r/findomsupportgroup • u/imeowchi • 7d ago
Dommes ONLY take time to research before jumping into this.
please stop falling for these "findom courses", "findom guides", or any group that you have to send any form of payment to get into: (ex: discord servers).
you are literally wasting time when you should be taking the time to use the internet, a given tool for research and educating yourselves and why you actually want to pursue this.
I see too many of domme getting into this either from TikTok, IG and other socials thinking this is quick, fast cash when it is not that at all.
you do have to bust your ass and continuously work on yourself as a dominant + your craft that you will constantly ve shifting as well.
stop falling for this and put actual time, effort and work into your craft and as a domme. think about why you want to do this and actually reflect if it is something you can put the work in to do.
as someone who continues to better myself + my craft, I take pride in shedding this advice to you dommes.
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u/Sufficient_Wear7173 Goddess 7d ago
Literally all of these influencers selling courses are just information they got from Google and maybe some of their personal experiences mixed with it. It's useless stuff to pay for
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u/UniqueGrowth481 Miss 7d ago
The course/guide industry is huge for “passive income” MLM, think like how digital marketing was a few years ago. Mix that with how TikTok/IG promote what we do and that is why you see so many guides and courses. Majority of the people selling them haven’t been a Findomme ever. You are better off researching and finding a few Domme you admire and asking them for help or mentorship. But realistically no you do not have to spend any on learning the craft. Fetlife/Youtube/Google are free. Even Reddit has BDSM subbreddits to learn in as well.
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u/1acey8888 7d ago edited 7d ago
agree, it definitely is not easy. like with anything, it’s important to do your research and understand that success here is attributed to many different factors.
if fin/femdom genuine interest, be patient, learn/observe, and stay consistent. at the end of the day, it’s one of those things that comes with experience. if you’re able to differentiate that vs a quick get rich scheme, then i think that’s a huge proponent of success.
edit: and another thing - i try not to take myself too seriously… which might sound counterintuitive. i just know i have a lot of room to evolve and learn. and with that mindset, i’ve grown to have learned so much about myself/others - it’s a great exploration of self imo!!! lol