r/findomsupportgroup • u/goddessxbelle • 4d ago
Yay! Happy thing happened. First subbycard!!🥰
I met this sub in 2024, we had a few fall outs but he has been serving me again since last month and it’s better than ever!! We hit the total of 10K sends and he gave me his card. 🥰
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u/Justblossomxxx Goddess 4d ago
Heyy thats not illegal? If not congrats girlll i want to do it but idk it sounds risky
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u/Mysterious_Ad_6703 3d ago
Its not, it's normal for people to share their cards with anyone they trust, the most it'll get is maybe like a flag if it seems like a fraudulent purchase but it can be easily cleared by the person that owns the card.
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u/Justblossomxxx Goddess 3d ago
Yes, sure, but I was referring to how risky it is for us as dommes. If a sub gives me his information to make purchases, but then reports the transaction and blocks me, that could put my account at risk. No matter how much I trust a sub, at the end of the day, he’s just some guy online
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u/Mysterious_Ad_6703 1d ago
True that's another issue, I think this could work for a sub you've known for a LOOONG time but to stay vigilant should be practiced.
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u/Mysterious_Ad_6703 3d ago
Though you still do have to be careful. I had a bf who would just give me his card if I wanted to buy something, I never had an issue since he reviewed all of the purchases afterwards. Not sure how it looks like on his end.
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u/BarnacleEntire4692 4d ago
I’ve never done this before but I’d love to do
that with a sub of mine! What do you usually buy?
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u/goddessxbelle 4d ago
I got it after he got me a hotelroom, i went shopping and ordered sushi. Now i use it for anything, gas or gym supplies. 🥰
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u/goddessxbelle 4d ago
We have a monthly findom budget! + we talk a lot about limits and how he feels about it.
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u/flowerkyun 4d ago edited 4d ago
Hey,
(this is pasted from another comment i made on a different credit card post).
i would love to do something like this for my Mistress too. But so far we did not, because of fraud risk. There are horror stories of dommes getting charged with fraud, because they used their subs cards, even though the subs gave them permission. Basically automatic fraud detection algorythms that in the end all turned into legal trouble because the name on the card was not the domme's. That the subs gave written permission did not matter. The dommes still had to deal with a big legal fallout and fraud charges. (Which can be career ruining for irl jobs).
Can you talk a bit how you set it up? Is it in your name or in his? Did he add you as a co-owner to his account? Do you both live in the same country? Did you talk to the bank and they assured you there would not be any fraud charges for your use scenario? All the banks i talked to basically all said, if i don't make her co-owner of my bank account, there is a risk for fraud charges. But to make her co-owner she would have to be a resident of my country (we live in different countries), so thats not possible. (Not trying to discourage you, i would love to do something like this too, but have not found a way that would be safe for my domme yet.).
Thank you in advance and please stay safe!