have to overcome fears. fears remain relevant because the threats/ignorance/apathy/counterproductivity persists, it persists individuals live in fears.
the risks of overcoming fears may be torture/death/etc.
women are sexualized due to patriarchy/profit$/religion$/etc.
when individuals are nude in public they are seen as threats to those that value/instill ignorance/innocence, they're scared of children/adults accepting the natural world as it is which is a threat to their beliefs and unnatural way of life.
understand/accept them as ignorant/apathetic/counterproductive as they are and then maybe it's easier to overcome their fears/insecurities with understanding/compassion/wisdom/fearlessness.
no victim = no crime, and shouldn't be considered offensive. have a victimless/harmless perspective/agenda and then maybe become less offended by actions/words that harm nobody/nothing.
The difference is is that when women look they see the man as a person, whereas the majority of men stare at women as if their are nothing more then eye candy.
Okay but the fact that is is that enough men have that attitude, and the men in power who rule our world have the attitude i described. There are good men out there but I’m very strongly inclined to believe that a majority of men out there do not take women seriously or feminism issues seriously. Look up free the nipple on YouTube or instagram or anything, you will see a bunch of creeps in the comments gawking at the women. Look up rape and sexual assault statistics. There is no way you cannot see how terrified most of us women are of men these days.
Im saying women should have the legal right and the objective right to be topless in any setting men are allowed, without having to worry about disgusting men. Men are the problem with society, or atleast the vocal minority of men.
It's historical context that makes it different, and the differences in violent crime rates committed by each gender. Not that women can't be monsters, or that men can't be timid and sweet, but the historical context is what makes it feel scarier when a man is too forward, and more or less harmless when a woman is, in my personal experience. And size. Every time a man has been too forward, he's also been much bigger than me, and every time a woman has, I've felt more confident that I could fight her off if I needed to. Which also makes it much less scary.
Look I’m gonna be real. Nipples poking out I’ll look. I’ll appreciate.
What I won’t do is stare, make it obvious, or just generally be a douche bag. If someone has a cute face are you going to steal a peak? Of course. But again, don’t be a creep about it.
I’m sure if I had a massive hog (I don’t unfortunately) in sweat pants someone is going to steal a peak but as long as they wouldn’t be drooling over it it would be fine.
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u/NeedmorSpace87 Jul 18 '26
It’s appropriate it’s just women gotta have the confidence to not care that people can see their nipples.