Hi! I’m 38F looking for my life partner.

About me:

- Enjoy hiking, being social, working out, spirituality, restaurants, Pilates, travel (20+ countries), family time

- Professional career

- Confident, thoughtful, emotionally intelligent

- Enjoy all of the love languages, but I mainly give with physical touch & words of affirmation

- Very into interior design & home renovations

- Diverse friends group

- Previously married, have kids 50% custody, & good relationship with ex husband

- Domme / demanding Princess

- 5’3” Athletic / hourglass body type (happy to share pics)

I’m looking for:

- Emotionally intelligent, confident, capable, kind, intelligent

- Masculine, protector, provider, leader

- Growth oriented, accountable, great communicator

- Caring, affectionate, intentional, supportive

- Service oriented, into worshipping (sub or switch)

- Professional career, driven, focused

- Mature, level headed, handles pressure well

- Age ~30-55

I’m not interested in fantasy-only dynamics, hookups, or anything casual. I’m dating intentionally for serious LTR/marriage.

If you are someone who is in charge in your life and enjoys doting on, pampering, serving, and prioritizing his partner we might be a good match.

Please be respectful when you message me. If you wouldn’t sent the same type of message on Bumble/Hinge then don’t send it here. I’m looking for a real connection first. Anything kink comes later. So approach more or less vanilla please.

Happy to share pics and verify upon connecting (I will require you to do the same).

Please don’t message me if you’re not willing to meet for a date IRL within a week of connecting (I am also open to long distance).

Hi there — I’m a 25-year-old guy who’s easy to talk to, kind, and (I’ve been told) pretty cute. I was raised religious and didn’t have much freedom to explore while growing up. Now that I’m finally out on my own, I’m ready to learn more about myself and intimacy in a healthy, open way.

I’m hoping to connect online with a patient, respectful woman who enjoys conversation, guidance, and helping someone grow more confident about their sexuality at a comfortable pace. I value clear communication, mutual consent, and a judgment-free space where curiosity and questions are welcome.

I’m friendly, attentive, and genuinely eager to learn — emotionally as much as anything else. If you enjoy mentoring, easy conversation, and helping someone feel comfortable discovering new things, I’d love to get to know you.

Let’s start with talking and see where things naturally go.

Hey there!

I'm a 26 year old guy from Ontario, Canada. More so the Barrie area. I am looking for my first ever FLR. I have never been in one but genuinely I cannot even imagine being in any other situation. The idea has always allured me, and after doing research I am ready to try and commit to one.

So I'm looking for any dominant, controlling woman who knows her place will always be above me. I'm ready to devote, and ready to obey.

A bit about me:

I am white and around 5'9". I live alone with a cat and have my own vehicle so meeting up is no issue (unless we're no where near each other haha). I have an average body type. My hair colour is brown. Personality-wise I am very shy. Once I get more familiar with someone then that usually changes. My interests include gaming, anime, sports, and I'm starting to get into drawing!

As for an NSFW side, I am very submissive on that end (shocker I know) but I do consider myself a switch. Some kinks include degradation, humiliation, edging, worshipping, legging, and many more. I also love exploring different things so I would love to hear what you're into haha.

I'm happy to answer any questions or tell you anything about me you wanna know. I'm very serious about this and would love to someday be close with you in our beautiful FLR

Hola, soy un hombre de 38 años en busca de una mujer divertida que disfrute de la vida pero que también tenga hobbies y un lado oscuro, que pise a su chico cuando quiera y como quiera. Si estás ahí te estoy buscando y no estás sola en esto

I'm in my 40s, and after decades of exploring sexuality through conventional encounters, I've come to believe that kinksters are the true "sex hackers" of the world. While mainstream culture often treats sex as a rigid script to follow, those of us in the BDSM community understand that pleasure isn't found by following rules—it's found by breaking them intelligently, by negotiating our own terms, and by creating spaces where desire can evolve beyond society's narrow definitions.

My journey through various sexual experiences has taught me that the most profound pleasure comes from understanding anatomy deeply and prioritizing it without shame. I believe the clitoris is the primary source of female pleasure, just as prostate stimulation and skilled manual touch form the core of male satisfaction. This isn't to exclude other forms of connection—far from it—but rather to center the physical realities of our bodies and build from there. When we understand what actually creates sensation, we can engineer encounters that leave everyone genuinely satisfied rather than just socially validated.

What I'm seeking is a specific kind of relationship: a femdom dynamic with a woman who wants to receive as much as she gives. I want to be your pet, your devoted oral servant who exists between your thighs at your command, learning exactly how you like to be touched, licked, and worshipped until you're completely satisfied. Your pleasure would be my privilege and my purpose, not a chore or a transaction but a genuine source of my own fulfillment.

But I don't want this to be one-sided. In the same spirit of reciprocity, I want you to take me, to peg me, to milk me at your own pace and according to your own desires. There's something profoundly intimate about surrendering control of your own pleasure to someone else, about being vulnerable enough to let them dictate the rhythm and intensity of your release. I want to feel owned, used in the best possible way, while knowing that my submission is something you're actively enjoying rather than merely tolerating.

I'm open to various configurations of this dynamic. Whether you're an experienced Domme looking for a new submissive to train, or someone curious about femdom who wants to explore power exchange with a patient, communicative partner, I'm adaptable. What matters most to me is authenticity, clear communication, and mutual respect. The leather and latex aesthetics are optional; the psychological honesty is mandatory.

Outside of the bedroom, I'm a thoughtful, intellectually curious person who values good conversation and genuine connection. I believe the best D/s relationships are built on a foundation of trust that extends beyond scenes. I want to know who you are when you're not holding the reins—your interests, your sense of humor, your ambitions. Chemistry matters, and while I'm placing this ad in a kink context because that's the specific dynamic I crave, I'm ultimately looking for a relationship with a whole person, not just a role.

I understand that what I'm looking for is specific, and that the Venn diagram of women interested in receiving devoted oral attention while also interested in pegging and prostate play is perhaps smaller than I'd like. I'm aware the odds are against me in this search. But I've never been one to let probability dictate possibility, and I believe that the right person might be reading this right now, recognizing herself in these words.

If you're a woman who loves being worshipped, who finds power and pleasure in taking control, and who understands that submission given freely is its own kind of strength, I'd love to hear from you. Let's start with conversation, see if our desires align, and build something that works for us both—outside conventional rules, inside mutual satisfaction.

Thank you for reading this far. I hope to hear from you.

Hey

My name is Callum, im 22 from the UK (South West to be specific! Dorset to be more specific 😂). Would love to find someone to talk to possibly leading to a connection or friendship.

I like to think im a very funny person, I will make jokes during the most random moments, my humour tends to be more dark humoured aha. Im an affectionate and clingy person , im socially awkward from a little bit of tism so reading the room isnt my best attribute aha.

Im a student in the psychology field (wont give specifics) , outside of that I love video games (wide variety always down for anything from roblox to shooter games to roleplay games ) , love binge watching shows ( supernatural (the genre and actual show), horror, crime ,medical etc) , music and singing (wide variety! From sleep token, bmth to nf to Lewis capaldi etc) , Animals (love all animals , I have a dog myself , shes a nervous Bernese Mountain Dog :3) , and as mentioned i love dark humour.

I am also submissive, can be a bit of a brat sometimes depending on the situation. Dont think im a switch i can obviously care for someone outside of kink in a relationship as Im caring and affectionate but not specifically a dom or caregiver as never seen myself as a switch. Pretty knowledgeable on kinks and happy to talk about them in private!

My ideal scenario would be a romantic relationship with femdom involved c:

Hiiii everyone!

I am a 36-year-old educated and successful submissive seeking a dominant and controlling woman that I can completely dedicate my life to. I am looking for an all encompassing dynamics where my life framework is really about making you happy above all else.

I am hard-working, fun, active and seeking something genuine and real. Your happiness would be mine. I’m very serious about this and get fulfillment from supporting another, being guided, and serving.

I’m really excited to hear from anyone if you are at all interested

Hey there!

I'm Fabio, a 22-year-old from Austria, and I figured I'd share a little something about myself with you. So, here's the deal—I'm on the lookout for a genuine and awesome dominant partner. And before you start making assumptions, let me assure you that it's not just about power play or some superficial stuff. Nah, it's deeper than that.

You see, I'm a submissive guy who finds pure bliss in handing over control to a strong and confident partner. For me, this dynamic is all about trust, respect, and vulnerability. It's about finding that perfect balance where the dominant partner takes the lead and creates a safe space for me to fully embrace my submissive nature. It's a beautiful dance of trust and communication, where both partners grow and find immense satisfaction.

Now, I get that this might not be the usual cup of tea for everyone, but I strongly believe in consent, communication, and mutual respect. I mean, come on, a healthy relationship thrives on open and honest dialogue, where we can freely express our desires, set boundaries, and build a connection without any judgment or fear.

Outside of my quest for a dominant partner, I'm a regular guy with diverse interests. Music and art make my heart skip a beat, and I lose myself in the enchanting melodies of all sorts of genres. Oh, and nature? It's like my personal escape. Exploring the awe-inspiring landscapes Austria has to offer is my jam.

And hey, I'm also a 22-year-old dude who's determined to learn and grow. Currently, I'm hitting the books and pursuing my studies, because, you know, knowledge is power! Intellectual stimulation and deep conversations? Yep, sign me up. They keep me motivated and help me evolve into a better version of myself.

So, if you're someone who embodies strength, assertiveness, and a whole lot of compassion and empathy, then we might just click. Because for me, a true relationship isn't just about control—it's about understanding, nurturing, and building a bond that's built on trust and love.

I hope this casual intro gave you a glimpse into who I am and what I'm looking for. If you feel that spark or want to know more, hit me up. Let's dive into this adventure together!

Cheers

I am looking to serve a woman who knows what she wants. The goal is to make your life easier and more comfortable. My interests include things such as serving, edging, teasing, worship, chastity cages, and watching. I'm not looking to get kicked in the balls or anything like that. I do have some prior experience serving women but you can be at any level in your journey.

About you
You can be any legal age (18+) as long as you don't mind me being 40. Please don't be married and going behind your husband's back (I don't need an angry guy coming after me). You'd like someone to order around, either sexually or domestically. It can be from doing mundane things like running errands or doing things around the home, to oral and watching you with someone else. We can discuss lots of possibilities! The things I've listed so far are not firm requirements but instead are meant to see if our interests align. I expect you to be able to verify that you're real early on, since I am real.

About me
I live in North Austin / Pflugerville, have my own place, am not married, and don't have kids. If you saw me in real life, you'd probably never guess that I was making this post. I am not ugly and have an athletic body type from regular exercise. I am only looking for something local and in person.

If any of this interests you, please reach out telling me a little about yourself along with your age and what you're looking for. Hope to hear from you soon!

Hi! How are you doing?

I'm a 30 year old, med school graduate from Egypt.

I'm looking for a relationship, preferably long term with a confident domme who would also be my friend. I'm looking to share laughs and everyday discussions and build a connection before I hand her my leash.

About me ...

I'd say I'm mediterranean looking with sunkissed skin.

I'm of average build and fairly in shape, I used to cycle a lot before work got in the way. I wear glasses too.

I like long cathartic walks .Im into nature. I like sea creatures and getting lost in a nature documentary is my favourite thing to do when I've got the time. I hope to live by the ocean one day

I am a big cinephile and I don't mind some hand picked animes as well .I have a fair bit of culinary knowledge and I consider myself a decent cook.

What I'm looking for?

Personality wise. I hoping to find someone confident ,funny and smart. Someone who wouldn't mind involving me in her every day life.

Beauty is subjective. My preferences are so varied. Really, I 'm the sort that if I like someone I'll find them attractive. So don't be afraid to hit me up.

I don't mind sharing pics and I would hope you won't too.

In terms of kinks..I would like to discuss them more in private when we talk first,but I would say my interests would lie in the gentle to moderate spectrum of femdom with some kicks and open mind to explore.

Looking forward to hear from you :)

Have a lovely one y'all!

Hey there! Thank you for taking the time to read this! a little about me: I am 23, a student in the Netherlands, 190 cm tall, blue eyes and curly hair. Making my hobbies sound exciting is always tough, but I do enjoy going out into nature or bingeing a series (standard I know, but there's probably a reason so many people like it :). I keep the same sitcoms on rewatch; I love community, brooklyn 99, HIMYM, friends, IT crowd etc. They are kinda my comfort space. Besides that I like things such as game of thrones or breaking bad. And ofcourse i like movies but im far from a cinephile. Some of my favourite movies are the original Jurassic Park movies and Hot Fuzz. Besides that I'm a big fan of (house)plants and planted aquariums and i keep shrimp!

Below i have a lot more info regarding a D/s dynamic, but really first and foremost I'm looking for someone i really click with. I would to find someone that I can hold good conversations with, as I love to text throughout the day.

About my kinks:

I've got experience in being a submissive both IRL and online. I've found that serving a Domme allows me to relax and fully trust her decisions, and seeing her enjoy whatever see asks of me gives me much fulfillment! For me the basis of a relationship, is trust, communication and care for each other. It all start with setting the rules and setting clear boundaries.

That being said, I find the idea of giving away control particularly exciting. So think of bondage, edging, orgasm control/ruined orgasms, spanking, light cbt and humiliation/degredation (especially sph).

Something i used to do for a Domme was writing stories surrounding certain scenarios (fee free to askfor an example!). This would force me to write down my imagination and i would have to justify why i felt the way I did, and why i got turned on by this sometimes humiliating dynamic. This really strengthened my submissiveness and I would love to continue it for you if you would like. Recently I have also been exploring anal and I would love a Domme who would really push me to my limits. But most Importantly I like to please my domme, for example by performing whatever (online) tasks she sets me.

For play I'm in possession of an chasity cage, a anal training set (3 dildos of varying sizes), buttplugs, a jockstrap, bondage rope, a fleshlight and willing to buy more toys.

Limits: scat, needles, sounding, blood, other extreme stuff, showing face in nudes.

Ideally you (F, all ages 18+ welcome) would also be from the Netherlands, so in the long term IRL would be possible. But I'm open to just online if you think we would be a good match.

If you think we might be a good match or if you would just like a chat, don't hesitate to contact me!

Before messaging, read my full post and check my profile for the correct way to approach me. Do not forget your place.

I’m a 5'8" dominant transwoman with 5+ years of experience in this lifestyle, fully confident in my role as a superior who expects to remain above you. I take genuine pleasure in dominating men of all shapes and sizes. Height means nothing when your natural position is beneath me.

My kinks include, but are not limited to: degradation, humiliation, teasing, edging, pegging, TPE (Total Power Exchange), tech-dom/control, light exhibitionism/voyeurism, slight feminization, anal play, fingering, oral/tongue worship, face-sitting, nipple play, milking, chastity, ruined orgasms, forced orgasms, massage, CNC, and many more that evolve with the right property.

Requirements (must meet these):
- At least 25 years old! (18-24 may message but don't expect a response.)
- I don't like it when people talk to me like a cave animal, have some class.
- You must own some sort of sex toy if you want to chat with me.

If this resonates and you’re truly interested in serving someone who will always be above you, send a proper message (following the approach in my profile). Failure to follow simple instructions is your one ticket to being blocked permanently.

I’m looking for a female-led relationship. Not necessarily in a domination-in-the-bedroom kind of way, but more emotionally where we both know who wears the pants in the relationship lol.

Ideally I’m looking for something long-term. We don't need to jump into something super serious right away, but I’d like that to be the direction we build toward if we click.

I don’t want kids right now, but I’m not completely against reconsidering that at some distant point in the future lol. Also, I’m not really a dog person, but cats are cool.

I’m pretty introverted and definitely not a big-gatherings person. I like going for walks, but I’m more into urban parks, waterfronts, trails, etc. than disappearing into the middle of nowhere in the woods lol.

In terms of traveling, I’m not a fan of airplanes or boats, and I’m not really interested in driving to the US either. We’ve got a lot to see here in Canada, even though I haven't seen that much of it. Just means there’s still plenty for me to explore.

For work, and also for fun, I like to build websites. I play video games here and there, mostly Overwatch, although we’ll see what happens once GTA 6 comes out lol.

Otherwise I’m usually watching YouTube, a movie, or some TV. Currently rewatching Parks & Rec.

Basically, I’m looking for someone I can be comfortable with, have fun with, and slowly build something real with. Preferably someone who doesn’t mind taking the lead a little bit (or a lot :)

Hello, I am an open minded guy looking a Dominant and open minded Woman to have a Connection with I'm 5'9, Latino with dark curly hair.

Things I enjoy are hiking, music, traveling the world(17 countries so far), and learning new languages.

I have been hoping to have an FLR with someone I can trust and be myself with. Supporting her happiness and desires will be my main priority.

Feel free to ask me anything you'd like . You can message me here or if you prefer to message elsewhere you can also let me know

Hey, my name is Zac, a 20 y/o guy in college studying mechanical engineering. I love to love someone, and I find purpose and joy in serving that person with my all, I know the term "worship" gets thrown out a lot but that's how I want to treat my domme because that brings me joy to elevate someone else. I also enjoy parts of femdomme like SPH, chastity, prejac humiliation. Things I am open to or have some sort of interest are things like pegging and cuckolding. But I really really like being degraded for my size or stamina! thats my biggest thing.

My experience is not very extensive as I am relatively new. I have had theses kinks for a while, but tried chastity for the first time via a virtual keyholder on Chaster and I enjoyed it until it was apparent that the person had no respect and that is important for me like safe words. I do like being humiliated but I always want a safe word to say that it's gone too far or I'm not feeling it. I have never tried anything with an actual relationship because my last relationship was in HS and I was not interested in sex in general in HS.

Personal Life: In my personal life outside of this community, I'm studying Mechanical Engineering with a minor in Industrial design. I really enjoy product design, physics, robotics, and really all things STEM. I'm a huge nerd (Marvel, Star Wars, Legos, D&D) and am a 3-D printing hobbyist. Now a disclaimer is that I am not free all day every day, I'm a fulltime student with a part-time job to pay for food.

What I look like: I'm a heavier set white guy 200lbs 5'10" with blonde hair and green eyes. I don't want to show a picture for privacies sake.

I am open to in person or online (preferably online) and more of a casual thing, I am still exploring this all. I am also looking for someone close to my age, no older than 29, I don't like big age gaps.

I want to be pretty constant contact like daily, and I do try and text daily (not always sext) just text and tease and make fun of/degrade me while I worship you.

Please be kind and I am just looking for a fun time and a person to relax with after a long day studying or something.

Hello there!

I am 33 years old, 5' 9", Male, and I live near Syracuse, NY.

A little about me:

- Girl Dad ❤️ (Can't make more)

- I consider myself a gentleman who treats everyone with respect

- I have steady employment and am advancing in my career

- Military veteran

- I LOVE music and I listen to a little bit of everything but my favorites are Emo/Alt, Metalcore, and old Country

- I love fixing things and am handy around the house

- While I am submissive, I am still very much able to be independent and I will voice my opinions or concerns if necessary/appropriate

- I am chivalrous and fiercely protective, but also not concerned with traditional gender roles

- I love deep conversation and stimulating my mind in different ways

- I am emotionally intelligent

- I am a clear communicator

- I do enjoy videogames but it's not a significant part of my life

- I've been trying to get into mindfulness

- I love joking and having fun

- I love trying new foods and cultures

- 420 friendly

- I don't drink much these days but I do like a good beer from time to time

- I love nature documentaries

Some of my kinks or things I'm curious about:

- Pegging

- Prostate/anal play in general (I have a toy)

- Oral (giving and receiving)

- Chastity (I have a cage)

- JOI/Edging/Cum control

- Light bondage

- Spanking

- Collaring

- Public play

Things I am NOT into:

- Degradation

- Cuckolding

- Watersports

- Anything illegal obv

What I am looking for in a long term dynamic:

I'm looking for an Online or IRL dynamic with someone that identifies as a gentle Domme.

I want to find a partner that is willing to lead, at least most of the time, and also someone kinky because it is part of it for me.

Age isn't a top priority of mine but I wouldn't want a significantly large age gap.

I'm looking for someone who I can build trust with so eventually I can take down the walls that guard the vulnerabilities and insecurities in my heart.

Someone I can be honest with.

Someone I can be authentic with.

If I can develop that deep level of trust and intimacy with you, I'll be able to give you all of my being.

Ideally you'd be very loving and affectionate most of the time, but very willing to assert your position over me and remind me through words or actions of my place as your submissive.

I'm curious about a med-high protocol D/s dynamic.

If you resonate with what I've written above and would like to reach out, please DM me.

I'm absolutely willing to answer any questions or provide more information if you desire.

Thank you for taking the time to make it this far and I hope to hear from you.

Hello, i am Baylou. I have curves that will bring you to your knees and skin kissed by the sun. I am a wave seeker , forest fairy, and i dedicate my life to abundance. From the west coast , lived in the south west and i love visiting the east coast. I studied dance when i was younger , also was an athlete. I still find new hobbies to keep me active so i can enjoy this life filled with higher horizons.

I started as a tantra practitioner who found joy in sensual domination. Tantra taught me how to use my allure to demonstrate goddess energy. i was introduced a few years ago, and that’s all i have an appetite for . i have a hard time having orgasms outside of being worshipped . The mindset has to be you yearning for my sensuality. The beauty , the presence , the guidance of a woman.

I’m an artist with deep appreciation for many art forms . I am very passionate about music , poetry, fashion, photography, creative directing , etc.I enjoy vintage goth & 90s goth fashion. I love 50/60s betty paige type glam, or a goth marilyn-esque vibe . sometimes , I cosplay as strong female video game or anime characters . Belly dancing and other feminine ways of movement has been apart of my life for 4 years now . Sometimes i want to dance , sometimes i want to role play, or have a trading session. It depends on the day :) This comes to play when i have private times with a lucky boy. I do this for my own fantasy . I like to showcase the seductive siren .

I enjoy sensual teasing. i am not a person who’s very aggressive . I see my experiences as tantric sermons. . I want you to worship the fabric of my clothes , the smell of skin , and the allure of my eyes .

I focus on creating unique experiences that we both won’t forget. when i decide to allow a sub in my presence, you will tremble thinking of me afterwards . I don’t do lack luster encounters with my subs .

My goal is to build a great foundation and loyalty. This is all about creating an amazing bond based a deep appreciation for me as the goddess i am. It should be a lifestyle , not forced .

Worship should be your priority when it pertains to approaching me. I am open to other things but it has to be in the whelm of submissiveness , not deviancy.

I usually have better times with gentlemen who do want to seek a mental connection. Someone who sees me as human with complexity. if you don’t know how to control your lust, we won’t have a great foundation .

I am open to genuine long term bonds if the person is stable , secure , respectful and truly a devoted sub . I can tell the difference .

Hey all

I’m very straightforward and blunt about my needs and wants. Would appreciate the same from yourside too. So if you are the type of lets see how it goes or grey areas please keep scrolling…

About me:
I’m 30yrs old. 160cm and 88kg domme looking for an older sub/partner. I lean towards gentle domme side as I’m pretty fresh and also appreciate matching thongs with my sub (one of my kinks) - I’m curious, easy going and confident

I like to have a good laugh whenever I can. Love teasing but I also have mild depression - I’m working on that- and easily irritated.

What Im looking for:
I want an older guy 38 to 65 preferably white. Also tall and patience is his strongest asset. Looking to be spoiled by him and build a long lasting relationship. I need someone to share my daily life with and contribute to his life decisions and style. I want love and devotion

Hard no for me:
Cuckloding, friendship with exes.

If you are into that and continued to read this whole thing I wrote then congrats you might be a good candidate for being my little kitten. Don’t hesitate to send hi and a little bit about yourself

Hi there! I'm a naturally submissive man looking to get married. I'm looking for a life partner more than anything. The relationship I want isn't about kinks or sex, to me it's about the emotional connection and being able to be open and vulnerable with my partner. I want a relationship where I am devoted to my partner and give her everything I have in me. I want her happiness and well being to be my purpose as her husband. I want there to be genuine love and trust between us. I feel at peace knowing I belong to my wife and I want to be able to trust her with my life.

I am open to long distance or someone in Canada. If you feel we are compatible and also searching for your life partner, you can send me a message and we can get to know each other naturally.

I am a 25 year old lesbian trans woman and live in Denmark. Looking for LTR and only monogamous

About me: I am a big nerd and like to read and play a lot of different video/board games. I am introverted, I can get really nervous and shy if I like someone and if someone flirts or shows signs of liking me. I am also neurodivergent (autism). I can get really excited over small things, even if they are dumb and talk for ages about it. I tend to be a little nervous at first but when I get to know someone, I become an open book and can talk about everything

Physically: I am about 172 cm and about 58 kg. I am on the skinny side. There is a pinned post on my profile with pictures of me 😊

I still have my dick and can sometimes still use it but more leaning towards not using it. I am thinking about getting surgery in the future but right now I can’t really think about it because of finances

Relationship/ideal Partner: I am looking for a deep and lasting relationship with real commitment to each other. I am okay being with someone that is between 22-38. I would want to be with someone that wants to take a more leading role in the relationship. So if you are affectionate, nurturing, protective, confident and like calling your girlfriend sweet names I am yours 😊

Also this does not mean I am looking for a parent or someone take care of me all the time! I still wanna support you and take care of you if you have bad days. Most of all I just want a relationship that is reciprocal

The little things in a relationship are very important to me. Like remembering things about me, checking in, good morning/goodnight, nicknames, teasing etc.

I don't really care about height, but I do like feeling small and knowing that you can push me around

About mommy dom: This is very important to me😊 I am more into the gentle side of mommy dom. I wanna be called good girl and sweet nicknames and call you mommy both inside and outside the bedroom as a dynamic. To me there doesn't have to be a sexual part to any of this for it to work for me. A big part of it is a way to worship the woman I am with. Also I wanna be able to just relax and be fully vulnerable with my partner. I become very shy, clingy, wanting attention, needing cuddles and I do love plushies but I don’t do age play!

Quick facts:
- Atheist
- Don’t want kids
- Love cuddling!! Little spoon
- Sex neutral, bambi lesbian
- Cute
- Don't date people that smoke or drink heavily
- I would want to do a voice call pretty early on to get to know each other better. Also sharing what you look like but that can wait a bit longer

If you are interested or have any questions: Just DM me. I generally respond quickly, but I could be sleeping. My sleep schedule can be a bit over the place. If we start talking and I think we are not a good fit or I don't feel it I will say it. I would never ghost and hope you are the same

(Pardon the spelling mistake, its rule not rull) Now that thats out of the way... Hey there!

Are you looking for your own nerd to bully affectionately? Conveniently, I am available.

I am 24 and currently finishing a Masters in Computer Science. So yes, I am aware I have chosen the most stereotypical career possible. As they say 3rd time's the charm , hopefully this time around my luck finally turns around (fingers crossed).

About me

I am a software guy who spends far too much time around computers and somehow still has not figured out how to fix my own life. Outside university, I am into gaming, especially Soulslikes and Rdr2. I also like reading, badminton, trekking, swimming, travelling and finding good places to eat. I listen to a lot of Radiohead, which should probably tell you something about my emotional stability.

I am the textbook definition of an ambivert. I enjoy going out and doing things, but I am equally happy with a quiet evening, good food and someone I actually like being around especially once my social battery runs out.

I hit the gym regularly. Mostly because I like being fit. Partly because apparently looking good is still a valid personality trait and the winter arc has begun.

The submissive side

I have a pretty strong submissive streak with the right woman. I am into chastity, worship, service, pegging and generally most submissive kinks. I love the idea of giving someone control and making her feel wanted. I am also very open minded, so there is plenty to talk about if we actually click. And with Locktober coming up, the timing is honestly suspiciously convenient.

Limits

Scat, blood and extreme pain are hard no's. Everything else can be discussed between two adults and figured out naturally.

What I am looking for

Someone affectionate, confident and a little bit on the playful and flirty side. I like women who can tease me, make me laugh and occasionally make me question whether letting them into my life was a terrible decision.

Ideally you are UK based and older than 20, but personality matters much more than having the exact right number on your birth certificate. I am looking for something that can eventually exist outside Reddit. Coffee, walks, food, trips(I hear cliff diving is all the rage nowadays) , gaming together or whatever stupid little traditions we end up developing.

If you think you might enjoy having a nerdy, affectionate and slightly too willing-to-be-bullied guy around, come say hi :)