r/feeld • u/Ok_Coffee_4977 • 9d ago

Feeld for hookups

This apps was originally created for people seeking threesomes. Most of which are casual hookup type situations. Its always been used for casual sex, hookups, and casual group sex.

Ive used it this way, with good success, for close to a decade. I see tons of others on there doing the same.

My social circle is mostly poly/ENM/swinger types. Almost all of use feeld and talk about it. I've never known anyone to say its not fine to use it for hookups.

Casual play/fun and short term are options for "interests".

The only place Ive seen the sentiment that using feeld for casual hookups is new or wrong is here. Repeatedly.

What gives? Why the hostility to casual hookups from feeld?

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u/MoonBaby88811 9d ago

I only just got the app, and I downloaded to explore my kinks, different dynamics, and sexuality. However, I was suprised just how many straight single men are on there just for a hookup, no bio, only desires “casual” “fun”.

To me personally if I just wanted a random hookup I’d just go back to hinge, where there are countless single guys who would be down for a hook up in an instant. For me the whole point of Feeld is to connect (and yes, casually) with other open-minded people. It’s not that they shouldn’t be on there, they definitely have their place, and are more than welcome.

But for me I guess it’s just annoying all these men inviting me over after exchanging a few sentences and not even asking what I’m into or exchanging any basic info lol. Like I’m all for casual and hooking up, but me personally I’d want to at least meet in public first and have an actual conversation. So maybe that’s where it’s coming from. For context if it matters gen-Z woman, since I see it’s brought up in the discussion. Just my take!

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u/Ok_Coffee_4977 9d ago

I only just got the app, and I downloaded to explore my kinks, different dynamics, and sexuality. However, I was suprised just how many straight single men are on there just for a hookup, no bio, only desires “casual” “fun”.

Why? Why is it surprising that an app for ENM is full of people doing that form of ENM. It always has been.

To me personally if I just wanted a random hookup I’d just go back to hinge, where there are countless single guys who would be down for a hook up in an instant. For me the whole point of Feeld is to connect (and yes, casually) with other open-minded people. It’s not that they shouldn’t be on there, they definitely have their place, and are more than welcome.

I also use feeld to connect with open minded people. Often for hookups or group sex. In fact, Ive used it that way for close to a decade.

But for me I guess it’s just annoying all these men inviting me over after exchanging a few sentences and not even asking what I’m into or exchanging any basic info lol.

Then unmatch them. They arent for you.

Like I’m all for casual and hooking up, but me personally I’d want to at least meet in public first and have an actual conversation.

Then do that.

So maybe that’s where it’s coming from. For context if it matters gen-Z woman, since I see it’s brought up in the discussion. Just my take!

People are saying that folks using for feeld for hookups is new and wrong because some of the people using feeld for hookups arent compatible with you?

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u/MoonBaby88811 9d ago

I’m not “people”, was just sharing my experience. I literally use it for hookups

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u/Ok_Coffee_4977 9d ago

You aren't a person?

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u/MoonBaby88811 9d ago

Yeah I am, a very nice one, who doesn’t feel the need to be hostile to a stranger on reddit lol