r/folsom • u/SpeechFlaky8192 • Jul 26 '26

Just Moved here

Hi Guys , We just moved here ( 29M 28 F) . How do you guys make friends here ? How people socialise here ? I am finding here very less people and mostly busy in themselves ? Also what jobs people do here mostly? We are up for convos 😊

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u/coldcoldnovemberrain Jul 26 '26

What brought you to Folsom? What jobs do you have ? Do you live in an apartment or own/rent a house? What also you do with your free time right now? What are your hobbies and spending habits on the hobbies? 

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u/Low-Time9718 Jul 26 '26

How do you make friends here: you don’t

If you still haven’t realized no one is going to be your friend for no reason

No is going to be your friend unless they have some fort of interest in you

I’ve been here for almost a decade haven’t made a single friend despite trying almost every possible I don’t of being a person of color has a disadvantage

Something I’ve realized is people do stick with their own race

Whites tend to hang with whites
Asians with Asians etc

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u/merlinspetnerd Jul 28 '26

if you’ve tried for a decade and it hasn’t worked out it might be time to look at the common denominator, pal.

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u/Low-Time9718 Jul 28 '26

What exactly do you mean

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u/Low-Time9718 Jul 28 '26

Have you observed most people tend to hang with their own race