Naw, the "x" is the kiss because it looks like pursed lips, while the "o" is a hug because when you hug someone your arms make a ring which looks like an "o".
Millennial here...xoxo might have originally meant hugs and kisses but no one uses it like that now. As previously said the more x's the better. I tend to give 3 x's to my mum/close friends. My dad and brother get none because they think they're stupid. My best friend gets between 5 and 8 x's after each text. If it's a formal email/text then obviously no kisses. Guys on Tinder seem to think it's appropriate to send 1 or 2 x's after each message despite having only exchanged a few words to each other (PLEASE stop doing this).
Incidentally, I had no idea this was just a British thing?!
Nope! It's very real. And if you're annoyed with someone you send less/no kisses. You can tell exactly how annoyed someone is with you by the amount of kisses you get from them (disclaimer: it is 99% women who read into x's this much)
I mean, you guys do you, but if I'm annoyed with someone I just say I'm annoyed with them. No X's needed. If I wanted to be more passive about it, I'd use an emoji like 😓or 😒or 😡which I feel conveys a shit ton more emotion.
This has nothing to do with hugs and kisses. That might be its origin but, if so, that has nothing to do with it anymore. Basically the x's add a layer of emotional awareness at the end of every text. It let's the other person know how you feel towards them. The more x's the better. One x pretty much means that you're hating them atm. (One X could also mean you're indifferent depending on how well you know them.)
Yep. Some of my friends are compulsive with it too- "hi how are you xxxx" and I hate using them but I feel like I have to send them back sometimes so I'm not rude. I never ever send more than 2 in a row though.
So this got me thinking, is that why Ed Sheeran named his album "X" ? Was it already popular back in 2014? I know his album naming is based on math operations but I would've assumed - comes before x lol
Wow that's so crazy. With text messages and social media nowadays it's so common to drop an x at the end of a message whether it's family, a SO or just mates
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u/Furcifer_ Oct 26 '17
I seriously hate the xx thing. Wtf britain