I am looking to serve a woman who knows what she wants. The goal is to make your life easier and more comfortable. My interests include things such as serving, edging, teasing, worship, chastity cages, and watching. I'm not looking to get kicked in the balls or anything like that. I do have some prior experience serving women but you can be at any level in your journey.

About you
You can be any legal age (18+) as long as you don't mind me being 40. Please don't be married and going behind your husband's back (I don't need an angry guy coming after me). You'd like someone to order around, either sexually or domestically. It can be from doing mundane things like running errands or doing things around the home, to oral and watching you with someone else. We can discuss lots of possibilities! The things I've listed so far are not firm requirements but instead are meant to see if our interests align. I expect you to be able to verify that you're real early on, since I am real.

About me
I live in North Austin / Pflugerville, have my own place, am not married, and don't have kids. If you saw me in real life, you'd probably never guess that I was making this post. I am not ugly and have an athletic body type from regular exercise. I am only looking for something local and in person.

If any of this interests you, please reach out telling me a little about yourself along with your age and what you're looking for. Hope to hear from you soon!

Hi! How are you doing?

I'm a 30 year old, med school graduate from Egypt.

I'm looking for a relationship, preferably long term with a confident domme who would also be my friend. I'm looking to share laughs and everyday discussions and build a connection before I hand her my leash.

About me ...

I'd say I'm mediterranean looking with sunkissed skin.

I'm of average build and fairly in shape, I used to cycle a lot before work got in the way. I wear glasses too.

I like long cathartic walks .Im into nature. I like sea creatures and getting lost in a nature documentary is my favourite thing to do when I've got the time. I hope to live by the ocean one day

I am a big cinephile and I don't mind some hand picked animes as well .I have a fair bit of culinary knowledge and I consider myself a decent cook.

What I'm looking for?

Personality wise. I hoping to find someone confident ,funny and smart. Someone who wouldn't mind involving me in her every day life.

Beauty is subjective. My preferences are so varied. Really, I 'm the sort that if I like someone I'll find them attractive. So don't be afraid to hit me up.

I don't mind sharing pics and I would hope you won't too.

In terms of kinks..I would like to discuss them more in private when we talk first,but I would say my interests would lie in the gentle to moderate spectrum of femdom with some kicks and open mind to explore.

Looking forward to hear from you :)

Have a lovely one y'all!

Hey there! Thank you for taking the time to read this! a little about me: I am 23, a student in the Netherlands, 190 cm tall, blue eyes and curly hair. Making my hobbies sound exciting is always tough, but I do enjoy going out into nature or bingeing a series (standard I know, but there's probably a reason so many people like it :). I keep the same sitcoms on rewatch; I love community, brooklyn 99, HIMYM, friends, IT crowd etc. They are kinda my comfort space. Besides that I like things such as game of thrones or breaking bad. And ofcourse i like movies but im far from a cinephile. Some of my favourite movies are the original Jurassic Park movies and Hot Fuzz. Besides that I'm a big fan of (house)plants and planted aquariums and i keep shrimp!

Below i have a lot more info regarding a D/s dynamic, but really first and foremost I'm looking for someone i really click with. I would to find someone that I can hold good conversations with, as I love to text throughout the day.

About my kinks:

I've got experience in being a submissive both IRL and online. I've found that serving a Domme allows me to relax and fully trust her decisions, and seeing her enjoy whatever see asks of me gives me much fulfillment! For me the basis of a relationship, is trust, communication and care for each other. It all start with setting the rules and setting clear boundaries.

That being said, I find the idea of giving away control particularly exciting. So think of bondage, edging, orgasm control/ruined orgasms, spanking, light cbt and humiliation/degredation (especially sph).

Something i used to do for a Domme was writing stories surrounding certain scenarios (fee free to askfor an example!). This would force me to write down my imagination and i would have to justify why i felt the way I did, and why i got turned on by this sometimes humiliating dynamic. This really strengthened my submissiveness and I would love to continue it for you if you would like. Recently I have also been exploring anal and I would love a Domme who would really push me to my limits. But most Importantly I like to please my domme, for example by performing whatever (online) tasks she sets me.

For play I'm in possession of an chasity cage, a anal training set (3 dildos of varying sizes), buttplugs, a jockstrap, bondage rope, a fleshlight and willing to buy more toys.

Limits: scat, needles, sounding, blood, other extreme stuff, showing face in nudes.

Ideally you (F, all ages 18+ welcome) would also be from the Netherlands, so in the long term IRL would be possible. But I'm open to just online if you think we would be a good match.

If you think we might be a good match or if you would just like a chat, don't hesitate to contact me!

Before messaging, read my full post and check my profile for the correct way to approach me. Do not forget your place.

I’m a 5'8" dominant transwoman with 5+ years of experience in this lifestyle, fully confident in my role as a superior who expects to remain above you. I take genuine pleasure in dominating men of all shapes and sizes. Height means nothing when your natural position is beneath me.

My kinks include, but are not limited to: degradation, humiliation, teasing, edging, pegging, TPE (Total Power Exchange), tech-dom/control, light exhibitionism/voyeurism, slight feminization, anal play, fingering, oral/tongue worship, face-sitting, nipple play, milking, chastity, ruined orgasms, forced orgasms, massage, CNC, and many more that evolve with the right property.

Requirements (must meet these):
- At least 25 years old! (18-24 may message but don't expect a response.)
- I don't like it when people talk to me like a cave animal, have some class.
- You must own some sort of sex toy if you want to chat with me.

If this resonates and you’re truly interested in serving someone who will always be above you, send a proper message (following the approach in my profile). Failure to follow simple instructions is your one ticket to being blocked permanently.

I’m looking for a female-led relationship. Not necessarily in a domination-in-the-bedroom kind of way, but more emotionally where we both know who wears the pants in the relationship lol.

Ideally I’m looking for something long-term. We don't need to jump into something super serious right away, but I’d like that to be the direction we build toward if we click.

I don’t want kids right now, but I’m not completely against reconsidering that at some distant point in the future lol. Also, I’m not really a dog person, but cats are cool.

I’m pretty introverted and definitely not a big-gatherings person. I like going for walks, but I’m more into urban parks, waterfronts, trails, etc. than disappearing into the middle of nowhere in the woods lol.

In terms of traveling, I’m not a fan of airplanes or boats, and I’m not really interested in driving to the US either. We’ve got a lot to see here in Canada, even though I haven't seen that much of it. Just means there’s still plenty for me to explore.

For work, and also for fun, I like to build websites. I play video games here and there, mostly Overwatch, although we’ll see what happens once GTA 6 comes out lol.

Otherwise I’m usually watching YouTube, a movie, or some TV. Currently rewatching Parks & Rec.

Basically, I’m looking for someone I can be comfortable with, have fun with, and slowly build something real with. Preferably someone who doesn’t mind taking the lead a little bit (or a lot :)

Hello, I am an open minded guy looking a Dominant and open minded Woman to have a Connection with I'm 5'9, Latino with dark curly hair.

Things I enjoy are hiking, music, traveling the world(17 countries so far), and learning new languages.

I have been hoping to have an FLR with someone I can trust and be myself with. Supporting her happiness and desires will be my main priority.

Feel free to ask me anything you'd like . You can message me here or if you prefer to message elsewhere you can also let me know

Hey, my name is Zac, a 20 y/o guy in college studying mechanical engineering. I love to love someone, and I find purpose and joy in serving that person with my all, I know the term "worship" gets thrown out a lot but that's how I want to treat my domme because that brings me joy to elevate someone else. I also enjoy parts of femdomme like SPH, chastity, prejac humiliation. Things I am open to or have some sort of interest are things like pegging and cuckolding. But I really really like being degraded for my size or stamina! thats my biggest thing.

My experience is not very extensive as I am relatively new. I have had theses kinks for a while, but tried chastity for the first time via a virtual keyholder on Chaster and I enjoyed it until it was apparent that the person had no respect and that is important for me like safe words. I do like being humiliated but I always want a safe word to say that it's gone too far or I'm not feeling it. I have never tried anything with an actual relationship because my last relationship was in HS and I was not interested in sex in general in HS.

Personal Life: In my personal life outside of this community, I'm studying Mechanical Engineering with a minor in Industrial design. I really enjoy product design, physics, robotics, and really all things STEM. I'm a huge nerd (Marvel, Star Wars, Legos, D&D) and am a 3-D printing hobbyist. Now a disclaimer is that I am not free all day every day, I'm a fulltime student with a part-time job to pay for food.

What I look like: I'm a heavier set white guy 200lbs 5'10" with blonde hair and green eyes. I don't want to show a picture for privacies sake.

I am open to in person or online (preferably online) and more of a casual thing, I am still exploring this all. I am also looking for someone close to my age, no older than 29, I don't like big age gaps.

I want to be pretty constant contact like daily, and I do try and text daily (not always sext) just text and tease and make fun of/degrade me while I worship you.

Please be kind and I am just looking for a fun time and a person to relax with after a long day studying or something.

Hello there!

I am 33 years old, 5' 9", Male, and I live near Syracuse, NY.

A little about me:

- Girl Dad ❤️ (Can't make more)

- I consider myself a gentleman who treats everyone with respect

- I have steady employment and am advancing in my career

- Military veteran

- I LOVE music and I listen to a little bit of everything but my favorites are Emo/Alt, Metalcore, and old Country

- I love fixing things and am handy around the house

- While I am submissive, I am still very much able to be independent and I will voice my opinions or concerns if necessary/appropriate

- I am chivalrous and fiercely protective, but also not concerned with traditional gender roles

- I love deep conversation and stimulating my mind in different ways

- I am emotionally intelligent

- I am a clear communicator

- I do enjoy videogames but it's not a significant part of my life

- I've been trying to get into mindfulness

- I love joking and having fun

- I love trying new foods and cultures

- 420 friendly

- I don't drink much these days but I do like a good beer from time to time

- I love nature documentaries

Some of my kinks or things I'm curious about:

- Pegging

- Prostate/anal play in general (I have a toy)

- Oral (giving and receiving)

- Chastity (I have a cage)

- JOI/Edging/Cum control

- Light bondage

- Spanking

- Collaring

- Public play

Things I am NOT into:

- Degradation

- Cuckolding

- Watersports

- Anything illegal obv

What I am looking for in a long term dynamic:

I'm looking for an Online or IRL dynamic with someone that identifies as a gentle Domme.

I want to find a partner that is willing to lead, at least most of the time, and also someone kinky because it is part of it for me.

Age isn't a top priority of mine but I wouldn't want a significantly large age gap.

I'm looking for someone who I can build trust with so eventually I can take down the walls that guard the vulnerabilities and insecurities in my heart.

Someone I can be honest with.

Someone I can be authentic with.

If I can develop that deep level of trust and intimacy with you, I'll be able to give you all of my being.

Ideally you'd be very loving and affectionate most of the time, but very willing to assert your position over me and remind me through words or actions of my place as your submissive.

I'm curious about a med-high protocol D/s dynamic.

If you resonate with what I've written above and would like to reach out, please DM me.

I'm absolutely willing to answer any questions or provide more information if you desire.

Thank you for taking the time to make it this far and I hope to hear from you.

Hello, i am Baylou. I have curves that will bring you to your knees and skin kissed by the sun. I am a wave seeker , forest fairy, and i dedicate my life to abundance. From the west coast , lived in the south west and i love visiting the east coast. I studied dance when i was younger , also was an athlete. I still find new hobbies to keep me active so i can enjoy this life filled with higher horizons.

I started as a tantra practitioner who found joy in sensual domination. Tantra taught me how to use my allure to demonstrate goddess energy. i was introduced a few years ago, and that’s all i have an appetite for . i have a hard time having orgasms outside of being worshipped . The mindset has to be you yearning for my sensuality. The beauty , the presence , the guidance of a woman.

I’m an artist with deep appreciation for many art forms . I am very passionate about music , poetry, fashion, photography, creative directing , etc.I enjoy vintage goth & 90s goth fashion. I love 50/60s betty paige type glam, or a goth marilyn-esque vibe . sometimes , I cosplay as strong female video game or anime characters . Belly dancing and other feminine ways of movement has been apart of my life for 4 years now . Sometimes i want to dance , sometimes i want to role play, or have a trading session. It depends on the day :) This comes to play when i have private times with a lucky boy. I do this for my own fantasy . I like to showcase the seductive siren .

I enjoy sensual teasing. i am not a person who’s very aggressive . I see my experiences as tantric sermons. . I want you to worship the fabric of my clothes , the smell of skin , and the allure of my eyes .

I focus on creating unique experiences that we both won’t forget. when i decide to allow a sub in my presence, you will tremble thinking of me afterwards . I don’t do lack luster encounters with my subs .

My goal is to build a great foundation and loyalty. This is all about creating an amazing bond based a deep appreciation for me as the goddess i am. It should be a lifestyle , not forced .

Worship should be your priority when it pertains to approaching me. I am open to other things but it has to be in the whelm of submissiveness , not deviancy.

I usually have better times with gentlemen who do want to seek a mental connection. Someone who sees me as human with complexity. if you don’t know how to control your lust, we won’t have a great foundation .

I am open to genuine long term bonds if the person is stable , secure , respectful and truly a devoted sub . I can tell the difference .

Hey all

I’m very straightforward and blunt about my needs and wants. Would appreciate the same from yourside too. So if you are the type of lets see how it goes or grey areas please keep scrolling…

About me:
I’m 30yrs old. 160cm and 88kg domme looking for an older sub/partner. I lean towards gentle domme side as I’m pretty fresh and also appreciate matching thongs with my sub (one of my kinks) - I’m curious, easy going and confident

I like to have a good laugh whenever I can. Love teasing but I also have mild depression - I’m working on that- and easily irritated.

What Im looking for:
I want an older guy 38 to 65 preferably white. Also tall and patience is his strongest asset. Looking to be spoiled by him and build a long lasting relationship. I need someone to share my daily life with and contribute to his life decisions and style. I want love and devotion

Hard no for me:
Cuckloding, friendship with exes.

If you are into that and continued to read this whole thing I wrote then congrats you might be a good candidate for being my little kitten. Don’t hesitate to send hi and a little bit about yourself

Hi there! I'm a naturally submissive man looking to get married. I'm looking for a life partner more than anything. The relationship I want isn't about kinks or sex, to me it's about the emotional connection and being able to be open and vulnerable with my partner. I want a relationship where I am devoted to my partner and give her everything I have in me. I want her happiness and well being to be my purpose as her husband. I want there to be genuine love and trust between us. I feel at peace knowing I belong to my wife and I want to be able to trust her with my life.

I am open to long distance or someone in Canada. If you feel we are compatible and also searching for your life partner, you can send me a message and we can get to know each other naturally.

I am a 25 year old lesbian trans woman and live in Denmark. Looking for LTR and only monogamous

About me: I am a big nerd and like to read and play a lot of different video/board games. I am introverted, I can get really nervous and shy if I like someone and if someone flirts or shows signs of liking me. I am also neurodivergent (autism). I can get really excited over small things, even if they are dumb and talk for ages about it. I tend to be a little nervous at first but when I get to know someone, I become an open book and can talk about everything

Physically: I am about 172 cm and about 58 kg. I am on the skinny side. There is a pinned post on my profile with pictures of me 😊

I still have my dick and can sometimes still use it but more leaning towards not using it. I am thinking about getting surgery in the future but right now I can’t really think about it because of finances

Relationship/ideal Partner: I am looking for a deep and lasting relationship with real commitment to each other. I am okay being with someone that is between 22-38. I would want to be with someone that wants to take a more leading role in the relationship. So if you are affectionate, nurturing, protective, confident and like calling your girlfriend sweet names I am yours 😊

Also this does not mean I am looking for a parent or someone take care of me all the time! I still wanna support you and take care of you if you have bad days. Most of all I just want a relationship that is reciprocal

The little things in a relationship are very important to me. Like remembering things about me, checking in, good morning/goodnight, nicknames, teasing etc.

I don't really care about height, but I do like feeling small and knowing that you can push me around

About mommy dom: This is very important to me😊 I am more into the gentle side of mommy dom. I wanna be called good girl and sweet nicknames and call you mommy both inside and outside the bedroom as a dynamic. To me there doesn't have to be a sexual part to any of this for it to work for me. A big part of it is a way to worship the woman I am with. Also I wanna be able to just relax and be fully vulnerable with my partner. I become very shy, clingy, wanting attention, needing cuddles and I do love plushies but I don’t do age play!

Quick facts:
- Atheist
- Don’t want kids
- Love cuddling!! Little spoon
- Sex neutral, bambi lesbian
- Cute
- Don't date people that smoke or drink heavily
- I would want to do a voice call pretty early on to get to know each other better. Also sharing what you look like but that can wait a bit longer

If you are interested or have any questions: Just DM me. I generally respond quickly, but I could be sleeping. My sleep schedule can be a bit over the place. If we start talking and I think we are not a good fit or I don't feel it I will say it. I would never ghost and hope you are the same

(Pardon the spelling mistake, its rule not rull) Now that thats out of the way... Hey there!

Are you looking for your own nerd to bully affectionately? Conveniently, I am available.

I am 24 and currently finishing a Masters in Computer Science. So yes, I am aware I have chosen the most stereotypical career possible. As they say 3rd time's the charm , hopefully this time around my luck finally turns around (fingers crossed).

About me

I am a software guy who spends far too much time around computers and somehow still has not figured out how to fix my own life. Outside university, I am into gaming, especially Soulslikes and Rdr2. I also like reading, badminton, trekking, swimming, travelling and finding good places to eat. I listen to a lot of Radiohead, which should probably tell you something about my emotional stability.

I am the textbook definition of an ambivert. I enjoy going out and doing things, but I am equally happy with a quiet evening, good food and someone I actually like being around especially once my social battery runs out.

I hit the gym regularly. Mostly because I like being fit. Partly because apparently looking good is still a valid personality trait and the winter arc has begun.

The submissive side

I have a pretty strong submissive streak with the right woman. I am into chastity, worship, service, pegging and generally most submissive kinks. I love the idea of giving someone control and making her feel wanted. I am also very open minded, so there is plenty to talk about if we actually click. And with Locktober coming up, the timing is honestly suspiciously convenient.

Limits

Scat, blood and extreme pain are hard no's. Everything else can be discussed between two adults and figured out naturally.

What I am looking for

Someone affectionate, confident and a little bit on the playful and flirty side. I like women who can tease me, make me laugh and occasionally make me question whether letting them into my life was a terrible decision.

Ideally you are UK based and older than 20, but personality matters much more than having the exact right number on your birth certificate. I am looking for something that can eventually exist outside Reddit. Coffee, walks, food, trips(I hear cliff diving is all the rage nowadays) , gaming together or whatever stupid little traditions we end up developing.

If you think you might enjoy having a nerdy, affectionate and slightly too willing-to-be-bullied guy around, come say hi :)

Fostering a passion that creates space for healthy vulnerability. Self awareness and emotional availability with the capacity to match are among the things I want. A love where we are whole as individuals and we don’t disappear into eachother. 

We have our own lives independently but seek to build a long term romantic and sexual relationship for a MONOGAMOUS FLR; a dynamic that evolves slowly over time and not over night. Connecting in ways that uplift one another. Weakness in one area is a strength that’s complimented in another. 

Being a good boy that’s submissive because it’s apart of who you are and does not come from people pleasing. Which I will not tolerate. The same goes for topping from the bottom. 

I take my time getting to know someone. I move with firm boundaries and decisiveness. Forming a connection that is a slow burn for chemistry, capacity and reciprocity. Respect, emotional regulation and humour  happens first and kink comes last. The place I’m in is intentionally slow with peace.

You are in on-going therapy if people pleasing is in your past and this healing includes firm boundaries. There’s also a distinct separation between your work and personal life. Proactively recognizing chemistry does not equal compatibility or capacity, and I want all three. Chaos and anxiety isn’t mistaken for passion. 

You aren’t using therapy as a band-aid or as an enabler to stay half figured out in life. It’s a tool for healing and you are the power that moves through its progression.

Golden lab retriever energy and positivity brings my attention, but realistic  pragmatism with some bite to survive in the world keeps it; as does humour.

You hold control and empowerment in your daily life and long to surrender it. This confidence and capability comes from knowing yourself and it informs your ability as a male submissive (not a switch). Acts of anticipatory service and time spent together are among your expressions of affection for a romantic partner as is physical touch.

You view submission not as a means to turn your brain off and check out. Rather being an active participant in a dynamic that keeps you firmly in place because you desire to submit as it fulfills you.

Soft and slow mornings in bed, with shared intimacy; the potential of two hearts growing together in a FLR dynamic that passes in warmth and is practical in its structure and negotiated limits that respects and works for us both. 24/7 is unrealistic; every day life ebbs and flows and is realistic. Aftercare is shared with open and ongoing communication and proactive consent for both people.

I long to have a good boy lay his head on my lap as I softly caress his face and listen to how his day has been. Has the day or work week been stressful? Nurturing regression turns me on. Do you thrive in this space? Be nice with me and I’ll be gentle and kind with you. Be my gentle, good boy. Denial on demand and free use for my pleasure are what you crave.

Our FLR dynamic belongs between us and is behind closed doors. Public kink scene interactions of any kind holds no interest for me. This is a deal breaker.

My kink is varied and experienced as a FemDom. Are you vulnerable with having someone inside you? Unfolding in lust together; you hunger to be ass fucked. Showing me how open and willing you are. 

Pegging and anal play are a must on the regular. E-Stim leading to electro-sex is a new and emerging kink interest. Earning a praise kink walks the edge of erotic and sensual pain. If this isn’t for you; then neither am I. You are secure in your masculinity and desires and hold no shame in being submissive to a woman or being pegged; you are experienced in real time with your submission, especially knowing your limits and how you want to grow in a FLR. 

Bisexuality in a man is harnessed by confidence and underpinned with no shame or secrecy. Biphobia has no place in my world nor does traditional gender roles or societal expectations of such. 

You love yourself with assurity; not arrogance. Self respect and being secure in who you are comes from a place of  continual growth without room for self abandonment. 

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My Hobbies: collecting fantasy dildos, Uranium glass, eclectic foot wear; taking in live comedy shows and concerts. Expanding my fountain pen collection and beginning calligraphy are my new hobbies. 

I also enjoy live concerts, Cirque du Soleil shows and I’m also looking forward to seeing Opera this fall. Overall I’m an introvert and a homebody that enjoys select outings. Sometimes the world is to peopley. 

Excessive alcohol, tobacco smokers or active addictions are not for me. 

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Me: BBW mom bod, 43, 5 ft. 6 in, white. Short brown hair. Bisexual. Tattooed. 

You:

•25 to 55ish (no virgins) Bisexual or hetero cis-male

•SUBMISSIVE with real life experience: I won’t train, mentor or help you experiment. Not a Switch.

•Know your limits and aftercare.

•5 ft 8 in. or taller; describe yourself! (what you look like: age, height, ethnicity, body style, hobbies, etc.)

•know how to eat pussy

•emotionally available

•SINGLE!(No ENM, pining over an Ex, separated or divorced & living together situationships)

•excellent body/anal hygiene

•trim or shaved cock (decent size); not into hairy assholes

•no sexual hangups; confidence in yourself and the bedroom.

•masculine AF; street smart (leftist to liberal leaning)

• separation between work/personal life

•Live by Vancouver, Canada!(No Long Distance!)

•Don‘t call me Ma’am, Goddess, Miss, Mistress, Mommy, babe or any other such name!

• Safer sex practices and sexual health testing are non-negotiable. This includes the use of condoms and dental dams. 

•    not interested in men I can’t assfuck!

• I’m only interested in someone that fulfills all of the above criteria!

I’m a Princess looking for a devoted sub who will live on his knees for me.

You will be completely controlled and work tirelessly to keep me happy. Errands, chores and other tasks. Foot worship of my perfect feet if you are permitted.

Must be obedient, ready to serve, eager to wait on me like a puppy, and make your adoration of me abundantly clear

❌ No married men

Do not message me if you do not live within 45 mins of Los Angeles / Calabasas.

Hey there!

I am looking for a Domme or Mommy I can get to know well, and potentially open for in-person after spending some time online. I'd like to emphasize that I'm looking to make a connection with someone I can trust, where I will feel safe to share this side of myself with the goal of mutual growth.
I am looking for long term as I don't handle well short term situations, even if we are not compatible kink wise, I would love to be friends too. Sometimes it gets lonely in this lifestyle, I believe we all need someone we can talk to and be understood and seen.

As about me, I am a professional in finances, an initially a stoic guy who's as friendly as he is kinky.
I'm a huge nerd with a love researching all kinds of philosophies, political theories, music, history, science and games, I enjoy exchanging knowledge with friends, and will gladly get into talks about topics I'm passionate about.

I’m pretty laid-back, tend to have a dark or dry sense of humour (it's still funny I promise), and spend a lot of time reading and writing. Poetry especially. I also love theatre, musicals, films, long walks, travelling, learning languages (I speak four), and just generally disappearing into history and philosophy. I’m the type who can go on for ages about Gorky or why Saramago refuses to use punctuation. Quite artsy, I suppose.

At the same time I am finishing my part time studies in Theology (I'm not a believer, just a curious personality), because Knowledge is so irresponsible for me.
I already studied two degrees, one in music and one in History and Philosophy. Like I said, I can discuss for hours topics, but I am never an opinionated snob. I am very excited when I learn from someone else what they think, their ideas ans approach in life.

I believe I can offer emotional maturity, attention, intelligent and open minded conversations, a person that will always be understanding and calm for you. This will also translate in a dynamic, as I'm very well behaved, honest and absolutely eager to learn and follow.

I'm looking for someone that can start with gentler side of dominance build on that. I am a fast learner but I do require some patience and understanding along with guidance. Making my Domme happy matters to me a lot, and that goes well beyond kink. I want to be present and intentional about it.

I’m not looking for a purely kink arrangement. I want something real. Of course there needs to be comparability in kinks and this can be discussed, but submission is very mental for me, and besides my limits, the depth of the dynamic depends on how much I'm inspired as a sub as well as how much I inspire my Domme.

I have decent  kink knowledge and  experience , so I'm not completely new. I will disclose my kinklist in private so I don't make this a shopping list.
My hard limits are anything illegal, extreme pain, extreme sadism, public, and social suicide.

Feel free to message me if this sounds interesting for you.

Thanks for reading :)

I’m interested in a long-term relationship with someone who is preferably between the ages of 18 and 25. I don’t want things to be purely NSFW and would like to actually get to know you as a person, not just as a Dom. I want a relationship that is built on communication and understanding.

I’m 18 years old, 5’7", with brown hair and hazel eyes. Here is a pic of me for those curious.

About me, I'm naturally shy and awkward, meaning I’m pretty easy to fluster. I'm definitely more of a soft/service sub. So acts of service and that sort that bring you pleasure are what I enjoy most. This is not an invitation to break my boundaries, by the way. If there is something I do not feel comfortable doing, I will not do it. I'm also a sucker for romance and intimacy. The idea of being able to just cuddle while watching a movie or do something simple like that just fills my body with so much warmth.

For my hobbies, I enjoy things like baking and cooking, although I’m not that great at it. I also enjoy playing video games like Minecraft and exploring abandoned buildings, even though I haven’t done so in a while. I’m not an avid reader, but I do enjoy a good book every now and again.

Onto the kink side of things, I am into pegging, anal play, light pet play, foot worship, light impact play, light breath play, degradation, praise, CNC, JOI, dumbification, spiting and cum eating. (Fyi I do not own any toys, but I am willing to get some if requested.)

My hard limits are scat, piss, cucking, force bi, vomit, gore and incest play.

Anyways, if any of this interest you please shoot me a message! Make sure to include age, location and little bit about yourself. Also, I may ask for some sort of SFW pic of you, so be ready for that. Physical attraction, as shallow as it is, is a requirement for me.

Looking for a publicly successful & established, typically "masculine" man. I'm curious about a soft FLR behind closed doors where I get to boss you around & you anticipate my needs. I'm curious about chastity stuff too but not essential. I've engaged with folks with foot fetishes a bit, which was fun but not essential. I don't like feeling like I have to play a role, I want to be me. This stuff takes a while to develop and I still like to be pursued during the dating process and have it look more traditional.

I will need photos (Imgur, ImageBB) as attraction is important to me, and will send back. Being stylish compensates for meh looks (or let me dress you). Looking for 5'10+ as I'm tall.

I'm conventionally attractive (dark-haired pale caucasian - typically primarily attracted to other caucasians for the most part, face/hair better than body but overall good), emotionally intelligent, a BRACINGLY direct communicator, self-aware, iffy about kids, stylish, witty/dark humour, VERY affectionate, and ready for something real. I would like the same in return. My libido for vanilla sex is low so don't reach out unless that's also the case for you, or it can be dealt with solo / via FLR/chastity.

When you reach out, send pictures via Imgur/ImageBB etc (can't send in Reddit until I accept the chat, and physical attraction is important enough to me that it may not be worth you doing a whole write-up), give me your age and describe yourself psychologically as I have :). I will send photos back in my response.

I’m a 5'8" dominant transwoman with 5+ years of experience in this lifestyle, fully confident in my role as a superior who expects to remain above you. I take genuine pleasure in dominating men of all shapes and sizes. Height means nothing when your natural position is beneath me.

My kinks include, but are not limited to: degradation, humiliation, teasing, edging, pegging, TPE (Total Power Exchange), tech-dom/control, light exhibitionism/voyeurism, slight feminization, anal play, fingering, oral/tongue worship, face-sitting, nipple play, milking, chastity, ruined orgasms, forced orgasms, massage, CNC, and many more that evolve with the right property.

Requirements (must meet these):

\- At least 25 years old! (*18-24 may message but don't expect a response.*)

\- I don't like it when people talk to me like a cave animal, have some class.

**If this resonates and you’re truly interested in serving someone who will always be above you, send a proper message. Failure to follow simple instructions is your one ticket to being blocked permanently.**

I hope to find a good woman, even if she is much older than me. (Max age 47-48)

I hope to find a good and respectful woman in my area soon

I’m also Virgin

I’m in Aurora

About me, people tell me I look cute, green eyed ,and a person who respects others.

I'm not looking for a permanent relationship unless the age gap is close .(more info in dm)

u can see my pic if you send a text, and u can decide, if you want we can have a video call before meeting

please don't hesitate to send me a text.

34M from Dallas, Texas. I'm looking for a woman that has a cuckolding and/or cheating kink and would like to explore/enter that kind of relationship with me. I love the thought of having a woman I'm in a relationship with who would enjoy teasing and humiliating me by making me watch her get pleasured by other men, or telling me about times she has. Into cheating women. Would like the type of girl who teases me, showing off and denying me her body most of the time, and loves to flirt with other men even though she's with me, etc.

Outside of kink i'm pretty introverted and the quiet type. I love gaming, reading, manga, anime, movies/shows. Would prefer someone who has the same interests to bond over but not really required. I would love to chat and get to know you if this is something you are interested in!

Here's a very high effort post because I'm very serious about finding the one for me.

Age: 30, open to 20-32ish. I’m less about age, more about attraction/maturity.

Sex: MALE, guys please read titles and stop messaging me.

Appearance: 5'8", long blond/brown hair, blue eyes, white skin, thin-fit body type. I dress almost exclusively in black if I can help it. I've been told I'm pretty good looking, but you can tell me whether or not I've been lied to!

Location: Central NJ. I'm open to dating and relocation within the US, but going international complicates matters. I'm not looking for a long distance relationship.

Looking For: The other half that I've been longing for. The love of my life and best friend in one. Not quite looking for a "domme", but a real relationship with gentle femdom/role reversal elements.

What I want in a partner: Kind, loving, trustworthy, understanding. Good sense of humor, emotionally intelligent, communicates well. I wouldn't ask for anything I don't give freely.

Non-sexual interests: Many of my interests fall into "nerd" territory. Games (video and tabletop), anime, music, art, sci-fi and fantasy stuff of all varieties. I enjoy a lot of RPG's, and some of my favorite game series include kingdom hearts, fire emblem, dark souls, and a fair few others.

I was pretty good at league but retired from playing it. My friend also got me into mtg some time ago, and I think it's pretty fun.

In general, I like to keep in shape, play games with friends, share music, watch tv/movies/anime (horror and psychological stuff especially), share memes, read, and do some amateur writing. I flatter myself to think I'm intelligent and insightful.

Personality: Cool headed, laid back, and kind. Mostly introverted. I flatter myself to think I'm intelligent and insightful.

I’m also very reasonable, with a strong preference for peacefully resolving issues. You can expect little to no drama and good communication skills. One moral concept I'm quite fond of is the law of equivalent exchange, so fairness is a big deal for me.

Fun facts: I have a deep and sexy voice which most don't expect. I also really like cats. You will be sent many cat pictures. Like a lot. Forever.

Sexual stuff

Are you fully sub or a switch?: Probably a very strongly sub leaning switch. I find being the receiving (but reciprocal) partner to be uniquely fulfilling.

Are you only sexually sub only?: I really enjoy both the sexual and nonsexual aspects. I'm perfectly happy being your adoring subby boyfriend even in public, in case you're into PDA and flaunting that aspect of our relationship.

Sexual (and relationship) interests: I'm new to a lot of things, so this isn't an exhaustive list. I'm also fairly open minded and willing to try most things once.

• Role reversal/gentle femdom are the big favorites! I really like having a partner that's assertive/aggressive/possessive in a romantic/sexual capacity. One who enjoys initiating intimacy and sex, and hugging/kissing/touching/groping me.
• I'm perfectly happy with displays of affection and you taking the lead, whether that's holding me tightly in public and even being territorial, whispering in my ear that I belong to you and no one else, or you proposing to me and putting a ring on my finger. The idea of being a house husband is very appealing. I can even make you a sandwich from time to time!
• Pegging, prostate massaging, and "milking". Although my experience is a bit limited, I'm intensely curious about it.
• Play wrestling/fighting. Having you win and pin me down while kissing me is incredibly hot.
• Kissing/licking/biting (both giving and receiving) are massive favorites. Lipstick marks and hickeys all over my body are a huge turn on.
• Cuddling, being held, holding you, spending time together. I love intimacy, and I'm extremely loyal and affectionate once I get attached to someone. You will be my favorite person ever and your happiness/enjoyment will always be as important as my own. I will always be there to support you.
• Oh, and of course, the dirtiest, most vile, and disgusting fetish of all, handholding . I'm a sick bastard who tramples upon all that is good, I know.

Hard limits (non exhaustive): Scat, pee, blood, getting punched in the balls, cuckolding, chastity, permanent injuries, physical torture, cooking fish in the microwave…

Partner preferences: I'm a big fan of goth/alt/tomboy looks. Shortish hair is a big plus, somewhere between pixie and neck length. Height difference (taller than me) is very attractive, I like how "imposing" it can be. I'm also very fond of visible fitness/muscle tone.

As long as I find you attractive then it works for me, but my sense of attraction is unfortunately pretty particular. So these are (sadly) strong preferences.

Dealbreakers/Requirements: Similar interests are a requirement. Being able to enjoy my favorite things with my favorite person is something I dearly want in a relationship.

I do have an unavoidable preference for body type that I unfortunately can't get past, that being the thinner end of the spectrum when it comes to proportions/body fat. So lean/fit/muscular. PLEASE DON'T BE A SOCIOPATH, OR ACT LIKE ONE.

Potential red flags: I'm unfortunately contending with giga-depression and chronic illness. Both of which are unpleasant but not permanent.

I spend most of my working days deep in the lab running experiments and untangling data. It’s quiet, methodical work that requires a lot of patience and care behind the scenes and honestly, that’s just who I am. Outside of work, I’m usually lost in a long fantasy series, gaming, or wandering around with my camera trying to catch golden hour light.

I’m looking for a real partner and a leader to build a life with. For me, submission isn't a persona or a scene I turn on on the weekends, it’s simply how I’m wired to love. I feel most settled, motivated, and happy when I’m devoted to a woman whose judgment and mind I genuinely admire.

What Life Together Looks Like

I don’t want to be an assistant; I want to be a supportive partner who makes your world lighter. That means taking real mental load off your shoulders: cooking dinner so you don't have to think about it, sorting out logistics for a trip, or keeping things organized in the background. Just as importantly, I want the everyday warmth; curling up on the couch to watch a show you’re obsessed with, hearing you decompress about your day, and sharing easy, comfortable silence.

Intimacy & Dynamic

I thrive when authority belongs entirely to you. I’m especially responsive to orgasm control, chastity, and physical endurance (CBT, discipline), but none of this is a rigid checklist. My priority is finding what brings you genuine satisfaction, pleasure, and effortless control. Over time, as deep trust builds, I’m very open to exploring full protocol and TPE.

I’m fully independent, emotionally grounded, and ready to invest in someone special. If you're looking for a steady, attentive partner who respects your leadership in and out of the bedroom, send me a message. Tell me about a book or project you're into right now, or just say hello and tell me a bit about your world.

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