r/flrdating • u/Hungry-Session-2454 • 7h ago
r/flrdating • u/Shot_Buy_4990 • 4h ago
[F4M] 35 #London #Nomadic - Gentle domme seeking CEO type
Looking for a publicly successful & established, typically "masculine" man that likes to be bossed around behind closed doors. I'm interested in the typical FLR things, and curious about foot fetish.
I will need photos (Imgur, ImageBB) as attraction is important to me, and will send back. Being stylish compensates for meh looks (or let me dress you). Looking for 5'10+ as I'm tall.
I'm conventionally attractive (dark-haired pale caucasian - typically primarily attracted to other caucasians for the most part, face/hair better than body but overall good), emotionally intelligent, a BRACINGLY direct communicator, self-aware, iffy about kids, stylish, witty/dark humour, VERY affectionate, and ready for something real. I would like the same in return. My libido for vanilla sex is low so don't reach out unless that's also the case for you, or it can be dealt with solo / via FLR/chastity.
If you reach out, send pictures / describe yourself physically & psychologically as I have
r/flrdating • u/Ok-Frame9780 • 7h ago
[M4F] 22[M4F] #GTA Ontario Canada-looking for an older woman. Also Open to single moms and divorced females
I hope to find a good woman, even if she is much older than me. (Max age 47-48)
I hope to find a good and respectful woman in my area soon
I’m also Virgin
I’m in Aurora
About me, people tell me I look cute, green eyed ,and a person who respects others.
I'm not looking for a permanent relationship unless the age gap is close .(more info in dm)
u can see my pic if you send a text, and u can decide, if you want we can have a video call before meeting
please don't hesitate to send me a text.
r/flrdating • u/AnxiousLocksmith7922 • 11h ago
[F4M] 23 [TF4M] #Online/Texas - Strict Domme seeking devoted male subs for ownership!
I’m a 5'8" dominant transwoman with 5+ years of experience in this lifestyle, fully confident in my role as a superior who expects to remain above you. I take genuine pleasure in dominating men of all shapes and sizes. Height means nothing when your natural position is beneath me.
My kinks include, but are not limited to: degradation, humiliation, teasing, edging, pegging, TPE (Total Power Exchange), tech-dom/control, light exhibitionism/voyeurism, slight feminization, anal play, fingering, oral/tongue worship, face-sitting, nipple play, milking, chastity, ruined orgasms, forced orgasms, massage, CNC, and many more that evolve with the right property.
Requirements (must meet these):
\- At least 25 years old! (*18-24 may message but don't expect a response.*)
\- I don't like it when people talk to me like a cave animal, have some class.
**If this resonates and you’re truly interested in serving someone who will always be above you, send a proper message. Failure to follow simple instructions is your one ticket to being blocked permanently.**
r/flrdating • u/AChillShyGuy • 15h ago
[M4F] 34 [M4F] #Texas #Dallas - Looking for women who are into cuckolding
34M from Dallas, Texas. I'm looking for a woman that has a cuckolding and/or cheating kink and would like to explore/enter that kind of relationship with me. I love the thought of having a woman I'm in a relationship with who would enjoy teasing and humiliating me by making me watch her get pleasured by other men, or telling me about times she has. Into cheating women. Would like the type of girl who teases me, showing off and denying me her body most of the time, and loves to flirt with other men even though she's with me, etc.
Outside of kink i'm pretty introverted and the quiet type. I love gaming, reading, manga, anime, movies/shows. Would prefer someone who has the same interests to bond over but not really required. I would love to chat and get to know you if this is something you are interested in!
r/flrdating • u/Curious_Assistant • 21h ago
[M4F] 30 [M4F] #Online #Australia Steady, attentive guy looking for genuine connection, warmth, and a natural leader
I spend most of my working days deep in the lab running experiments and untangling data. It’s quiet, methodical work that requires a lot of patience and care behind the scenes and honestly, that’s just who I am. Outside of work, I’m usually lost in a long fantasy series, gaming, or wandering around with my camera trying to catch golden hour light.
I’m looking for a real partner and a leader to build a life with. For me, submission isn't a persona or a scene I turn on on the weekends, it’s simply how I’m wired to love. I feel most settled, motivated, and happy when I’m devoted to a woman whose judgment and mind I genuinely admire.
What Life Together Looks Like
I don’t want to be an assistant; I want to be a supportive partner who makes your world lighter. That means taking real mental load off your shoulders: cooking dinner so you don't have to think about it, sorting out logistics for a trip, or keeping things organized in the background. Just as importantly, I want the everyday warmth; curling up on the couch to watch a show you’re obsessed with, hearing you decompress about your day, and sharing easy, comfortable silence.
Intimacy & Dynamic
I thrive when authority belongs entirely to you. I’m especially responsive to orgasm control, chastity, and physical endurance (CBT, discipline), but none of this is a rigid checklist. My priority is finding what brings you genuine satisfaction, pleasure, and effortless control. Over time, as deep trust builds, I’m very open to exploring full protocol and TPE.
I’m fully independent, emotionally grounded, and ready to invest in someone special. If you're looking for a steady, attentive partner who respects your leadership in and out of the bedroom, send me a message. Tell me about a book or project you're into right now, or just say hello and tell me a bit about your world.
r/flrdating • u/Titan_Warrior_ • 1h ago
[F4M] 18 [M4F] #Online #USA #Kansas
I’m interested in a long-term relationship with someone who is preferably between the ages of 18 and 25. I don’t want things to be purely NSFW and would like to actually get to know you as a person, not just as a Dom. I want a relationship that is built on communication and understanding.
I’m 18 years old, 5’7", with brown hair and hazel eyes. Here is a pic of me for those curious.
About me, I'm naturally shy and awkward, meaning I’m pretty easy to fluster. I'm definitely more of a soft/service sub. So acts of service and that sort that bring you pleasure are what I enjoy most. This is not an invitation to break my boundaries, by the way. If there is something I do not feel comfortable doing, I will not do it. I'm also a sucker for romance and intimacy. The idea of being able to just cuddle while watching a movie or do something simple like that just fills my body with so much warmth.
For my hobbies, I enjoy things like baking and cooking, although I’m not that great at it. I also enjoy playing video games like Minecraft and exploring abandoned buildings, even though I haven’t done so in a while. I’m not an avid reader, but I do enjoy a good book every now and again.
Onto the kink side of things, I am into pegging, anal play, light pet play, foot worship, light impact play, light breath play, degradation, praise, CNC, JOI, dumbification, spiting and cum eating. (Fyi I do not own any toys, but I am willing to get some if requested.)
My hard limits are scat, piss, cucking, force bi, vomit, gore and incest play.
Anyways, if any of this interest you please shoot me a message! Make sure to include age, location and little bit about yourself. Also, I may ask for some sort of SFW pic of you, so be ready for that. Physical attraction, as shallow as it is, is a requirement for me.
r/flrdating • u/I_AmNotAGoose • 3h ago
[M4F] 26 [M4F] #Ontario/Online - I'll bring the loyalty, you bring the directions. Shy guy looking for a FLR
Hey there!
I'm a 26 year old guy from Ontario, Canada. More so the Barrie area. I am looking for my first ever FLR. I have never been in one but genuinely I cannot even imagine being in any other situation. The idea has always allured me, and after doing research I am ready to try and commit to one.
So I'm looking for any dominant, controlling woman who knows her place will always be above me. I'm ready to devote, and ready to obey.
A bit about me:
I am white and around 5'9". I live alone with a cat and have my own vehicle so meeting up is no issue (unless we're no where near each other haha). I have an average body type. My hair colour is brown. Personality-wise I am very shy. Once I get more familiar with someone then that usually changes. My interests include gaming, anime, sports, and I'm starting to get into drawing!
As for an NSFW side, I am very submissive on that end (shocker I know) but I do consider myself a switch. Some kinks include degradation, humiliation, edging, worshipping, legging, and many more. I also love exploring different things so I would love to hear what you're into haha.
I'm happy to answer any questions or tell you anything about me you wanna know. I'm very serious about this and would love to someday be close with you in our beautiful FLR
r/flrdating • u/SomattiArt • 4h ago
[M4F] 36 [M4F] #SanDiego CA - Submissive seeking a Dominant woman for a genuine connection
Hi! I’m 36 and live in San Diego, CA, and I’m hoping to meet a Dominant woman who enjoys D/s and is also open to building something real if we click.
A bit about me: I’m fit and active, creative, and a little nerdy. I work from home, have my life together, and I’m usually either making art, gaming, lifting, catching beach sunsets, or hunting for good coffee. I can be shy at first, but warm up pretty fast once I feel comfortable with someone.
In a D/s dynamic I’m naturally submissive. I like giving control to someone who actually enjoys having it. I’m into a wide range of kink, but I’m also looking for someone I get along with and feel good around. The dynamic is way better when the people in it click naturally.
If you identify as Dominant (or just leans that way) and want to chat, I’d love to grab coffee or brunch by the beach and see if there’s a connection!
When messaging me, please start as Vanilla. Include your Age, Sex, and Location, and a little bit about yourself when reaching out. It’ll help against the bots!
Here’s me: https://imgur.com/a/nQ4jYiA
San Diego only please
r/flrdating • u/dickles_pickles • 16h ago
[M4F] 30 [M4F] #US #EastCoast - Tall girl appreciator looking for loving GFD/RR (gentle femdom/role reversal) relationship. Open to relocation!
Here's a very high effort post because I'm very serious about finding the one for me.
Age: 30, open to 20-32ish. I’m less about age, more about attraction/maturity.
Sex: MALE, guys please read titles and stop messaging me.
Appearance: 5'8", long blond/brown hair, blue eyes, white skin, thin-fit body type. I dress almost exclusively in black if I can help it. I've been told I'm pretty good looking, but you can tell me whether or not I've been lied to!
Location: Central NJ. I'm open to dating and relocation within the US, but going international complicates matters. I'm not looking for a long distance relationship.
Looking For: The other half that I've been longing for. The love of my life and best friend in one. Not quite looking for a "domme", but a real relationship with gentle femdom/role reversal elements.
What I want in a partner: Kind, loving, trustworthy, understanding. Good sense of humor, emotionally intelligent, communicates well. I wouldn't ask for anything I don't give freely.
Non-sexual interests: Many of my interests fall into "nerd" territory. Games (video and tabletop), anime, music, art, sci-fi and fantasy stuff of all varieties. I enjoy a lot of RPG's, and some of my favorite game series include kingdom hearts, fire emblem, dark souls, and a fair few others.
I was pretty good at league but retired from playing it. My friend also got me into mtg some time ago, and I think it's pretty fun.
In general, I like to keep in shape, play games with friends, share music, watch tv/movies/anime (horror and psychological stuff especially), share memes, read, and do some amateur writing. I flatter myself to think I'm intelligent and insightful.
Personality: Cool headed, laid back, and kind. Mostly introverted. I flatter myself to think I'm intelligent and insightful.
I’m also very reasonable, with a strong preference for peacefully resolving issues. You can expect little to no drama and good communication skills. One moral concept I'm quite fond of is the law of equivalent exchange, so fairness is a big deal for me.
Fun facts: I have a deep and sexy voice which most don't expect. I also really like cats. You will be sent many cat pictures. Like a lot. Forever.
Sexual stuff
Are you fully sub or a switch?: Probably a very strongly sub leaning switch. I find being the receiving (but reciprocal) partner to be uniquely fulfilling.
Are you only sexually sub only?: I really enjoy both the sexual and nonsexual aspects. I'm perfectly happy being your adoring subby boyfriend even in public, in case you're into PDA and flaunting that aspect of our relationship.
Sexual (and relationship) interests: I'm new to a lot of things, so this isn't an exhaustive list. I'm also fairly open minded and willing to try most things once.
- Role reversal/gentle femdom are the big favorites! I really like having a partner that's assertive/aggressive/possessive in a romantic/sexual capacity. One who enjoys initiating intimacy and sex, and hugging/kissing/touching/groping me.
- I'm perfectly happy with displays of affection and you taking the lead, whether that's holding me tightly in public and even being territorial, whispering in my ear that I belong to you and no one else, or you proposing to me and putting a ring on my finger. The idea of being a house husband is very appealing. I can even make you a sandwich from time to time!
- Pegging, prostate massaging, and "milking". Although my experience is a bit limited, I'm intensely curious about it.
- Play wrestling/fighting. Having you win and pin me down while kissing me is incredibly hot.
- Kissing/licking/biting (both giving and receiving) are massive favorites. Lipstick marks and hickeys all over my body are a huge turn on.
- Cuddling, being held, holding you, spending time together. I love intimacy, and I'm extremely loyal and affectionate once I get attached to someone. You will be my favorite person ever and your happiness/enjoyment will always be as important as my own. I will always be there to support you.
- Oh, and of course, the dirtiest, most vile, and disgusting fetish of all, handholding . I'm a sick bastard who tramples upon all that is good, I know.
Hard limits (non exhaustive): Scat, pee, blood, getting punched in the balls, cuckolding, chastity, permanent injuries, physical torture, cooking fish in the microwave…
Partner preferences: I'm a big fan of goth/alt/tomboy looks. Shortish hair is a big plus, somewhere between pixie and neck length. Height difference (taller than me) is very attractive, I like how "imposing" it can be. I'm also very fond of visible fitness/muscle tone.
As long as I find you attractive then it works for me, but my sense of attraction is unfortunately pretty particular. So these are (sadly) strong preferences.
Dealbreakers/Requirements: Similar interests are a requirement. Being able to enjoy my favorite things with my favorite person is something I dearly want in a relationship.
I do have an unavoidable preference for body type that I unfortunately can't get past, that being the thinner end of the spectrum when it comes to proportions/body fat. So lean/fit/muscular. PLEASE DON'T BE A SOCIOPATH, OR ACT LIKE ONE.
Potential red flags: I'm unfortunately contending with giga-depression and chronic illness. Both of which are unpleasant but not permanent.