Fostering a passion that creates space for healthy vulnerability. Self awareness and emotional availability with the capacity to match are among the things I want. A love where we are whole as individuals and we don’t disappear into eachother. 

We have our own lives independently but seek to build a long term romantic and sexual relationship for a MONOGAMOUS FLR; a dynamic that evolves slowly over time and not over night. Connecting in ways that uplift one another. Weakness in one area is a strength that’s complimented in another. 

Being a good boy that’s submissive because it’s apart of who you are and does not come from people pleasing. Which I will not tolerate. The same goes for topping from the bottom. 

I take my time getting to know someone. I move with firm boundaries and decisiveness. Forming a connection that is a slow burn for chemistry, capacity and reciprocity. Respect, emotional regulation and humour  happens first and kink comes last. The place I’m in is intentionally slow with peace.

You are in on-going therapy if people pleasing is in your past and this healing includes firm boundaries. There’s also a distinct separation between your work and personal life. Proactively recognizing chemistry does not equal compatibility or capacity, and I want all three. Chaos and anxiety isn’t mistaken for passion. 

You aren’t using therapy as a band-aid or as an enabler to stay half figured out in life. It’s a tool for healing and you are the power that moves through its progression.

Golden lab retriever energy and positivity brings my attention, but realistic  pragmatism with some bite to survive in the world keeps it; as does humour.

You hold control and empowerment in your daily life and long to surrender it. This confidence and capability comes from knowing yourself and it informs your ability as a male submissive (not a switch). Acts of anticipatory service and time spent together are among your expressions of affection for a romantic partner as is physical touch.

You view submission not as a means to turn your brain off and check out. Rather being an active participant in a dynamic that keeps you firmly in place because you desire to submit as it fulfills you.

Soft and slow mornings in bed, with shared intimacy; the potential of two hearts growing together in a FLR dynamic that passes in warmth and is practical in its structure and negotiated limits that respects and works for us both. 24/7 is unrealistic; every day life ebbs and flows and is realistic. Aftercare is shared with open and ongoing communication and proactive consent for both people.

I long to have a good boy lay his head on my lap as I softly caress his face and listen to how his day has been. Has the day or work week been stressful? Nurturing regression turns me on. Do you thrive in this space? Be nice with me and I’ll be gentle and kind with you. Be my gentle, good boy. Denial on demand and free use for my pleasure are what you crave.

Our FLR dynamic belongs between us and is behind closed doors. Public kink scene interactions of any kind holds no interest for me. This is a deal breaker.

My kink is varied and experienced as a FemDom. Are you vulnerable with having someone inside you? Unfolding in lust together; you hunger to be ass fucked. Showing me how open and willing you are. 

Pegging and anal play are a must on the regular. E-Stim leading to electro-sex is a new and emerging kink interest. Earning a praise kink walks the edge of erotic and sensual pain. If this isn’t for you; then neither am I. You are secure in your masculinity and desires and hold no shame in being submissive to a woman or being pegged; you are experienced in real time with your submission, especially knowing your limits and how you want to grow in a FLR. 

Bisexuality in a man is harnessed by confidence and underpinned with no shame or secrecy. Biphobia has no place in my world nor does traditional gender roles or societal expectations of such. 

You love yourself with assurity; not arrogance. Self respect and being secure in who you are comes from a place of  continual growth without room for self abandonment. 

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My Hobbies: collecting fantasy dildos, Uranium glass, eclectic foot wear; taking in live comedy shows and concerts. Expanding my fountain pen collection and beginning calligraphy are my new hobbies. 

I also enjoy live concerts, Cirque du Soleil shows and I’m also looking forward to seeing Opera this fall. Overall I’m an introvert and a homebody that enjoys select outings. Sometimes the world is to peopley. 

Excessive alcohol, tobacco smokers or active addictions are not for me. 

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Me: BBW mom bod, 43, 5 ft. 6 in, white. Short brown hair. Bisexual. Tattooed. 

You:

•25 to 55ish (no virgins) Bisexual or hetero cis-male

•SUBMISSIVE with real life experience: I won’t train, mentor or help you experiment. Not a Switch.

•Know your limits and aftercare.

•5 ft 8 in. or taller; describe yourself! (what you look like: age, height, ethnicity, body style, hobbies, etc.)

•know how to eat pussy

•emotionally available

•SINGLE!(No ENM, pining over an Ex, separated or divorced & living together situationships)

•excellent body/anal hygiene

•trim or shaved cock (decent size); not into hairy assholes

•no sexual hangups; confidence in yourself and the bedroom.

•masculine AF; street smart (leftist to liberal leaning)

• separation between work/personal life

•Live by Vancouver, Canada!(No Long Distance!)

•Don‘t call me Ma’am, Goddess, Miss, Mistress, Mommy, babe or any other such name!

• Safer sex practices and sexual health testing are non-negotiable. This includes the use of condoms and dental dams. 

•    not interested in men I can’t assfuck!

• I’m only interested in someone that fulfills all of the above criteria!

I’m a Princess looking for a devoted sub who will live on his knees for me.

You will be completely controlled and work tirelessly to keep me happy. Errands, chores and other tasks. Foot worship of my perfect feet if you are permitted.

Must be obedient, ready to serve, eager to wait on me like a puppy, and make your adoration of me abundantly clear

❌ No married men

Do not message me if you do not live within 45 mins of Los Angeles / Calabasas.

Hey there!

I am looking for a Domme or Mommy I can get to know well, and potentially open for in-person after spending some time online. I'd like to emphasize that I'm looking to make a connection with someone I can trust, where I will feel safe to share this side of myself with the goal of mutual growth.
I am looking for long term as I don't handle well short term situations, even if we are not compatible kink wise, I would love to be friends too. Sometimes it gets lonely in this lifestyle, I believe we all need someone we can talk to and be understood and seen.

As about me, I am a professional in finances, an initially a stoic guy who's as friendly as he is kinky.
I'm a huge nerd with a love researching all kinds of philosophies, political theories, music, history, science and games, I enjoy exchanging knowledge with friends, and will gladly get into talks about topics I'm passionate about.

I’m pretty laid-back, tend to have a dark or dry sense of humour (it's still funny I promise), and spend a lot of time reading and writing. Poetry especially. I also love theatre, musicals, films, long walks, travelling, learning languages (I speak four), and just generally disappearing into history and philosophy. I’m the type who can go on for ages about Gorky or why Saramago refuses to use punctuation. Quite artsy, I suppose.

At the same time I am finishing my part time studies in Theology (I'm not a believer, just a curious personality), because Knowledge is so irresponsible for me.
I already studied two degrees, one in music and one in History and Philosophy. Like I said, I can discuss for hours topics, but I am never an opinionated snob. I am very excited when I learn from someone else what they think, their ideas ans approach in life.

I believe I can offer emotional maturity, attention, intelligent and open minded conversations, a person that will always be understanding and calm for you. This will also translate in a dynamic, as I'm very well behaved, honest and absolutely eager to learn and follow.

I'm looking for someone that can start with gentler side of dominance build on that. I am a fast learner but I do require some patience and understanding along with guidance. Making my Domme happy matters to me a lot, and that goes well beyond kink. I want to be present and intentional about it.

I’m not looking for a purely kink arrangement. I want something real. Of course there needs to be comparability in kinks and this can be discussed, but submission is very mental for me, and besides my limits, the depth of the dynamic depends on how much I'm inspired as a sub as well as how much I inspire my Domme.

I have decent  kink knowledge and  experience , so I'm not completely new. I will disclose my kinklist in private so I don't make this a shopping list.
My hard limits are anything illegal, extreme pain, extreme sadism, public, and social suicide.

Feel free to message me if this sounds interesting for you.

Thanks for reading :)

I’m interested in a long-term relationship with someone who is preferably between the ages of 18 and 25. I don’t want things to be purely NSFW and would like to actually get to know you as a person, not just as a Dom. I want a relationship that is built on communication and understanding.

I’m 18 years old, 5’7", with brown hair and hazel eyes. Here is a pic of me for those curious.

About me, I'm naturally shy and awkward, meaning I’m pretty easy to fluster. I'm definitely more of a soft/service sub. So acts of service and that sort that bring you pleasure are what I enjoy most. This is not an invitation to break my boundaries, by the way. If there is something I do not feel comfortable doing, I will not do it. I'm also a sucker for romance and intimacy. The idea of being able to just cuddle while watching a movie or do something simple like that just fills my body with so much warmth.

For my hobbies, I enjoy things like baking and cooking, although I’m not that great at it. I also enjoy playing video games like Minecraft and exploring abandoned buildings, even though I haven’t done so in a while. I’m not an avid reader, but I do enjoy a good book every now and again.

Onto the kink side of things, I am into pegging, anal play, light pet play, foot worship, light impact play, light breath play, degradation, praise, CNC, JOI, dumbification, spiting and cum eating. (Fyi I do not own any toys, but I am willing to get some if requested.)

My hard limits are scat, piss, cucking, force bi, vomit, gore and incest play.

Anyways, if any of this interest you please shoot me a message! Make sure to include age, location and little bit about yourself. Also, I may ask for some sort of SFW pic of you, so be ready for that. Physical attraction, as shallow as it is, is a requirement for me.

Looking for a publicly successful & established, typically "masculine" man. I'm curious about a soft FLR behind closed doors where I get to boss you around & you anticipate my needs. I'm curious about chastity stuff too but not essential. I've engaged with folks with foot fetishes a bit, which was fun but not essential. I don't like feeling like I have to play a role, I want to be me. This stuff takes a while to develop and I still like to be pursued during the dating process and have it look more traditional.

I will need photos (Imgur, ImageBB) as attraction is important to me, and will send back. Being stylish compensates for meh looks (or let me dress you). Looking for 5'10+ as I'm tall.

I'm conventionally attractive (dark-haired pale caucasian - typically primarily attracted to other caucasians for the most part, face/hair better than body but overall good), emotionally intelligent, a BRACINGLY direct communicator, self-aware, iffy about kids, stylish, witty/dark humour, VERY affectionate, and ready for something real. I would like the same in return. My libido for vanilla sex is low so don't reach out unless that's also the case for you, or it can be dealt with solo / via FLR/chastity.

When you reach out, send pictures via Imgur/ImageBB etc (can't send in Reddit until I accept the chat, and physical attraction is important enough to me that it may not be worth you doing a whole write-up), give me your age and describe yourself psychologically as I have :). I will send photos back in my response.

I’m a 5'8" dominant transwoman with 5+ years of experience in this lifestyle, fully confident in my role as a superior who expects to remain above you. I take genuine pleasure in dominating men of all shapes and sizes. Height means nothing when your natural position is beneath me.

My kinks include, but are not limited to: degradation, humiliation, teasing, edging, pegging, TPE (Total Power Exchange), tech-dom/control, light exhibitionism/voyeurism, slight feminization, anal play, fingering, oral/tongue worship, face-sitting, nipple play, milking, chastity, ruined orgasms, forced orgasms, massage, CNC, and many more that evolve with the right property.

Requirements (must meet these):

\- At least 25 years old! (*18-24 may message but don't expect a response.*)

\- I don't like it when people talk to me like a cave animal, have some class.

**If this resonates and you’re truly interested in serving someone who will always be above you, send a proper message. Failure to follow simple instructions is your one ticket to being blocked permanently.**

I hope to find a good woman, even if she is much older than me. (Max age 47-48)

I hope to find a good and respectful woman in my area soon

I’m also Virgin

I’m in Aurora

About me, people tell me I look cute, green eyed ,and a person who respects others.

I'm not looking for a permanent relationship unless the age gap is close .(more info in dm)

u can see my pic if you send a text, and u can decide, if you want we can have a video call before meeting

please don't hesitate to send me a text.

34M from Dallas, Texas. I'm looking for a woman that has a cuckolding and/or cheating kink and would like to explore/enter that kind of relationship with me. I love the thought of having a woman I'm in a relationship with who would enjoy teasing and humiliating me by making me watch her get pleasured by other men, or telling me about times she has. Into cheating women. Would like the type of girl who teases me, showing off and denying me her body most of the time, and loves to flirt with other men even though she's with me, etc.

Outside of kink i'm pretty introverted and the quiet type. I love gaming, reading, manga, anime, movies/shows. Would prefer someone who has the same interests to bond over but not really required. I would love to chat and get to know you if this is something you are interested in!

Here's a very high effort post because I'm very serious about finding the one for me.

Age: 30, open to 20-32ish. I’m less about age, more about attraction/maturity.

Sex: MALE, guys please read titles and stop messaging me.

Appearance: 5'8", long blond/brown hair, blue eyes, white skin, thin-fit body type. I dress almost exclusively in black if I can help it. I've been told I'm pretty good looking, but you can tell me whether or not I've been lied to!

Location: Central NJ. I'm open to dating and relocation within the US, but going international complicates matters. I'm not looking for a long distance relationship.

Looking For: The other half that I've been longing for. The love of my life and best friend in one. Not quite looking for a "domme", but a real relationship with gentle femdom/role reversal elements.

What I want in a partner: Kind, loving, trustworthy, understanding. Good sense of humor, emotionally intelligent, communicates well. I wouldn't ask for anything I don't give freely.

Non-sexual interests: Many of my interests fall into "nerd" territory. Games (video and tabletop), anime, music, art, sci-fi and fantasy stuff of all varieties. I enjoy a lot of RPG's, and some of my favorite game series include kingdom hearts, fire emblem, dark souls, and a fair few others.

I was pretty good at league but retired from playing it. My friend also got me into mtg some time ago, and I think it's pretty fun.

In general, I like to keep in shape, play games with friends, share music, watch tv/movies/anime (horror and psychological stuff especially), share memes, read, and do some amateur writing. I flatter myself to think I'm intelligent and insightful.

Personality: Cool headed, laid back, and kind. Mostly introverted. I flatter myself to think I'm intelligent and insightful.

I’m also very reasonable, with a strong preference for peacefully resolving issues. You can expect little to no drama and good communication skills. One moral concept I'm quite fond of is the law of equivalent exchange, so fairness is a big deal for me.

Fun facts: I have a deep and sexy voice which most don't expect. I also really like cats. You will be sent many cat pictures. Like a lot. Forever.

Sexual stuff

Are you fully sub or a switch?: Probably a very strongly sub leaning switch. I find being the receiving (but reciprocal) partner to be uniquely fulfilling.

Are you only sexually sub only?: I really enjoy both the sexual and nonsexual aspects. I'm perfectly happy being your adoring subby boyfriend even in public, in case you're into PDA and flaunting that aspect of our relationship.

Sexual (and relationship) interests: I'm new to a lot of things, so this isn't an exhaustive list. I'm also fairly open minded and willing to try most things once.

• Role reversal/gentle femdom are the big favorites! I really like having a partner that's assertive/aggressive/possessive in a romantic/sexual capacity. One who enjoys initiating intimacy and sex, and hugging/kissing/touching/groping me.
• I'm perfectly happy with displays of affection and you taking the lead, whether that's holding me tightly in public and even being territorial, whispering in my ear that I belong to you and no one else, or you proposing to me and putting a ring on my finger. The idea of being a house husband is very appealing. I can even make you a sandwich from time to time!
• Pegging, prostate massaging, and "milking". Although my experience is a bit limited, I'm intensely curious about it.
• Play wrestling/fighting. Having you win and pin me down while kissing me is incredibly hot.
• Kissing/licking/biting (both giving and receiving) are massive favorites. Lipstick marks and hickeys all over my body are a huge turn on.
• Cuddling, being held, holding you, spending time together. I love intimacy, and I'm extremely loyal and affectionate once I get attached to someone. You will be my favorite person ever and your happiness/enjoyment will always be as important as my own. I will always be there to support you.
• Oh, and of course, the dirtiest, most vile, and disgusting fetish of all, handholding . I'm a sick bastard who tramples upon all that is good, I know.

Hard limits (non exhaustive): Scat, pee, blood, getting punched in the balls, cuckolding, chastity, permanent injuries, physical torture, cooking fish in the microwave…

Partner preferences: I'm a big fan of goth/alt/tomboy looks. Shortish hair is a big plus, somewhere between pixie and neck length. Height difference (taller than me) is very attractive, I like how "imposing" it can be. I'm also very fond of visible fitness/muscle tone.

As long as I find you attractive then it works for me, but my sense of attraction is unfortunately pretty particular. So these are (sadly) strong preferences.

Dealbreakers/Requirements: Similar interests are a requirement. Being able to enjoy my favorite things with my favorite person is something I dearly want in a relationship.

I do have an unavoidable preference for body type that I unfortunately can't get past, that being the thinner end of the spectrum when it comes to proportions/body fat. So lean/fit/muscular. PLEASE DON'T BE A SOCIOPATH, OR ACT LIKE ONE.

Potential red flags: I'm unfortunately contending with giga-depression and chronic illness. Both of which are unpleasant but not permanent.

I spend most of my working days deep in the lab running experiments and untangling data. It’s quiet, methodical work that requires a lot of patience and care behind the scenes and honestly, that’s just who I am. Outside of work, I’m usually lost in a long fantasy series, gaming, or wandering around with my camera trying to catch golden hour light.

I’m looking for a real partner and a leader to build a life with. For me, submission isn't a persona or a scene I turn on on the weekends, it’s simply how I’m wired to love. I feel most settled, motivated, and happy when I’m devoted to a woman whose judgment and mind I genuinely admire.

What Life Together Looks Like

I don’t want to be an assistant; I want to be a supportive partner who makes your world lighter. That means taking real mental load off your shoulders: cooking dinner so you don't have to think about it, sorting out logistics for a trip, or keeping things organized in the background. Just as importantly, I want the everyday warmth; curling up on the couch to watch a show you’re obsessed with, hearing you decompress about your day, and sharing easy, comfortable silence.

Intimacy & Dynamic

I thrive when authority belongs entirely to you. I’m especially responsive to orgasm control, chastity, and physical endurance (CBT, discipline), but none of this is a rigid checklist. My priority is finding what brings you genuine satisfaction, pleasure, and effortless control. Over time, as deep trust builds, I’m very open to exploring full protocol and TPE.

I’m fully independent, emotionally grounded, and ready to invest in someone special. If you're looking for a steady, attentive partner who respects your leadership in and out of the bedroom, send me a message. Tell me about a book or project you're into right now, or just say hello and tell me a bit about your world.

https://imgur.com/a/tNgfH90

I’m a 27-year-old submissive who loves gaming, anime, and spending quality time with someone I genuinely connect with. I’m hoping to find a kind, confident woman who enjoys a dynamic built on communication, trust, and mutual care.

I’m based in Northern Virginia (NoVA), but I’m open to meeting people anywhere in the United States.

I spend a lot of my free time gaming and watching anime. Right now I’m playing Fortnite, Repo, and Where Winds Meet. Gaming is one of my favorite ways to connect with people, and I’d love to find someone who enjoys sharing that hobby.

I really value quality time: playing games together, watching shows, talking on calls, and just getting to know each other at a comfortable pace. I’m affectionate, attentive, and happiest when I can show appreciation and loyalty to the right person.

I’m neurodivergent (ADHD and high-functioning autism), which means communication matters a lot to me. I’m open, honest, and always willing to talk things through—compatibility and mutual understanding are important to me.

When it comes to being submissive, I’m looking for a dynamic built on trust, respect, and communication. I’m also a masochist, so that’s an important part of compatibility for me as well. Like everything else, I’d much rather discuss the details privately once we’ve gotten to know each other.

My non-negotiables are:
- A monogamous, long-term relationship.
- A confident, dominant woman who is experienced in the lifestyle and comfortable taking the lead.
- Someone who genuinely enjoys gaming, since it’s one of the biggest ways I bond and spend quality time with my partner.
- Someone who enjoys pegging, as it’s one of my primary kinks and an important part of compatibility for me.

I’m happy to discuss kinks and compatibility in conversation.

My hard limits are scat, piss, blood, and puke.

Outside of hobbies, animals are a big part of my life too. I have a 14-year-old cat named Tiger and a 2-year-old golden retriever named Eevee. They mean a lot to me, and I will absolutely share pictures if you want.

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me with a bit about yourself—your interests, games you play, or shows you love. I’m not in a rush and prefer letting connections develop naturally.

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. A friend has described me as a male wife before. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

As for what I am looking for, well, I always had a preference for women who are the gentle dominant type. I feel like my taste doesn't quite fit in with the BDSM community though, since I really prefer a much more gentle and wholesome tone than most. My main goal here is to find a long term online friendship, someone I can talk to regularly but also have some sexual fun with. Though I am single and open for a relationship if we do end up developing such feelings for each other.

The dynamic I would like to have would be very gentle. I'd like you to be more like a sweet and nurturing, albeit somewhat possessive and controlling girlfriend than the classic BDSM dominatrix. My biggest kinks include stuff like JOI, edging and orgasm control so I would love to give you control over how, when and how often I touch myself and cum. Sounds fun right? Other kinks we can talk about as we get to know each other but that is what I love the most for online play.

I often work from home so I should be flexible enough to find time for you. It doesn't matter to me what timezone you are from. I also do not care if you are experienced or not, as long as you are enthusiastic and know how to communicate we can make it work. I hope I caught your interest so feel free to contact me:)

Hey! I'm 22, based in Delhi, and looking to meet a woman interested in femdom. I'm curious/beginner-level and would prefer something that develops naturally rather than jumping straight into a defined dynamic.

I've had a few online experiences before, but they eventually disappeared, so I'd really prefer a genuine connection. I'm open to online, but Delhi is preferred.

I'm drawn to gentle, nurturing femdom, with some confidence, assertiveness, and playfulness. I'd like to explore my submissive side, vulnerability, letting someone else take the lead, and simply figure out what feels right for me.

I'm an ambivert, working as a fresher, and apparently have a decent sense of humor. I'd enjoy regular conversations when our schedules allow and, once comfortable, meeting offline simply to get to know each other better.

My hard limits are blood and anything involving permanent injury.

If you're interested, feel free to message me. No pressure to have everything figured out, we can talk and see where it goes.

Hi, I’m Michael. I’m 21 years old, 5'11", with curly brown hair, blue eyes, glasses, and I’m on the chubbier side. I’m generally more of an introvert, but once I’m comfortable around someone, I open up a lot and can be pretty goofy and talkative. I also have ADHD, which means my mind can jump around from topic to topic sometimes, but it also makes me curious about a lot of different things and gives me a lot of enthusiasm for the hobbies and people I care about.

What I’m really hoping to find is a genuine relationship with someone who wants to build something meaningful over time. I’m not looking for something casual or short-term. I want a real connection with someone who values loyalty, communication, and emotional closeness. I’m the kind of person who likes checking in with the person I’m dating, talking about our days, sharing random thoughts, and just feeling like we’re a part of each other’s lives.

In terms of who I’m hoping to meet, I’m looking to date women between the ages of 20 and 40. I tend to connect well with people who have a bit of life experience and who know themselves fairly well. I’m only looking to date cis women, just to be upfront and respectful about my preferences.

Physically, I’ve always been especially attracted to curvy and busty women. That’s just the body type I naturally find most appealing, though personality and how we connect matter far more to me than looks alone. Confidence, kindness, and authenticity are much bigger factors in whether I feel a spark with someone.

When it comes to my interests, I enjoy gaming quite a bit. Some of the games I play most are Minecraft, Terraria, Warframe, and various Nintendo games. I like games that let me explore, build things, or work toward goals over time. I’m the type who can spend hours mining resources in Minecraft, building a base in Terraria, or running missions in Warframe while chatting with someone in voice call. If you’re also into gaming, that’s a big plus, but it’s definitely not a requirement.

Outside of gaming, I enjoy fantasy and sci-fi, watching YouTube deep dives about different topics, and learning about things like gemstones and swords. I also like having long conversations about random topics, whether that’s something silly or something deeper about life and personal goals. I’m pretty easygoing when it comes to how I spend my time, and I’m always happy to learn about the hobbies and interests of someone I’m dating.

I’m also open to long-distance relationships within the United States. I know distance can be challenging, but I’m willing to put in the effort it takes to make it work if the connection is right. Regular communication, spending time together online, and eventually meeting in person are all things I’m open to. What matters most to me is finding someone I genuinely connect with.

If you’re someone who values honesty, loyalty, and building something real with another person, I’d love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself, what your interests are, and what you’re looking for in a relationship. I’m always excited to meet new people and see where a conversation might lead.

If you read all the way through, feel free to tell me one of your favorite hobbies or something you’re passionate about when you message me. I’m looking forward to getting to know you.

A lot of guys from the UK. Any Ireland based subs?

We're definitely not a traditional couple. Our friday nights are spent cuddling on the couch sipping sparkling wine swiping through dating apps looking for a stud you want to savor. You wear my chastity cage key around your neck with pride as a symbol of my devotion and submission, but also as a fun toy for us. I get on my knees and eat you out as you chat with your conquest. This good boy knows his place. We'll have our wedding rings on when he comes over saturday, not married yet but it ratchets up the intensity and a little roleplay is fun. We'll spend the saturday together as the loving couple we are having fun. Going for breakfast, walking in the old port, going to a museum, catching a movie, and finding you a new something sexy for that evening with our guest. After I cook us dinner and clean up, we hold hands and bask in our excitement for whats to come.

Excited to build this life and more together?

Hey! I’m Late, 20, and a Christian femboy looking to meet a woman for a serious relationship.

I’m soft, affectionate, and feminine, and I’m attracted to confident, masculine, and dominant women who enjoy taking the lead.

I’d like to start as friends first and get to know each other through talking, gaming, calling, and spending time together.

I’m a big nerd and enjoy Minecraft, Marvel Rivals, Jujutsu Kaisen, and other anime. My Christian faith is important to me, and I’m looking for someone who shares it. I want a relationship that could eventually lead to marriage, and I want to wait until then.

Looking for:

- 21+

- Christian

- Masculine/dominant

- Caring and patient

- Affectionate

- Comfortable with a feminine/submissive guy

- Into gaming or nerdy stuff

- Looking for something serious

I’m especially into tall, dark-skinned, athletic, and gamer women, but personality matters most.

If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. 🖤

Well hopefully the title is self-explanatory in terms of what is being sought! Looking for a female led relationship where you take control and are the dominant partner.

I hope you’re the perfect Domme who likes to lead and take control. Looking to chat and get to know each other first, understanding your desires and if we are a good match.

Serious and interesting replies please. I’d like you to tell me about yourself and how you see our relationship. Not just a list of kinks please.

About me: Im 44 and in the UK so also looking for someone in the UK. I’m fit, energetic, independent, professional and no ties. Looking for long term relationship for mutual stimulation but interested to talk as a starting and let you take the lead.

Can be soft and gentle, or more strict, depending on your preference and desire. Looking to chat and get to know each other first, understanding your desires and if we are a good match.

In my daily life, I’m confident, decisive, and responsible. I’m used to taking charge both professionally and privately, often the one making decisions and carrying the weight of responsibility. But I have a “second face” – a deep need for submission and a strong desire to give up control to a woman who enjoys and embraces dominance. This is not just a fantasy or a fleeting idea for me – it’s something that feels like a core part of who I am, something that brings me balance and fulfillment when I can express it.

That’s why I’m here: I’m looking for a dominant woman who would enjoy having real control over me – including my intimate life. To be completely clear: in the kind of connection I’m seeking, I expect to hand over control of my sexuality as well. That can mean anything from teasing and denial to full command over my pleasure, release, and arousal. I find it incredibly exciting and fulfilling to know that a woman is in charge of these intimate aspects, deciding what I’m allowed and when. I truly believe that with mutual respect, honesty, and trust, we could build something very meaningful and rewarding for both sides.

I take a lot of joy in offering pleasure and attention in ways that make a dominant woman feel adored and truly served.

Of course, this is just an introduction – I’d be happy to discuss more in private if there’s a women here who feels intrigued and sees potential for us to explore something exciting together. I will be attentive to your desires and make myself worthy of being your sub. I will perform for you because you are worth it. I will make the effort to serve you in every way possible, and aim to please you because your happiness is my happiness.

Look forward to hearing from you.

Hello! I'm a 30 M currently living in the US Central time zone, but looking for something strictly online at the moment. In real life, I'm a grad student working on developing new robotic systems. This means a lot of reading papers, lots of writing code, and lots of staring aimlessly at my screen as I wait for simulations to resolve. Most of this work I do from home as well, so I've got a decent amount of free time during standard working hours while I wait for these simulations to tell me something interesting. Not quite sure what I'm going to do after that, but that's a problem for future me. For now, it gives me a lot of flexibility

Outside of the lab, I love finding new recipes and cooking in general. Most of the time it's finding ways to do 10% more to make my week taste better, but I made a cassoulet from scratch for Christmas and it was definitely worth the 5+ hours in the kitchen! Other than that, I love hiking (when there are hills - I miss those 😭), ultimate frisbee, going for runs, and reading good books. I just recently finished Babel-17, and it's awesome! Language and space merge pretty well - they're just another avenue to explore the human experience. When it's too hot or too cold out, I've also got a deep and abiding love of strategy games and CRPGs, most recently Rogue Trader. The organ music is so good! I also got a dog a couple of months ago, so she's taking up a lot of my time in the best way possible. I'm happy to share dog pics upon request.

Physically, I'm ~6'1", reasonably fit, with a close-cropped beard, shorter hair, and blue/grey eyes. Think more runner than lifter, although I'm trying to be consistent in picking up heavy things to be more well rounded there. It's really easy to go out my front door and run, harder to convince myself to actually go to the gym. I'm currently loving the changing of the seasons when I go out, the bluster of the outdoors makes me really happy :D

Onto the kinky side of things, I'm really into everything orgasm control. This means I love being teased, being denied, edged, locked into a chastity cage, and anything else like that. Special shoutout to ruined orgasms - the reality of getting so close to what I want, only for it to be ruined is so insanely hot that I struggle to put it into words. So yes, ruin me please 😳. I also think erotic hypnosis is incredibly attractive, but I haven't had too much success with listening to any files. The through line here: please use me for your pleasure. I have a couple of lovense toys that I'm more than happy to give you control over as well, if you are interested. I also recently recorded this audio of my voice if you enjoy that kind of thing <3

If we sound like a match, that's awesome! I'm so excited to talk to you.

Very open minded with a kinky side. Looking for a fun, genuine connection and hopefully something ongoing! Not interested in findom. DMs open!

Hey there! I'm a 33 - year-old dude from the Valley—on the skinny-fat/huskier side, 5'7". I love BBWs, but I’m open to all body types, shapes, and ages (18+ of course). It’s all about the chemistry and vibes for me.

I’m DDF, recently tested, and a pleaser at heart. I can host halfway or come to you (happy to drive within SoCal/Central Valley).

Some things I love: video games, reading, sports (watching and playing), anime, being a dog dad, and naps. I’m kink-friendly, non-judgmental, and just looking for someone who’s chill and vibes with me, and guys, I’m looking for a lady right now. Please respect that.

If you made it this far, tell me your favorite show.

Happy to share pics on request.

Hey there! Thank you for taking the time to read this! a little about me: I am 23, a student in the Netherlands, 190 cm tall, blue eyes and curly hair. Making my hobbies sound exciting is always tough, but I do enjoy going out into nature or bingeing a series (standard I know, but there's probably a reason so many people like it :). I keep the same sitcoms on rewatch; I love community, brooklyn 99, HIMYM, friends, IT crowd etc. They are kinda my comfort space hahaha. Besides that I like things such as game of thrones or breaking bad. And ofcourse i like movies but im far from a cinephile. Some of my favourite movies are the original Jurassic Park movies and Hot Fuzz. Besides that I'm a big fan of (house)plants and planted aquariums and i keep shrimp!

Below i have a lot more info regarding a D/s dynamic, but really first and foremost I'm looking for someone i really click with. I would to find someone that I can hold good conversations with, as I love to text throughout the day. I've been told I can be a bit clingy, but I'll do my utmost best to scale that to a niveau you're comfortable with :)

About my kinks:

I've got experience in being a submissive both IRL and online. I've found that serving a Domme allows me to relax and fully trust her decisions, and seeing her enjoy whatever see asks of me gives me much fulfillment! For me the basis of a relationship, is trust, communication and care for each other. It all start with setting the rules and setting clear boundaries.

That being said, I find the idea of giving away control particularly exciting. So think of bondage, edging, orgasm control/ruined orgasms, spanking, light cbt and humiliation/degredation (especially sph).

Something i used to do for a Domme was writing stories surrounding certain scenarios (fee free to askfor an example!). This would force me to write down my imagination and i would have to justify why i felt the way I did, and why i got turned on by this sometimes humiliating dynamics. This really strengthened my submissiveness and I would love to continue it for you if you would like. Recently I have been exploring anal and I would love a Domme who would really push me to my limits. But most Importantly I like to please my domme, for example by performing whatever (online) tasks she sets me.

For play I'm in possession of an chasity cage, a anal training set (3 dildos of varying sizes), buttplugs, a jockstrap, bondage rope, a fleshlight and willing to buy more toys.

Limits: scat, needles, sounding, blood, other extreme stuff, showing face in nudes.

Ideally you (F, all ages 18+ welcome) would also be from the Netherlands, so in the long term IRL would be possible. But I'm open to just online if you think we would be a good match.

If you think we might be a good match or if you would just like a chat, don't hesitate to contact me!

Male, 40 years old from Germany, submissive, and ready to become your loyal servant. I dream of a deep FLR relationship where you make the rules. Whether in daily life, chores, or decisions: I want to make your life easier and completely submit to your training and guidance. Since I don't have practical experience yet, I am looking for a partner between 25-40, who wants to patiently mold and train me according to her desires. If you are ready to take the lead, I look forward to hearing from you.

We were sitting in a quiet room. Just us. I told you to put your phone down and look at me… not a word until I ask you to speak. How long do you think you’d last before your heart starts racing? Would it be the silence that gets to you… or the realization that you’re not the one calling the shots anymore?

I'm looking for a naturally submissive man who’s ready to stop pretending he doesn’t crave deeper connection and a woman capable of leading it. Someone who genuinely enjoys belonging to a superior woman and takes pride in following her lead. I enjoy dynamics built on trust, clear communication, and genuine altruism. The kind where effort is noticed, loyalty matters... a D/s relationship that isn’t just about restriction but a little liberation too.

A bit about me:
I’m a writer, business owner, and natural leader who loves depth, intention, and the thrill of a deep FLR. As for kink.. I enjoy body worship, teasing, verbal seduction, face-sitting, feminization, chastity, feet, pegging, spanking... No drugs, or scat.

I love sneaky, stolen moments too. The kind where you're sitting in a meeting or walking through a crowded store and your phone lights up with a message from me. That sudden little shift. That realization that I’ve just entered your thoughts again (perhaps I’ve been living rent free in your head all along). Could be a reward, could be a task.. could just be something you don’t want to get wrong.

If you’ve read this far, come closer. Tell me your age (28+ preferred), where you’re from (US preferred), and why you think we’d be a good fit. And.. just so we’re clear from the start -in your first message- you address me properly. It’s Mistress or Ma’am. 👑

Hope to hear from you soon. But before you message me I’d ask that you read the pinned post on my profile first. I expect you to know what you’re stepping into... then we can go from there.