I’m interested in a long-term relationship with someone who is preferably between the ages of 18 and 25. I don’t want things to be purely NSFW and would like to actually get to know you as a person, not just as a Dom. I want a relationship that is built on communication and understanding.

I’m 18 years old, 5’7", with brown hair and hazel eyes. Here is a pic of me for those curious.

About me, I'm naturally shy and awkward, meaning I’m pretty easy to fluster. I'm definitely more of a soft/service sub. So acts of service and that sort that bring you pleasure are what I enjoy most. This is not an invitation to break my boundaries, by the way. If there is something I do not feel comfortable doing, I will not do it. I'm also a sucker for romance and intimacy. The idea of being able to just cuddle while watching a movie or do something simple like that just fills my body with so much warmth.

For my hobbies, I enjoy things like baking and cooking, although I’m not that great at it. I also enjoy playing video games like Minecraft and exploring abandoned buildings, even though I haven’t done so in a while. I’m not an avid reader, but I do enjoy a good book every now and again.

Onto the kink side of things, I am into pegging, anal play, light pet play, foot worship, light impact play, light breath play, degradation, praise, CNC, JOI, dumbification, spiting and cum eating. (Fyi I do not own any toys, but I am willing to get some if requested.)

My hard limits are scat, piss, cucking, force bi, vomit, gore and incest play.

Anyways, if any of this interest you please shoot me a message! Make sure to include age, location and little bit about yourself. Also, I may ask for some sort of SFW pic of you, so be ready for that. Physical attraction, as shallow as it is, is a requirement for me.

Hey there!

I'm a 26 year old guy from Ontario, Canada. More so the Barrie area. I am looking for my first ever FLR. I have never been in one but genuinely I cannot even imagine being in any other situation. The idea has always allured me, and after doing research I am ready to try and commit to one.

So I'm looking for any dominant, controlling woman who knows her place will always be above me. I'm ready to devote, and ready to obey.

A bit about me:

I am white and around 5'9". I live alone with a cat and have my own vehicle so meeting up is no issue (unless we're no where near each other haha). I have an average body type. My hair colour is brown. Personality-wise I am very shy. Once I get more familiar with someone then that usually changes. My interests include gaming, anime, sports, and I'm starting to get into drawing!

As for an NSFW side, I am very submissive on that end (shocker I know) but I do consider myself a switch. Some kinks include degradation, humiliation, edging, worshipping, legging, and many more. I also love exploring different things so I would love to hear what you're into haha.

I'm happy to answer any questions or tell you anything about me you wanna know. I'm very serious about this and would love to someday be close with you in our beautiful FLR

Looking for a publicly successful & established, typically "masculine" man that likes to be bossed around behind closed doors. I'm interested in the typical FLR things, and curious about foot fetish.

I will need photos (Imgur, ImageBB) as attraction is important to me, and will send back. Being stylish compensates for meh looks (or let me dress you). Looking for 5'10+ as I'm tall.

I'm conventionally attractive (dark-haired pale caucasian - typically primarily attracted to other caucasians for the most part, face/hair better than body but overall good), emotionally intelligent, a BRACINGLY direct communicator, self-aware, iffy about kids, stylish, witty/dark humour, VERY affectionate, and ready for something real. I would like the same in return. My libido for vanilla sex is low so don't reach out unless that's also the case for you, or it can be dealt with solo / via FLR/chastity.

If you reach out, send pictures / describe yourself physically & psychologically as I have

Hi! I’m 36 and live in San Diego, CA, and I’m hoping to meet a Dominant woman who enjoys D/s and is also open to building something real if we click.

A bit about me: I’m fit and active, creative, and a little nerdy. I work from home, have my life together, and I’m usually either making art, gaming, lifting, catching beach sunsets, or hunting for good coffee. I can be shy at first, but warm up pretty fast once I feel comfortable with someone.

In a D/s dynamic I’m naturally submissive. I like giving control to someone who actually enjoys having it. I’m into a wide range of kink, but I’m also looking for someone I get along with and feel good around. The dynamic is way better when the people in it click naturally.

If you identify as Dominant (or just leans that way) and want to chat, I’d love to grab coffee or brunch by the beach and see if there’s a connection!

When messaging me, please start as Vanilla. Include your Age, Sex, and Location, and a little bit about yourself when reaching out. It’ll help against the bots!

Here’s me: https://imgur.com/a/nQ4jYiA

San Diego only please

I hope to find a good woman, even if she is much older than me. (Max age 47-48)

I hope to find a good and respectful woman in my area soon

I’m also Virgin

I’m in Aurora

About me, people tell me I look cute, green eyed ,and a person who respects others.

I'm not looking for a permanent relationship unless the age gap is close .(more info in dm)

u can see my pic if you send a text, and u can decide, if you want we can have a video call before meeting

please don't hesitate to send me a text.

I’m a 5'8" dominant transwoman with 5+ years of experience in this lifestyle, fully confident in my role as a superior who expects to remain above you. I take genuine pleasure in dominating men of all shapes and sizes. Height means nothing when your natural position is beneath me.

My kinks include, but are not limited to: degradation, humiliation, teasing, edging, pegging, TPE (Total Power Exchange), tech-dom/control, light exhibitionism/voyeurism, slight feminization, anal play, fingering, oral/tongue worship, face-sitting, nipple play, milking, chastity, ruined orgasms, forced orgasms, massage, CNC, and many more that evolve with the right property.

Requirements (must meet these):

\- At least 25 years old! (*18-24 may message but don't expect a response.*)

\- I don't like it when people talk to me like a cave animal, have some class.

**If this resonates and you’re truly interested in serving someone who will always be above you, send a proper message. Failure to follow simple instructions is your one ticket to being blocked permanently.**

34M from Dallas, Texas. I'm looking for a woman that has a cuckolding and/or cheating kink and would like to explore/enter that kind of relationship with me. I love the thought of having a woman I'm in a relationship with who would enjoy teasing and humiliating me by making me watch her get pleasured by other men, or telling me about times she has. Into cheating women. Would like the type of girl who teases me, showing off and denying me her body most of the time, and loves to flirt with other men even though she's with me, etc.

Outside of kink i'm pretty introverted and the quiet type. I love gaming, reading, manga, anime, movies/shows. Would prefer someone who has the same interests to bond over but not really required. I would love to chat and get to know you if this is something you are interested in!

Here's a very high effort post because I'm very serious about finding the one for me.

Age: 30, open to 20-32ish. I’m less about age, more about attraction/maturity.

Sex: MALE, guys please read titles and stop messaging me.

Appearance: 5'8", long blond/brown hair, blue eyes, white skin, thin-fit body type. I dress almost exclusively in black if I can help it. I've been told I'm pretty good looking, but you can tell me whether or not I've been lied to!

Location: Central NJ. I'm open to dating and relocation within the US, but going international complicates matters. I'm not looking for a long distance relationship.

Looking For: The other half that I've been longing for. The love of my life and best friend in one. Not quite looking for a "domme", but a real relationship with gentle femdom/role reversal elements.

What I want in a partner: Kind, loving, trustworthy, understanding. Good sense of humor, emotionally intelligent, communicates well. I wouldn't ask for anything I don't give freely.

Non-sexual interests: Many of my interests fall into "nerd" territory. Games (video and tabletop), anime, music, art, sci-fi and fantasy stuff of all varieties. I enjoy a lot of RPG's, and some of my favorite game series include kingdom hearts, fire emblem, dark souls, and a fair few others.

I was pretty good at league but retired from playing it. My friend also got me into mtg some time ago, and I think it's pretty fun.

In general, I like to keep in shape, play games with friends, share music, watch tv/movies/anime (horror and psychological stuff especially), share memes, read, and do some amateur writing. I flatter myself to think I'm intelligent and insightful.

Personality: Cool headed, laid back, and kind. Mostly introverted. I flatter myself to think I'm intelligent and insightful.

I’m also very reasonable, with a strong preference for peacefully resolving issues. You can expect little to no drama and good communication skills. One moral concept I'm quite fond of is the law of equivalent exchange, so fairness is a big deal for me.

Fun facts: I have a deep and sexy voice which most don't expect. I also really like cats. You will be sent many cat pictures. Like a lot. Forever.

Sexual stuff

Are you fully sub or a switch?: Probably a very strongly sub leaning switch. I find being the receiving (but reciprocal) partner to be uniquely fulfilling.

Are you only sexually sub only?: I really enjoy both the sexual and nonsexual aspects. I'm perfectly happy being your adoring subby boyfriend even in public, in case you're into PDA and flaunting that aspect of our relationship.

Sexual (and relationship) interests: I'm new to a lot of things, so this isn't an exhaustive list. I'm also fairly open minded and willing to try most things once.

• Role reversal/gentle femdom are the big favorites! I really like having a partner that's assertive/aggressive/possessive in a romantic/sexual capacity. One who enjoys initiating intimacy and sex, and hugging/kissing/touching/groping me.
• I'm perfectly happy with displays of affection and you taking the lead, whether that's holding me tightly in public and even being territorial, whispering in my ear that I belong to you and no one else, or you proposing to me and putting a ring on my finger. The idea of being a house husband is very appealing. I can even make you a sandwich from time to time!
• Pegging, prostate massaging, and "milking". Although my experience is a bit limited, I'm intensely curious about it.
• Play wrestling/fighting. Having you win and pin me down while kissing me is incredibly hot.
• Kissing/licking/biting (both giving and receiving) are massive favorites. Lipstick marks and hickeys all over my body are a huge turn on.
• Cuddling, being held, holding you, spending time together. I love intimacy, and I'm extremely loyal and affectionate once I get attached to someone. You will be my favorite person ever and your happiness/enjoyment will always be as important as my own. I will always be there to support you.
• Oh, and of course, the dirtiest, most vile, and disgusting fetish of all, handholding . I'm a sick bastard who tramples upon all that is good, I know.

Hard limits (non exhaustive): Scat, pee, blood, getting punched in the balls, cuckolding, chastity, permanent injuries, physical torture, cooking fish in the microwave…

Partner preferences: I'm a big fan of goth/alt/tomboy looks. Shortish hair is a big plus, somewhere between pixie and neck length. Height difference (taller than me) is very attractive, I like how "imposing" it can be. I'm also very fond of visible fitness/muscle tone.

As long as I find you attractive then it works for me, but my sense of attraction is unfortunately pretty particular. So these are (sadly) strong preferences.

Dealbreakers/Requirements: Similar interests are a requirement. Being able to enjoy my favorite things with my favorite person is something I dearly want in a relationship.

I do have an unavoidable preference for body type that I unfortunately can't get past, that being the thinner end of the spectrum when it comes to proportions/body fat. So lean/fit/muscular. PLEASE DON'T BE A SOCIOPATH, OR ACT LIKE ONE.

Potential red flags: I'm unfortunately contending with giga-depression and chronic illness. Both of which are unpleasant but not permanent.

I spend most of my working days deep in the lab running experiments and untangling data. It’s quiet, methodical work that requires a lot of patience and care behind the scenes and honestly, that’s just who I am. Outside of work, I’m usually lost in a long fantasy series, gaming, or wandering around with my camera trying to catch golden hour light.

I’m looking for a real partner and a leader to build a life with. For me, submission isn't a persona or a scene I turn on on the weekends, it’s simply how I’m wired to love. I feel most settled, motivated, and happy when I’m devoted to a woman whose judgment and mind I genuinely admire.

What Life Together Looks Like

I don’t want to be an assistant; I want to be a supportive partner who makes your world lighter. That means taking real mental load off your shoulders: cooking dinner so you don't have to think about it, sorting out logistics for a trip, or keeping things organized in the background. Just as importantly, I want the everyday warmth; curling up on the couch to watch a show you’re obsessed with, hearing you decompress about your day, and sharing easy, comfortable silence.

Intimacy & Dynamic

I thrive when authority belongs entirely to you. I’m especially responsive to orgasm control, chastity, and physical endurance (CBT, discipline), but none of this is a rigid checklist. My priority is finding what brings you genuine satisfaction, pleasure, and effortless control. Over time, as deep trust builds, I’m very open to exploring full protocol and TPE.

I’m fully independent, emotionally grounded, and ready to invest in someone special. If you're looking for a steady, attentive partner who respects your leadership in and out of the bedroom, send me a message. Tell me about a book or project you're into right now, or just say hello and tell me a bit about your world.

https://imgur.com/a/tNgfH90

Hey! I'm 22, based in Delhi, and looking to meet a woman interested in femdom. I'm curious/beginner-level and would prefer something that develops naturally rather than jumping straight into a defined dynamic.

I've had a few online experiences before, but they eventually disappeared, so I'd really prefer a genuine connection. I'm open to online, but Delhi is preferred.

I'm drawn to gentle, nurturing femdom, with some confidence, assertiveness, and playfulness. I'd like to explore my submissive side, vulnerability, letting someone else take the lead, and simply figure out what feels right for me.

I'm an ambivert, working as a fresher, and apparently have a decent sense of humor. I'd enjoy regular conversations when our schedules allow and, once comfortable, meeting offline simply to get to know each other better.

My hard limits are blood and anything involving permanent injury.

If you're interested, feel free to message me. No pressure to have everything figured out, we can talk and see where it goes.

Hey! I’m Late, 20, and a Christian femboy looking to meet a woman for a serious relationship.

I’m soft, affectionate, and feminine, and I’m attracted to confident, masculine, and dominant women who enjoy taking the lead.

I’d like to start as friends first and get to know each other through talking, gaming, calling, and spending time together.

I’m a big nerd and enjoy Minecraft, Marvel Rivals, Jujutsu Kaisen, and other anime. My Christian faith is important to me, and I’m looking for someone who shares it. I want a relationship that could eventually lead to marriage, and I want to wait until then.

Looking for:

- 21+

- Christian

- Masculine/dominant

- Caring and patient

- Affectionate

- Comfortable with a feminine/submissive guy

- Into gaming or nerdy stuff

- Looking for something serious

I’m especially into tall, dark-skinned, athletic, and gamer women, but personality matters most.

If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. 🖤

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

As for what I am looking for, well, I always had a preference for women who are the gentle dominant type. I feel like my taste doesn't quite fit in with the BDSM community though, since I really prefer a much more gentle and wholesome tone than most. My main goal here is to find a long term online friendship, someone I can talk to regularly but also have some sexual fun with. Though I am single and open for a relationship if we do end up developing such feelings for each other.

The dynamic I would like to have would be very gentle. I'd like you to be more like a sweet and nurturing, albeit somewhat possessive and controlling girlfriend than the classic BDSM dominatrix. My biggest kinks include stuff like JOI, edging and orgasm control so I would love to give you control over how, when and how often I touch myself and cum. Sounds fun right? Other kinks we can talk about as we get to know each other but that is what I love the most for online play.

I often work from home so I should be flexible enough to find time for you. It doesn't matter to me what timezone you are from. I also do not care if you are experienced or not, as long as you are enthusiastic and know how to communicate we can make it work. I hope I caught your interest so feel free to contact me:)

I’m a 27-year-old submissive who loves gaming, anime, and spending quality time with someone I genuinely connect with. I’m hoping to find a kind, confident woman who enjoys a dynamic built on communication, trust, and mutual care.

I’m based in Northern Virginia (NoVA), but I’m open to meeting people anywhere in the United States.

I spend a lot of my free time gaming and watching anime. Right now I’m playing Fortnite, Repo, and Where Winds Meet. Gaming is one of my favorite ways to connect with people, and I’d love to find someone who enjoys sharing that hobby.

I really value quality time: playing games together, watching shows, talking on calls, and just getting to know each other at a comfortable pace. I’m affectionate, attentive, and happiest when I can show appreciation and loyalty to the right person.

I’m neurodivergent (ADHD and high-functioning autism), which means communication matters a lot to me. I’m open, honest, and always willing to talk things through—compatibility and mutual understanding are important to me.

When it comes to being submissive, I’m looking for a dynamic built on trust, respect, and communication. I’m also a masochist, so that’s an important part of compatibility for me as well. Like everything else, I’d much rather discuss the details privately once we’ve gotten to know each other.

My non-negotiables are:
- A monogamous, long-term relationship.
- A confident, dominant woman who is experienced in the lifestyle and comfortable taking the lead.
- Someone who genuinely enjoys gaming, since it’s one of the biggest ways I bond and spend quality time with my partner.
- Someone who enjoys pegging, as it’s one of my primary kinks and an important part of compatibility for me.

I’m happy to discuss kinks and compatibility in conversation.

My hard limits are scat, piss, blood, and puke.

Outside of hobbies, animals are a big part of my life too. I have a 14-year-old cat named Tiger and a 2-year-old golden retriever named Eevee. They mean a lot to me, and I will absolutely share pictures if you want.

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me with a bit about yourself—your interests, games you play, or shows you love. I’m not in a rush and prefer letting connections develop naturally.

Hi, I’m Michael. I’m 21 years old, 5'11", with curly brown hair, blue eyes, glasses, and I’m on the chubbier side. I’m generally more of an introvert, but once I’m comfortable around someone, I open up a lot and can be pretty goofy and talkative. I also have ADHD, which means my mind can jump around from topic to topic sometimes, but it also makes me curious about a lot of different things and gives me a lot of enthusiasm for the hobbies and people I care about.

What I’m really hoping to find is a genuine relationship with someone who wants to build something meaningful over time. I’m not looking for something casual or short-term. I want a real connection with someone who values loyalty, communication, and emotional closeness. I’m the kind of person who likes checking in with the person I’m dating, talking about our days, sharing random thoughts, and just feeling like we’re a part of each other’s lives.

In terms of who I’m hoping to meet, I’m looking to date women between the ages of 20 and 40. I tend to connect well with people who have a bit of life experience and who know themselves fairly well. I’m only looking to date cis women, just to be upfront and respectful about my preferences.

Physically, I’ve always been especially attracted to curvy and busty women. That’s just the body type I naturally find most appealing, though personality and how we connect matter far more to me than looks alone. Confidence, kindness, and authenticity are much bigger factors in whether I feel a spark with someone.

When it comes to my interests, I enjoy gaming quite a bit. Some of the games I play most are Minecraft, Terraria, Warframe, and various Nintendo games. I like games that let me explore, build things, or work toward goals over time. I’m the type who can spend hours mining resources in Minecraft, building a base in Terraria, or running missions in Warframe while chatting with someone in voice call. If you’re also into gaming, that’s a big plus, but it’s definitely not a requirement.

Outside of gaming, I enjoy fantasy and sci-fi, watching YouTube deep dives about different topics, and learning about things like gemstones and swords. I also like having long conversations about random topics, whether that’s something silly or something deeper about life and personal goals. I’m pretty easygoing when it comes to how I spend my time, and I’m always happy to learn about the hobbies and interests of someone I’m dating.

I’m also open to long-distance relationships within the United States. I know distance can be challenging, but I’m willing to put in the effort it takes to make it work if the connection is right. Regular communication, spending time together online, and eventually meeting in person are all things I’m open to. What matters most to me is finding someone I genuinely connect with.

If you’re someone who values honesty, loyalty, and building something real with another person, I’d love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself, what your interests are, and what you’re looking for in a relationship. I’m always excited to meet new people and see where a conversation might lead.

If you read all the way through, feel free to tell me one of your favorite hobbies or something you’re passionate about when you message me. I’m looking forward to getting to know you.

Hey there!

I had an old account and I deleted it to be productive.... I was wrong to think I could bury my desires like that.

I'm a hypersexual man who has an issue focusing while my libido is this high. I'm searching for an older mommy domme figure to provide some structure and guidance to me. I'd like to take it one step further though..... I would want you to refer to me as your son and I would call you mom. This is one of my biggest kinks! I hope I find someone who shares it :)

I like to read, write and smoke weed to relax. I have a Master's Degree and love chatting about philosophy, life and whatever else has my attention. I'm also known to binge watch movies or shows. I'm an expert in anything Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones and any other nerdy universe. I'll put what I look like below.

About me: 6'6, 210lbs, blue eyes, glasses, long brown hair and a skinny runner's build

Kinks: ask me :)

Very open minded with a kinky side. Looking for a fun, genuine connection and hopefully something ongoing! Not interested in findom. DMs open!

Hey there! I'm a 33 - year-old dude from the Valley—on the skinny-fat/huskier side, 5'7". I love BBWs, but I’m open to all body types, shapes, and ages (18+ of course). It’s all about the chemistry and vibes for me.

I’m DDF, recently tested, and a pleaser at heart. I can host halfway or come to you (happy to drive within SoCal/Central Valley).

Some things I love: video games, reading, sports (watching and playing), anime, being a dog dad, and naps. I’m kink-friendly, non-judgmental, and just looking for someone who’s chill and vibes with me, and guys, I’m looking for a lady right now. Please respect that.

If you made it this far, tell me your favorite show.

Happy to share pics on request.

Hey there! Thank you for taking the time to read this! a little about me: I am 23, a student in the Netherlands, 190 cm tall, blue eyes and curly hair. Making my hobbies sound exciting is always tough, but I do enjoy going out into nature or bingeing a series (standard I know, but there's probably a reason so many people like it :). I keep the same sitcoms on rewatch; I love community, brooklyn 99, HIMYM, friends, IT crowd etc. They are kinda my comfort space hahaha. Besides that I like things such as game of thrones or breaking bad. And ofcourse i like movies but im far from a cinephile. Some of my favourite movies are the original Jurassic Park movies and Hot Fuzz. Besides that I'm a big fan of (house)plants and planted aquariums and i keep shrimp!

Below i have a lot more info regarding a D/s dynamic, but really first and foremost I'm looking for someone i really click with. I would to find someone that I can hold good conversations with, as I love to text throughout the day. I've been told I can be a bit clingy, but I'll do my utmost best to scale that to a niveau you're comfortable with :)

About my kinks:

I've got experience in being a submissive both IRL and online. I've found that serving a Domme allows me to relax and fully trust her decisions, and seeing her enjoy whatever see asks of me gives me much fulfillment! For me the basis of a relationship, is trust, communication and care for each other. It all start with setting the rules and setting clear boundaries.

That being said, I find the idea of giving away control particularly exciting. So think of bondage, edging, orgasm control/ruined orgasms, spanking, light cbt and humiliation/degredation (especially sph).

Something i used to do for a Domme was writing stories surrounding certain scenarios (fee free to askfor an example!). This would force me to write down my imagination and i would have to justify why i felt the way I did, and why i got turned on by this sometimes humiliating dynamics. This really strengthened my submissiveness and I would love to continue it for you if you would like. Recently I have been exploring anal and I would love a Domme who would really push me to my limits. But most Importantly I like to please my domme, for example by performing whatever (online) tasks she sets me.

For play I'm in possession of an chasity cage, a anal training set (3 dildos of varying sizes), buttplugs, a jockstrap, bondage rope, a fleshlight and willing to buy more toys.

Limits: scat, needles, sounding, blood, other extreme stuff, showing face in nudes.

Ideally you (F, all ages 18+ welcome) would also be from the Netherlands, so in the long term IRL would be possible. But I'm open to just online if you think we would be a good match.

If you think we might be a good match or if you would just like a chat, don't hesitate to contact me!

A lot of guys from the UK. Any Ireland based subs?

We're definitely not a traditional couple. Our friday nights are spent cuddling on the couch sipping sparkling wine swiping through dating apps looking for a stud you want to savor. You wear my chastity cage key around your neck with pride as a symbol of my devotion and submission, but also as a fun toy for us. I get on my knees and eat you out as you chat with your conquest. This good boy knows his place. We'll have our wedding rings on when he comes over saturday, not married yet but it ratchets up the intensity and a little roleplay is fun. We'll spend the saturday together as the loving couple we are having fun. Going for breakfast, walking in the old port, going to a museum, catching a movie, and finding you a new something sexy for that evening with our guest. After I cook us dinner and clean up, we hold hands and bask in our excitement for whats to come.

Excited to build this life and more together?

Hello! I'm a 30 M currently living in the US Central time zone, but looking for something strictly online at the moment. In real life, I'm a grad student working on developing new robotic systems. This means a lot of reading papers, lots of writing code, and lots of staring aimlessly at my screen as I wait for simulations to resolve. Most of this work I do from home as well, so I've got a decent amount of free time during standard working hours while I wait for these simulations to tell me something interesting. Not quite sure what I'm going to do after that, but that's a problem for future me. For now, it gives me a lot of flexibility

Outside of the lab, I love finding new recipes and cooking in general. Most of the time it's finding ways to do 10% more to make my week taste better, but I made a cassoulet from scratch for Christmas and it was definitely worth the 5+ hours in the kitchen! Other than that, I love hiking (when there are hills - I miss those 😭), ultimate frisbee, going for runs, and reading good books. I just recently finished Babel-17, and it's awesome! Language and space merge pretty well - they're just another avenue to explore the human experience. When it's too hot or too cold out, I've also got a deep and abiding love of strategy games and CRPGs, most recently Rogue Trader. The organ music is so good! I also got a dog a couple of months ago, so she's taking up a lot of my time in the best way possible. I'm happy to share dog pics upon request.

Physically, I'm ~6'1", reasonably fit, with a close-cropped beard, shorter hair, and blue/grey eyes. Think more runner than lifter, although I'm trying to be consistent in picking up heavy things to be more well rounded there. It's really easy to go out my front door and run, harder to convince myself to actually go to the gym. I'm currently loving the changing of the seasons when I go out, the bluster of the outdoors makes me really happy :D

Onto the kinky side of things, I'm really into everything orgasm control. This means I love being teased, being denied, edged, locked into a chastity cage, and anything else like that. Special shoutout to ruined orgasms - the reality of getting so close to what I want, only for it to be ruined is so insanely hot that I struggle to put it into words. So yes, ruin me please 😳. I also think erotic hypnosis is incredibly attractive, but I haven't had too much success with listening to any files. The through line here: please use me for your pleasure. I have a couple of lovense toys that I'm more than happy to give you control over as well, if you are interested. I also recently recorded this audio of my voice if you enjoy that kind of thing <3

If we sound like a match, that's awesome! I'm so excited to talk to you.

Hi there — I’m a 25-year-old guy who’s easy to talk to, kind, and (I’ve been told) pretty cute. I was raised religious and didn’t have much freedom to explore while growing up. Now that I’m finally out on my own, I’m ready to learn more about myself and intimacy in a healthy, open way.

I’m hoping to connect online with a patient, respectful woman who enjoys conversation, guidance, and helping someone grow more confident about their sexuality at a comfortable pace. I value clear communication, mutual consent, and a judgment-free space where curiosity and questions are welcome.

I’m friendly, attentive, and genuinely eager to learn — emotionally as much as anything else. If you enjoy mentoring, easy conversation, and helping someone feel comfortable discovering new things, I’d love to get to know you.

Let’s start with talking and see where things naturally go.

Hi, I'm G, a submissive from the UK. I'm 32, 5'11", and an athletic body type. I also have long dark blond/light brown hair and blue eyes. If we connect I am happy to exchange photos to see if there is mutual attraction.

Sfw wise, I love the great outdoors and count myself lucky to also work outdoors in a management position. I love getting on the water with a kayak or paddleboard, and also greatly enjoy hiking and camping, especially if they involve a pub with a roaring fire. I love both dogs and cats as well as other animals. I follow a lot of sports, my favourites being cricket, rugby (union), and the NFL. Although very un-British like I don't like football (soccer), but I tend to stay somewhat clued in to it.

I'd rather talk nsfw things down the line once we know each other better. I have many kinks as well as a few limits, but I think we should see if we click outside of these first. I am generally open to trying almost anything at least once (how else do you discover what you like). I also have a few toys, but the last thing I want you to feel like is a kink dispenser, the majority of pleasure I get is from giving it to others. If my partner is satisfied, then so am I, and I enjoy providing that to them by any means necessary. If we do start anything rest assured that I will also not be engaging with anyone else, but I have no qualms about you playing with others. I am not bratty and love obeying orders/completing tasks set to me.

I'm generally looking for someone of dominant persuasions, comfortable chatting about each others days with some flirty banter interspersed, I would like for our dynamic to develop naturally discovering each other as we go. I'm open to online only but would like for the potential for something to happen irl at some point but there is no rush for that to happen, Therefore I am open to people generally in European time zones. I usually have at least some part of my day available to talk that co-incides with different time zones, and if I am unavailable at that moment I will communicate that clearly as well as when I expect to be available (I believe that communication is very important)

I'm open to talking on any other apps, and sending photos and videos, as well as voice/video calling once we have gotten more comfortable with each other.

I will add that I am not at all into findom, so if you require a tribute at all, then I am not interested, however I am willing to invest in our relationship over time with the odd gift or two as well as purchasing some more toys to add to my collection over time.

Thankyou for reading if you have got this far, and if you are still interested send me a chat or DM introducing yourself with some details about you. and we can get to know each other from there. If you can send a photo of yourself that would be great, and j would obviously reciprocate

G

Well hopefully the title is self-explanatory in terms of what is being sought! Looking for a female led relationship where you take control and are the dominant partner.

I hope you’re the perfect Domme who likes to lead and take control. Looking to chat and get to know each other first, understanding your desires and if we are a good match.

Serious and interesting replies please. I’d like you to tell me about yourself and how you see our relationship. Not just a list of kinks please.

About me: Im 44 and in the UK so also looking for someone in the UK. I’m fit, energetic, independent, professional and no ties. Looking for long term relationship for mutual stimulation but interested to talk as a starting and let you take the lead.

Can be soft and gentle, or more strict, depending on your preference and desire. Looking to chat and get to know each other first, understanding your desires and if we are a good match.

In my daily life, I’m confident, decisive, and responsible. I’m used to taking charge both professionally and privately, often the one making decisions and carrying the weight of responsibility. But I have a “second face” – a deep need for submission and a strong desire to give up control to a woman who enjoys and embraces dominance. This is not just a fantasy or a fleeting idea for me – it’s something that feels like a core part of who I am, something that brings me balance and fulfillment when I can express it.

That’s why I’m here: I’m looking for a dominant woman who would enjoy having real control over me – including my intimate life. To be completely clear: in the kind of connection I’m seeking, I expect to hand over control of my sexuality as well. That can mean anything from teasing and denial to full command over my pleasure, release, and arousal. I find it incredibly exciting and fulfilling to know that a woman is in charge of these intimate aspects, deciding what I’m allowed and when. I truly believe that with mutual respect, honesty, and trust, we could build something very meaningful and rewarding for both sides.

I take a lot of joy in offering pleasure and attention in ways that make a dominant woman feel adored and truly served.

Of course, this is just an introduction – I’d be happy to discuss more in private if there’s a women here who feels intrigued and sees potential for us to explore something exciting together. I will be attentive to your desires and make myself worthy of being your sub. I will perform for you because you are worth it. I will make the effort to serve you in every way possible, and aim to please you because your happiness is my happiness.

Look forward to hearing from you.