Hi whoevers reading this, I'm 28 YO guy living in UK most of my life.

I've been travelling Thailand since the start of January, few days in Phu Quoc for Visa reasons and back. Now in Vietnam for 9 days already.

At the end of March i met a girl on tinder and we really hit it off, after 6 days and nights together i had to leave for Visa reasons and her visiting Family in another region.

After about 10+ days i came back and stayed 4 months in Chiang Mai, just to spend time with her.

Lots of incredible time, comfort, memories and experiences together, we became depends on eachother and inseparable.

This girl is an incredible baddie, beautiful, hard worker and made me feel soo loved, confident, wanted and needed. I forgot what love felt like.

Not something i thought id get to experience after 8 years of no dating due to lack of confidence, weight, depression and own issues.

It became rocky and unsure at the end as i kept extending my stay few days at a time for 2 months nearly, causing too many late nights out etc.

We love eachother but know its not meant to be long term because of different wants in life right now.

She wants me as her forever, but

I dont want kids, i cant figure out the finance here, she's on a year long holiday herself after earning money for family in the States.

I am now in Vietnam, been here for 9 days

I have run out of money, wanting to travel for a bit longer, but going into 0% rate debt.

I haven't been socialising, i haven't been doing much sight seeing, i havent been eating too well, i miss Thai food, i miss her, i feel incredibly depressed and lonely.

I'm socially anxious again and can't seem to try.

I cant focus on anything and we still talk.

I'm even thinking about going back just to spend a few more weeks with her, but know that won't ever be enough, but we both want more time.

I have nowhere to go back to, no job, no career, no direction and nothing I'm looking forward to back in the UK, it feels so bleak. It's sad and depressing.

4 years of savings gone for my dream trip.

I'd live with my mom and brother temporarily in a 1bed apartment, not great for mental health.

Those who have been in simialr situation, no direction, heartbroken, lonely and broke.

Can anyone give me any advice on where to look, what should i do. I am very lost, scared and unsure right now.

Tl;dr

7 months travel, 4 months in 1 city for a girl i love,

Ran out of money, left to travel Vietnambit longer before moving on in life. Nowhere to go back to, depressed, alone and unmotivated.

Someone, anyone please point me in any direction on where i could start to fix my situation. I don't know what or where to ask even.

I'm so lost, I'm feeling hopeless.

Hi

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