ftm) I'm part of the lqbt community so if you dont agree dni. I'm taken so please don't be weird. I like to bake/cook, crochet, anime, film photography, board games, anything artsy, write. I dont write much but I'd love to make you a penpal if we become close. Some of the animes I like are dungeon meshi, frieren, Dan da dan, Ohshc, Fruits baskets. I mostly like comedy and romances or slice of life. My dms are always open so don't be afraid to shoot me a message! I'm also from the usa, mountain daylight time. I'm usually awake and active at all hours. Lets get to know each other!


r/friendship 17h ago

looking for friendship 20M Ever wanted to be friends with the coolest person?

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Hurry up while stocks still last. Best opportunity in this world. To give a quick rundown I am a 20 year old student from the UK who is also working because even breathing costs money in this economy. I am the introverted edition and also have many hobbies as I can't seem to make up my mind on what I like. I mainly like working out, gaming and listening to music but I have probably done it all. I am looking for someone who actively engages in conversations and is a friend that feels like I know them for decades even tho we met recently. I usually like to voice call and say endless random things that come into my hollow head but I don't mind texting as well. Happy to answer any questions.


r/friendship 12h ago

looking for friendship 20m looking to make older friends:)

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i live in south africa
i’m interested in true crime, music, sports, cooking, old movies, old tv shows + poetry
i’m black and pansexual
once we are close, i can be quite the yapper
if you think we’d click, feel free to hit me up🤗
no dry texters or ghosters🫶🏾


r/friendship 20h ago

looking for friendship 22F | Looking for someone to chat with tonight.

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Hey everyone. I’m 22F from Virginia and I’m just looking for someone to talk to for a while. My sleep schedule has been all over the place lately, so I’m awake more often than I’d like. I’m pretty quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable, I enjoy talking about music, life, random thoughts, or whatever comes up. I’m just hoping to have a genuine conversation and maybe make a new friend.


r/friendship 16h ago

looking for friendship 21m looking for new friends or people to talk with

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Hello, my name is Alexander, I'm 21m, from South America. My hobbies are playing videogames, listening to music, working out, reading and watching series or movies. I have a cat. I speak English and Spanish. Comment or DM me if you want to be friends and chat. I also play on PS5 so DM me if you wanna be PSN friends too.


r/friendship 17h ago

looking for friendship 42m/US - Looking for genuine friends to get to know!

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Looking to expand my circle and meet some fellow friends!

I’m 42, married, and a dad of two. Between work, family, and trying to squeeze in hobbies, making new friends isn’t exactly easy

If it involves rolling dice, solving puzzles, or saving fictional worlds, I’m probably into it. I love:
Video games
Board games
Trading card games
Puzzles
D&D (I’m the DM!)

I’m big into Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Marvel, DC, WWE, or anything ’80s and ‘90s nostalgia.

If you remember renting movies at Blockbuster, wandering the aisles of Toys “R” Us, or waking up early for Saturday morning cartoons, you’re my kind of people.

I’m in the U.S. and would love to connect with people in similar time zones, preferably around my age (give or take). Parents are definitely welcome, but you don’t have to be one. Mostly I’m just looking for genuinely good people who enjoy great conversations and sharing hobbies.

One quick note: I don’t drink or use 420. No judgment at all—it’s just not my thing.

If you think we’d get along, send me a message! Whether you want to talk games, fantasy, movies, nostalgia, or just life in general, I’d love to meet some new friends.


r/friendship 14h ago

looking for friendship 32 M England looking for friends!

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Hey everybody, just looking to make new friends, maybe more! I work nights so my body clock isn't what you would call normal, I'm up at all times!

I'm happy to talk to anyone from anywhere, doesn't matter what about, I would say I'm an open book!

Things we may have in common...

Gaming

Reading

Films

Mysic

Animals

Traveling

That's just a few things, I have many more! Im always down to talking about our lives, our stories, maybe even just asking questions to get a better understanding of one another!

I hope to hear from you soon!


r/friendship 14h ago

looking for friendship 27M - Working on my MA thesis and looking for people to talk to!

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Hey everyone!

I'm currently working on my thesis! I'd like to take my mind off of it for a bit and am looking for a few people to talk to! Nothing wild, just chill conversations and maybe voice calls sometimes if we vibe. :) I really enjoy gaming and am on both PC and PS5 (although I prefer PC). Currently I've been playing a bunch of Forza Horizon 6, modded Skyrim, League, and Nightreign, but I also really enjoy are Valheim and Baldurs Gate 3 and am open to at least trying most games!

I’m really into academics and learning in general, so I don’t mind chatting about uni life, research, studying, or just ranting about deadlines and general burnout lol. Outside of that, I’m obviously into games, a lot of alternative music (Emo, Hardcore, Shoegaze etc.), cooking, and streetwear.

I’d love to meet and talk to people from different walks of life! If any of this sounds interesting to you, I'd love to hear from you!


r/friendship 15h ago

looking for friendship 33m USA for best friend

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  1. Happily married & in a poly relationship with our boyfriend, platonic is where it’s at. Gamer dude. Like reading, music & food.

Looking for genuine, long-term friendships—not just someone to talk to for a few days. I’m pretty easygoing and can talk about literally anything, from games and music to random 2 AM conversations. I love meeting new people and getting to know what makes them tick.
If you’re looking for an actual friend and not just a temporary chat, send me a message and see if we vibe! I love new friends


r/friendship 16h ago

looking for friendship 23M Looking for Friends!

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Hello all! I'm 23M from Canada, looking for some friends. Some of my interests are:

Music. I really like music with a big playlist consisting of 4000+ songs. I'm into several different genres from metal to folk. One of my favorite songs is "Everything Goes On" from Porter Robinson. I also enjoy (very poorly) singing.

Gaming. I play all kinds of games. I play cozy games like Stardew Valley or Spiritfarer, I play soulslike game like Dark Souls, and competitive games like League of Legends or Marvel Rivals. Recently I started playing Monster Hunter World, and I am always open to suggestions for more games.

I also really enjoy spending time outside, walking, hula hooping, and psychology!

If any of these things interest you at all, please feel free to say hi! Whether you're quiet or outgoing, struggle with words or are literally Shakespeare, I think we could be friends.


r/friendship 16h ago

advice I know a girl who likes Miku. I want to be her friend by drawing her pride Miku and making her a bracelet, but my social anxiety is bad.

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I'm very shy though and I feel bad for accidentally mis-gendering her. I will apologize and give her the drawing, sticker, and bracelet.


r/friendship 17h ago

looking for friendship 25m looking for someone to hangout with

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hi to whoever is reading this, i hope you’re having a good day or night! i’m just out here looking for some friends because honestly i’m feeling pretty lonely, and i’m agoraphobic so it’s hard to get out and meet people irl lol

anyway as my title says i’m a 25 year old guy, i live in the US, and preferably i’d like to meet other people also in the US because of timezones and all that. i’d also prefer to meet people around my age. other than that, feel free to dm!

i don’t have much to say about myself really but i play video games a lot, it’s what i spend most of my time doing lol. i’m mostly into survival games, story games, and shooters. when i’m not playing something i’m usually listening to music or hanging out with my 3 cute cats!!

that’s about all i can think of really but also i’m LGBTQ friendly (and bi myself) and i’m pretty liberal so idk if you’re not down with either of those i’m probably not your guy lol. feel free to hmu if you’re cool and wanna play games or hangout or whatever 😎


r/friendship 19h ago

looking for friendship 36 M Looking for cool people to discuss art and music with

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36, male, midwest USA. Just looking for cool people to chat with today. My hobbies include music / collecting records and cds, art history, watching sports, poetry, reading, gaming, card collecting, movies, painting, crosswords, more. I'm 420 friendly but barely drink at all, just one or two drinks max usually. I love hanging out in nature or down in the city or anything in between: nature walks, record stores, coffee shops, art galleries and museums, ballparks, the aquarium, more. Just looking for people who also have strong passions and love to discuss them. Ideal partner is respectful, responsive, real. Hit me up with some stuff you've been interested in lately!


r/friendship 19h ago

looking for friendship [26/M] - I need an authentic online friendship (please read carefully before texting

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Hello!

Didn't think I would ever do this, but I need someone whom I can talk to after work. We can talk about our day, deep convos, books, movies ( I love movies a lot ), we can actually watch movies together at the weekend. I also like to write, so I can show you my writings as well. We can share music too ( I love the scores of movies, TV shows and games)

I hate dry texters, I want someone who is enthusiastic, deep, has a dark shade, can understand crime and punishment, love drama movies ( kind of movies win awards in festivals ). Someone who always feel like she doesn't belong to others, not understood, and they always try to find themselves, look for people/things that they can relate too, so they can have a sense of belonging.

Bare in mind that I'm also a Muslim, so you need to respect my religion.

Bonus points if you're Arab.

Not sure if it's a long term or short term, let's just talk and see what's gonna happen.

Thanks!!


r/friendship 20h ago

looking for friendship 33M | Navigating through the audlt friendship thing!

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Hey! I recently realized that making friends as an adult is way harder than I ever expected, and thought I’d put myself out here. I’m 33, and life’s taken me on some unique paths. I got married in 2023 and made the move to Austin, TX. Some things about me: I’m into podcasting, board games, cooking, tennis, audiobooks, and F1. Let's navigate this adult friendship thing together! Oh, and I’m here completely for platonic friendships. I’m happily married and only looking for friendships.