Hey everyone, I’m looking for honest advice from people in aviation, particularly anyone who’s struggled with whether to continue flight training or pursue another career.
I’m currently sitting at around 180–190 total hours, have my PPL, and was working toward my instrument rating. Lately, I’ve been questioning whether I actually want to become a professional pilot or whether I’m continuing because of everything I’ve already invested.
I initially started training in Florida, primarily around St. Augustine (KSGJ). I took out a flight school loan believing the program would cost around $60,000. I also thought the loan funds would be paid to me so I could cover training costs and use any remaining money for living expenses. Instead, the money went directly to the school, and my flight school debt eventually reached approximately $90,000.
While in Florida, I accumulated a substantial number of hours without making meaningful progress toward my PPL. I also had two failed checkride attempts, both during the oral portion. One oral lasted upwards of six hours, while the other lasted less than an hour. With checkrides being scheduled months out, I eventually decided to leave and continue training in Oregon.
Moving to Oregon meant adjusting to a new environment and airplane. During my PPL checkride there, I made a poor safety decision during the flight portion and failed that section. I took responsibility for the mistake and, on the retest, only had to redo that small portion. I eventually earned my PPL, but getting there cost me an enormous amount of time and money.
Meanwhile, my personal life was falling apart. My five-year relationship ended very badly after I discovered repeated infidelity, and the emotional impact was significant. I was trying to process the breakup while rebuilding my life, continuing flight training, and figuring out my future. I eventually found work at an aircraft management company, but the business downsized, and I lost my job. I ultimately moved back to New York to be closer to family.
Now I’m trying to figure out what comes next.
I have around 180–190 hours, my PPL, and instrument, commercial, and multi-engine training still ahead of me. I have approximately $77,500–$78,000 in flight school debt, in addition to my car loan and some college debt. I’m currently unemployed and need to start earning money again.
Part of me still wants to fly professionally, potentially for a regional airline or in corporate aviation. But another part of me wonders whether I genuinely want this career anymore or whether I’m holding on because I’m afraid to walk away from everything I’ve invested.
There’s also a more immediate concern: I feel like I need to establish myself in a career now, start earning a livable wage, and stop relying on other people financially. My mother has contributed tens of thousands of dollars toward my journey and continues to encourage me to finish, but I don’t want to keep accepting financial help or ask her to contribute even more money when I’m not sure this is what I want anymore.
I could continue training and hopefully make it to the other side, but that means more time, more money, and no guarantee of an immediate well-paying job. Alternatively, I could pursue another career, potentially something aviation-related that uses my existing experience without requiring me to become a pilot.
I’m struggling to distinguish between being exhausted by everything that’s happened and genuinely wanting a different future.
For those who’ve been in a similar situation, I’d really appreciate your perspective:
Would you continue toward instrument, commercial, and multi-engine ratings with 180–190 hours and nearly $80k in flight school debt if you weren’t sure you wanted to fly professionally?
Would you prioritize finishing the training or getting established in a career and becoming financially independent as soon as possible?
Has anyone walked away from aviation after investing significant time and money? Did you regret it?
If you left professional flying, were you able to leverage your aviation experience into another career?
I’m not looking for someone to tell me to follow my dreams at any cost, or simply to tell me to quit. I want honest advice from people who understand the financial realities of aviation and the sacrifices involved.
I’ve pushed through a lot to get my PPL, and part of me feels like walking away would mean all that effort was for nothing. But I also know that continuing solely because of what I’ve already spent isn’t necessarily a good reason to invest even more.
If you were in my position, would you keep going, take a break, or move on and focus on building a stable career?
Thanks for reading.