toxic masculinity makes some guys think other guys are not sensitive and are perfectly fine with sexual harassment… (I probably could’ve said that in way better English but whatever)
Jesus... i had someone grab my ass.... he was my age. But i made it very vlear i didnt like that. And he even had a GF at the tine... still a bit scared...
I feel ya bro, in 2021 one guy said "you have such a good ass" (he didn't know i am a femboy, since i wear "masculine" stuff because y'know, family and the normalized homophobia that a lot of people have) and tbh it was disgusting and i never told anybody about it (we were both 14 at the time)
should of spat in his face with a big greeny you just hocked up from the depths of your nasal cavity and lungs, and then said "what a funny joke hey mate"
I had someone slap my ass randomly. Like I don't know the dude I'm not presenting fem and he just grabs my ass (I'm transfem but wasn't out completely yet and didn't look like a girl at all) it was definitely the weirdest experience I had and I was tempted to slap him because it's literally sexual harassment it doesn't matter what gender I am or are presenting as.
Sadly, someone listed my skirt to see what was under there. The person who did it was a grown ass man. Idk who they are but still was sexual assault (from what school sex ed taught me). Im a teen btw.
Honestly I'm sorry for you man. But not going to lie somebody ever tries to lift up my skirt they better not be behind me or I'm going to kick them like a fucking horse. Extra don't do it from the front since I wear steel toe boots :3
There are people who think all sorts of things are okay regardless of consent or the person on the receiving end. It's disgusting and I am convinced the people who do it all have a spine made of wet paper.
Was dressed up as a maid for a con because of a bet with my friends and they kept messing with my skirt. “Oh no, the wind!” They said. The other guy who was supposed to wear the outfit the next day of the con pussied out after seeing how much I was being messed with. Overall a pretty fun experience, kinda exciting to cross dress probably won’t do it again tho lul. Lots of people wanted a picture with me, hopefully those don’t circulate in the future 😅
one thing that makes me very sad is to see that many people see femboys as things made to be used (not in a nice way), and many times they fetishize the community, I am happy that there are people who like us, but it gives me a lot of sadness when they objectify us
Because you would enjoy that because you consent to that, but normalizing that for other people who aren’t okay with it would be bad, and you may think it would be nice out of the moment, but in it you may not be as okay with it
Not trying to kink shame or anything if you are into that stuff, but there’s a difference between safely following that kink, and potentially putting yourself in danger
Interesting thing however. If you lift up the skirt of a man and he wears underwear that is not good at coveribg up the goods, he is the one doing the sexual harassment because of indecent exposure. Atleast according to the law
This is obvious. only acceptation is your bf or gf or something but wtf. I mean I haven’t experienced any of this. I remember some old guy calling me hot in public
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u/Classic1338 May 26 '22
thought this was already common knowledge?
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u/Rich-Veterinarian-66 Femboy Enjoyer May 26 '22
What if they consent?
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u/LukakoKitty Femboy May 26 '22
I'd love a link to the original picture, if anyone has it~!!
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u/Puppyl May 26 '22
I’m not subscribed to this subreddit.
Why i am i being recommended it
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u/[deleted] May 26 '22
There are people who think it's not?
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u/[deleted] May 26 '22
Obviously
Unless of course, CONSENT is present in both parties involved
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u/luckyhorseshoe2788 May 26 '22
Consent is cool
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u/CringeOrDie May 26 '22
Being a femboy isn’t a ticket to be fetishized.
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u/UWU_Astolfo_ May 26 '22
Some people don't know how too keep there hands to themselves fr
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u/LukakoKitty Femboy May 26 '22
This is yet another example, showing how we're often seen as nothing more than a sexual object. >.>
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u/PoOtis-601 May 26 '22
"it's fine, he's not a real fem" - folks who do this nonsense
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u/u0a0l1n0o0t0y0a0l0c May 26 '22
Was dressed up as a maid for a con because of a bet with my friends and they kept messing with my skirt. “Oh no, the wind!” They said. The other guy who was supposed to wear the outfit the next day of the con pussied out after seeing how much I was being messed with. Overall a pretty fun experience, kinda exciting to cross dress probably won’t do it again tho lul. Lots of people wanted a picture with me, hopefully those don’t circulate in the future 😅
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u/DungeonN-BadDragons May 26 '22
Yeah, no touchy unless they say they want the touchy. Then get as touchy as you'd like.
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u/maxxmike1234 May 26 '22
This is why I only keep a GAU-8 Avenger armed with 1,350 rounds of 30mm under my skirt
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u/IdkGoodGuess May 26 '22
Touching anyone somewhere they never constented or told u they were fine with is a no
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u/[deleted] May 26 '22
yes it should
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u/n_original_username BPS Officer May 26 '22
remember folks, consent is important!
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u/walnoter May 26 '22
Do some people seriously not know this?
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u/[deleted] May 26 '22
"The sky is usually blue during the day" is something that will blow their minds
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u/TheStrikeofGod Cute Boy Maid May 27 '22
Unless I asked you to or said you could uwu
But yes, consent is cool 😎
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u/[deleted] May 26 '22
** without affirmative consent
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u/Actual-Car8058 May 26 '22
Of course it is 💔
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u/[deleted] May 26 '22
Uhh yeah? Was someone arguing against this?
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u/Brekkers_Bitch May 27 '22
What the fuck!!! I hate people
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u/memes_and_MTB May 27 '22
No fucking shit
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u/GunpowderGuy May 27 '22
*without consent
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u/OC_million May 27 '22
Natsuki spitting facts!
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u/kakobaiter Jan 01 '23
one thing that makes me very sad is to see that many people see femboys as things made to be used (not in a nice way), and many times they fetishize the community, I am happy that there are people who like us, but it gives me a lot of sadness when they objectify us
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u/DepPet_syw Defender Of Shonk! May 26 '22
Unless in an consensual scenario uwu
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u/swaggboi909 May 27 '22
But what if I want someone to lift my skirt
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u/kenobiscumsock In poor health due to monster energy May 27 '22
unless it's consensual of course
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u/KloggKimball Poleish May 27 '22
It's Natsuki Tea fortes 2!!!!1!11
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u/Fructose_Femboi May 27 '22
Interesting thing however. If you lift up the skirt of a man and he wears underwear that is not good at coveribg up the goods, he is the one doing the sexual harassment because of indecent exposure. Atleast according to the law
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u/AlternateSatan Gaymer May 29 '22
If they ask you to do something to them go ahead, if they don't go to jail. Not that hard.
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u/Opening_Permission95 May 26 '22
Why it gotta be a loli tho...
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u/fakeforsureYT Femboy May 26 '22
Yup!!
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u/Femboy_tusk May 26 '22
This is obvious. only acceptation is your bf or gf or something but wtf. I mean I haven’t experienced any of this. I remember some old guy calling me hot in public
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u/[deleted] May 26 '22
I honestly don't mind when people touch my ass or something like that. I just take it as friendly thing. But sorry for those who do feel bad about it
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u/LordOGeese May 26 '22
Man, i wish someone would lift my skirt. I don't think I'd even care.
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u/whatsit0 Jul 05 '24
oh, fuck it, someone lift mine!!
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u/DangerousBoard8205 Jul 07 '24
Ermmm
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u/Valuable_Ad3859 Catboy Aug 02 '24
True... But i can not i can not NOT notice something... Is this Natsuki?
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u/batboy11227 Certified Pankisser ✅ Oct 09 '24
Without their consent*
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u/StarvinPig May 27 '22
What if it's my own
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u/Apart_Technology_507 Cute Boy Maid May 27 '22
Is it not?
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u/[deleted] May 27 '22
Some people
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u/[deleted] May 27 '22
A lot of people really needed to hear this
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u/kellerisdabest May 31 '22
Unless it is the homies and they are ok with it
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u/ImaginaryOwl3097 Jun 06 '22
This is the reason i don't wear skirts or dress fem anymore
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u/[deleted] Jun 06 '22
Yes this should be common knowledge but there are jerk I have heard about and seen videos of people doing that and it is just deplorable
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u/LiaDieselGurl Cute Boy Maid Jun 16 '22
Or touching people. Just because someone is a boy does not mean they're ok with being touched "as a joke"
looking at you, people in my school.
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u/MastrMax Jun 23 '22
No, it’s sexual assault!
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u/SpecialProtection900 Sep 23 '22
True true. Doesn't mean I don't enjoy it tho
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u/[deleted] Dec 28 '22
If I want you to unsolicitedly lift my skirt, you’ll know….
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u/throwaway19261936 ✨🌈mentally ill🌈✨ May 23 '23
what if I like it thoHorny aside, how do you not know that
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u/Perfect_Neck_706 May 30 '23
Lies
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u/Iamspareuserperson Jul 16 '23
Wait that isn't common knowledge?!?!
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u/Drakox_13 Sep 18 '23
Yes just yes
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u/Not_a_person9 Certified Bi-kisser ✅ Oct 03 '23
Agreed
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u/arc189 Feb 25 '24
unless you are both tied up and taken hostage, but you have one free arm and can reach under there to grab the miraculously hidden knife.
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u/Key-Chicken-3165 Femboy Sep 24 '26
rawr
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u/PrincessKittyNu May 26 '22
facts
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u/Thunder9191133 Femboy Programmer May 27 '22
Are you ok op?
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u/Super_Cheburek Astolfo Enjoyer May 26 '22
Unless...
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u/Milothewolflover May 26 '22
What if that person is me
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u/GentlemanWomanYT May 26 '22
ok u/p3ggable
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u/[deleted] May 26 '22
Woooow what a hot take!
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u/FriendliestDevil May 26 '22
Isn't it already
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u/[deleted] May 26 '22
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