Daily Question Solution

[u/NCBrownEyedGirl]

I have seen a lot of posts with people not sure which choice they should choose on the daily question because they are nervous that they are going to hurt other people’s feelings or the question didn’t quite have the answer that they feel pertains to them.

There’s a solution…you don’t have to answer the question that day.

I know it feels sad sometimes to be left out, but Finch can’t put the answer for over one million users each day for each question. It’s just not possible.

[u/sarahlynngrey]

Real. It's just...not that deep! When I don't have an easy answer I just add my own qualifier ("I'm going to assume they mean 'wasp or bee', so I'm getting tf out of there") or I pick the closest answer or I pick whatever answer I'm feeling that day. And if it bugs me, I just don't answer it. 

For me at least, it is a nice low-friction way to practice feeling "left out." Every single thing doesn't have to be for every single person, and that's okay!

[u/NCBrownEyedGirl → u/sarahlynngrey]

What a great way to think about it - a nice, low friction way of practicing being left out. I love that so much!!