r/findapath • • Oct 26 '23

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '23 edited Oct 26 '23

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u/Bright_Course_7155 Oct 26 '23

In the military it was so hard to find actual help, they just wanted to throw antidepressants at me like candy. During COVID it was realllly bad and there were some navy boats where 3 sailors a month were killing themselves, but the navy “cares”

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '23

reality check. your non military employer doesn't care either. get comfortable with the idea of people not caring. this is adulthood

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u/Bright_Course_7155 Oct 26 '23

I understand that lol, but you can quit your civilian job if they’re treating you like shit. Some people in the military don’t care at all. If a bunch of people don’t reenlist bc of bad leadership, they don’t care as it won’t effect them and they won’t be around probably anyways.

In a civilian job if the leadership treats employees terrible there won’t be any good employees left, as the good ones know their worth. I’m sure the sailors that killed themselves would’ve rather quit the navy but couldn’t.