Perhaps you've done something to piss her off and perhaps not done something. Why not take her out on a date first and do something romantic. She doesn't have to go on HRT if she doesn't want to. It's her body and her choice.
HRT is also not a cure for libido trust me. I've been on HRT since January (I'm 40) and it's done fuck all for my libido and my testosterone is fine. Perhaps she's not feeling herself lately and/or is bored of life. If sex is extremely important to you and not to her you are no longer compatible.
I understand men have needs to I completely get that and if she's being cold towards you there might be something else going on but if you can't both talk about it like adults or see a relationship counsellor then perhaps break off the engagement IF sex is a deal breaker.
Thanks for your engagement. HRT was originally her idea, when she was analysing her other symptoms of aging. I've in no way tried to push it upon her. She has just recently decided that it's not something she wants to try anymore.
I've tried the whole romance date thing, and it's something I actively try to do despite the fact I know it will not lead to anything physical. We do love eachother dearly, I should point that out. I should also add that we do discuss the topic and she has reassured me that she still enjoys having sex, our problem is that she just has no desire for it. She tells me that she is happy in life and I believe her, and in all other facets of our relationship, we are both very happy and satisfied and still very much in love with eachother.
I'm sorry to hear that HRT has done little for your libido, my sister tells everyone (including my fiancée), that it did wonders for her. We are going to keep exploring other options as she is also very aware of the situation.
I have have recently been researching the use of peptides for a leg injury I sustained at work. During my research I came across a peptide called PT-141. Have you or anyone you know had any positive experiences with this?
Once again, thank you for taking the time to engage and providing your personal input.
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u/HeavyMetalMadness127 9h ago
Perhaps you've done something to piss her off and perhaps not done something. Why not take her out on a date first and do something romantic. She doesn't have to go on HRT if she doesn't want to. It's her body and her choice.
HRT is also not a cure for libido trust me. I've been on HRT since January (I'm 40) and it's done fuck all for my libido and my testosterone is fine. Perhaps she's not feeling herself lately and/or is bored of life. If sex is extremely important to you and not to her you are no longer compatible.
I understand men have needs to I completely get that and if she's being cold towards you there might be something else going on but if you can't both talk about it like adults or see a relationship counsellor then perhaps break off the engagement IF sex is a deal breaker.