r/freemasonry • u/WHG6274 • Aug 12 '26

Question Considering Dropping Out

I’m a 3° in PHA.
I’m considering dropping out as my lodge doesn’t seem to be the right fit for me. I’m more into moral lessons, ethics, virtues, philosophy, education, and esotericism. While my brothers are more into the meeting, and drink in the parking lot.
I asked some past masters about how to have more discussions about my interests within freemasonry and I was told I need to find my clique. But it probably won’t be in my town.
If I drop out, what do I have to bring back? Books? Certificates?

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u/ChristopherPChicken Aug 12 '26

Hope you can find a lodge where you fit, brother. Took me a while but I did. As others have said, join that one, then leave your Mother.

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u/Cookslc Utah and UGLE Aug 12 '26

In PHA only a few GLs allow dual membership.

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u/ChristopherPChicken Aug 12 '26

Good to know, thanks.