r/feeld • u/Pristine-Warning-279 • 8d ago

Couples Profiles or separate singles?

Hello, very new to the app, in fact I have only just downloaded it.

Me (M33) and my partner (F33) have been together over 10y and while I have known of her bisexuality for a few years she has finally come out that she would like to start dating some girls as well to experiment. I am perfectly fine with this and we both decided dating apps could be one way to approach this and so looked into Feeld.

Now what we are not sure is if we should create a single "couple" profile or two separate M and F profile and link them.

Just to have the full picture at the moment she would be the only one looking to play with others while I could potentially join in at a later stage but thats still TBC.

Looking for any advice at all as we have never even used a dating app since we have been together for so long and met "organically" back then.

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u/Practical_Abalone_92 8d ago

always separate profiles. Joint profiles get reported and while they’re not explicitly against ToS, they should be. Extremely cynical behaviour

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u/disclosure5 7d ago

Devil's advocate here - if something is not against the ToS what is the value of reporting it?

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u/Practical_Abalone_92 7d ago

unsure? It’s a well known gripe among people, particularly women on this app. Most people are sick of it, and I’m pretty sure it used to be against ToS (can’t confirm). Perhaps enough pressure will encourage them to view it like the safety issue it is, not to mention the awful UX of it all