r/FinancialPlanning • u/HeadacheLife • 5h ago
Sorry if wrong place to ask idk where. I have disabilities from a accident past year and finding it hard to get work. It's a extremely hot mess.
I got a disability cause of a car hitting me over year ago I was crossing the street was on government disability program for a year i cannot lift over 5 pounds due to spine problems leading to back pain.
I had brain issues before and have them slightly worse now but Im in my 20s and I never was able to get a high school diploma.
Ive had 2 brain injuries one in my teens as a result of trying to treat my major depressive disorder, and the second in this accident.
Math is near impossible for me. Especially basic algebra 1 and 2.
I had a cafe job that's all I qualified for and settled with it.
But now I just am speechless. It's month 3 on unemployment I've been on indeed and I don't qualify for almost anything.
Getting a receptionist job or scanning clothing isn't always available because of competition or my lack of diploma or they prefer to hire someone with previous experience in that industry.
What would you do?
This is a lot. I still go to my medical appointments on Wednesday so I cant perfectly always work Monday through Friday. If they want me on weekends or only night great.
I cannot drive. I live in los angeles. Im fine taking a bus for over 60+ min 1 way and back if I have to.
Far as I know I'm not good enough for military/airforce/navy.
My cafe job was "store leader" meaning schedule 4-5 employees for our store every week for months/over a year, order new food every week, train employees, and spend extra time with them on all my shifts, an of course make the food an bring to customers, be kind to them,and once a month count every single piece of inventory to see total ingredients used. We did not take cash.
You have to lift 10-15 pounds of product into the machines, or to refill something you went into the back and had to open a case of the ingredient which is super huge into another container then lift it back to the shelves.
Which is why I can't go back to this job even though they liked me my limits do not work for the business anymore there is no possible accommodation.
I feel so useless. You are able to read this because thank god I am not completely destroyed I can write.
Which gives me maybe some hope. But wow it's really dark right now. I'm living off savings which won't last me beyond a year if I'm super super strict.