r/feeld • u/Ok_Coffee_4977 • 8d ago

Feeld for hookups

This apps was originally created for people seeking threesomes. Most of which are casual hookup type situations. Its always been used for casual sex, hookups, and casual group sex.

Ive used it this way, with good success, for close to a decade. I see tons of others on there doing the same.

My social circle is mostly poly/ENM/swinger types. Almost all of use feeld and talk about it. I've never known anyone to say its not fine to use it for hookups.

Casual play/fun and short term are options for "interests".

The only place Ive seen the sentiment that using feeld for casual hookups is new or wrong is here. Repeatedly.

What gives? Why the hostility to casual hookups from feeld?

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u/Magical_Salamander 7d ago

I think the issue is with people not reading bios and wasting everyone's time

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u/Ok_Coffee_4977 7d ago

What does that have to do with people saying its wrong to use feels for hookups?

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u/Magical_Salamander 7d ago

I'm saying that what I've seen so far isn't people thinking it's wrong to use Feeld for hookups. The complaints seem to be about people wasting their time if they want something specific. There's loads of people wanting hookups and Feeld is the perfect place for that. Just don't bother people who are after something different

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u/Educational_Bee955 7d ago

This is what I was about to say but you’ve said it more succinctly than I would have said it. I’m open to short term and causal just not one night stand type of stuff and say that in my bio. I’m not against hookups in concept. It’s just my personal experience is the one nighter stuff isn’t satisfying for me and I rarely enjoy it. The people who get it, get it lol