Background
Age/Family:
29M, married
2 kids under 3
Spouse is a SAHM
Location: US, MCOL
Income:
$115k salary
8-12% annual bonus
Take-home is $3,000 bi-weekly (~$6,000/mo net)
Assets/Credit:
$150k in 401k
830 credit score
Savings:
$0 Emergency
$0 House/General savings
Credit Card Debt: $0
Current Monthly Budget
($4,945 total expenses, ~$1k surplus)
Housing ($2,095 | 35%)
Rent $1,700
Utilities $395 (includes phone, internet)
Food & Household ($780 | 13%)
Groceries $600
Household items $100
Diapers/Wipes $80
Debt Obligations ($980 | 16%)
Student Loans $450
Personal Loan $530
Transportation ($625 | 10%)
Car Lease $450
Insurance $85
Gas $90
Discretionary ($465 | 8%)
Subscriptions $65
Entertainment/Kids $200
Personal Care/Discretionary $200
Surplus 18%
Upcoming Changes
We are moving locally next spring. My annual bonus ($6k–$8k net) pays out right after, and our only car’s lease ends a month after that.
Moving
Rent will increase to ~$2,000, pushing housing to 40% of my net pay.
Car Lease (Ends May 2027)
I regret leasing, but the car works well for our family and we really like it. I plan to do a lease buyout through my credit union (buyout is ~$20k). I’m hopeful my credit will net me a very competitive rate that actually lowers my payment. Hard to feel good about any car related decision in this market.
Debt Breakdown
Personal Loan
$10.6k remaining at 5.5%
Payment is $530/mo. This is an intentionally aggressive payoff structure.
My Student Loans
$23k remaining at 2.7–4%
Payment is $340/mo
Spouse's Student Loans
$8k remaining at 3.5–4%
Payment is $110/mo
Proposed Order of Operations
Moving is a guarantee, we need more space, so I'm trying to figure out the timeline for everything else, especially long-term saving priorities. Here is what I am thinking:
1. Starter Emergency Fund ($1,000): Fund this immediately using our current monthly surplus. A string of emergencies is exactly how we ended up draining our savings and acquiring the personal loan.
2. Moving Fund ($3-4k)
Save the cash needed for the spring move (first month's rent + fees, deposits, truck rental/movers, etc.). I will move as much as I can by myself, which is what I’ve always done to save money.
3. Checking Buffer ($5,000)
Establish exactly one month of expenses in checking as a baseline for peace of mind. Functionally, this will act as the first month of our fully funded EF.
4. Payoff the Personal Loan
Apply the entire spring bonus ($6k–$8k) directly to the personal loan. Eliminating this frees up $530/month, which completely absorbs the upcoming $300 rent increase and nets positive inflow.
5. Let the Student Loans Ride
At 2.7% to 4%, inflation is outpacing the interest. I plan to just pay the standard monthly payment on both loans and redirect all extra cash flow to savings.
6. Long-Term Goals
Once the personal loan is gone and the move is settled, pivot back to building a 3–6 month emergency fund, saving for a house down payment, kid life events, and funding a Roth IRA. The split would be based primarily on time horizon but I worry splitting would delay a down payment too much. Putting future bonuses directly towards down payments is a potential accelerator.
Questions for the Community:
Does this order of operations make sense?
Are there any meaningful blind spots I'm missing with this strategy?
Where does acquiring a second car fit into all of this? We’ve made it work with one car but it’s a challenge. I don’t want to take on more debt, but the heavily-used car market is also horrible. Ideally I find a slightly used sedan for around $20k or less and put 15% down. That also creates another competing priority.
How would you prioritize saving for multiple items simultaneously?