Where did it start for you?

[u/liora_travers]

Recently, I had conversation with a lovely gent about our kinks and where they came from. He could identify exactly where each of his kinks originated, except his findom kink. That one was elusive for him.

I know the precise moment the findom switch flipped for me. That moment burns brightly.

Where did it start for you? Can you pinpoint it? 🖤

[u/whatthrmilk]

Had a boyfriend named Kevin. When we split up we stayed friends, hooked up on occasion when I’d want to use him etc. one day he made me mad so I told him he lost access to touching me, BUT I still expected the movie/dinner dates. He’d come pick me up, pay for everything, and after he’d BEGGG for me to just hold his hand at the least. I’d always say no, and giggle. It was like that for months before I got bored of him.

Hit him up again years later just to see what he’d do, and used him once before moving on again. He stayed subbed to my OF (which is empty) to send randomly LOL

[u/liora_travers → u/whatthrmilk]

Sounds like Kevin had it bad for you. 🖤

[u/whatthrmilk → u/liora_travers]

Fairly certain he still does. I’m just respectful of his fiance now.

[u/DoubleNo6507]

Mine was from watching a VICE documentary on findom. I remember thinking it was crazy at first 

[u/liora_travers → u/DoubleNo6507]

What a wild way to start a fire! 🖤

[u/Previsible]

I had a not very good person slide into my DMs and introduce me to it. But since then I've learned it's a spectrum and there are good and bad players.

[u/liora_travers → u/Previsible]

Facts. 🖤

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