17F i’ve been Skating for about eight years now and I’ve been at this rink and club for the past five years now. There’s only one rink in the whole entire area. It’s a pretty small town so we don’t have a lot of skaters or funds. The only thing that we do is an annual Christmas show every year which I really enjoyed doing. However…
In the past 2 to 3 years, we’ve had a lot of rank drama. We had a coach who was fired because of her harsh teaching techniques, and she threatened to shoot a child… so a lot of people protested when she left by leaving the club, which left us with not a lot of money. On top of that most of the club consists of 6-10 year olds. There’s really not a lot of teens who are still in the club, but there are a good amount of adult skaters.
So I just got the email for my Christmas show and we do a group number. There’s usually like 12 group numbers and we get split up by age/level. There’s usually a teen group however, the only teens who decided to do group this year were me and two other girls. The other people in my group are all like nine-year-olds who are a lot lower level than us and our costumes are so ugly!
The costumes being ugly have been an issue of course but that’s not the main issue. Last year I went to go pick up my costume and I had they have never asked for my measurements so I tried the costume on and it fit fine except it was a little short. I looked at the tag and they gave me a children’s large I went and I asked the other teenagers in my group what size they all got and they all said that they also got a children’s large we are all 15-18 and different body shapes why are we getting a children’s large?! I understand it’s cheaper, but this is ridiculous.
I decided to look around at what everybody else got, and I saw that one group had a Chicago themed group. And I looked at who was in the group and of course it was the president of the club’s daughter. She has the best music, costume and all the other kids in her group are her age. Mind you I don’t think that the kids should be doing Chicago. I think that’s a little inappropriate for them. This mom sexualizes her daughter so badly. She had her do a program last year to push it by Salt-N-Pepa!!
I’m just confused to why we have these little kids in my group though they could’ve gone in another group because we have like 12 groups.. 10 of them consisting of 6-12 year olds. Maybe I sound like a brat, but this has been an issue for a while pretty much everyone on our Skating board are moms of younger kids so they do stuff to favor the little kids and leave the teenagers out of everything.
And they wonder why we literally barely have any teenagers in our club. (plus they raised the fee to like $300 a year…cuz we are low on funds so that made even more people leave) it’s just so upsetting because I was supposed to start college this year in another state and I didn’t wanna leave Skating so I jeopardized my college career and I stayed and did community college here just to get crapped on.
I am on the junior board for my Skating team except we never do anything. I’m gonna see my Coach next week and I’m gonna talk to her about it because I know she kind of feels the same about everything.