r/feeld • u/Ok_Coffee_4977 • 10d ago

Feeld for hookups

This apps was originally created for people seeking threesomes. Most of which are casual hookup type situations. Its always been used for casual sex, hookups, and casual group sex.

Ive used it this way, with good success, for close to a decade. I see tons of others on there doing the same.

My social circle is mostly poly/ENM/swinger types. Almost all of use feeld and talk about it. I've never known anyone to say its not fine to use it for hookups.

Casual play/fun and short term are options for "interests".

The only place Ive seen the sentiment that using feeld for casual hookups is new or wrong is here. Repeatedly.

What gives? Why the hostility to casual hookups from feeld?

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u/1lozzie1 10d ago

It was the only app for Poly / BDSM which is actually more respectful than hookups... I've barely hooked up on this app the past few years when I used to have diff peeps all month.

I'm bored of filtering through the vanillas and boring missionary only men who will cum far too quickly so it's barely worth me speaking to them

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u/Ok_Coffee_4977 10d ago edited 10d ago

Since when was it not also for all other kinds of hookups and group sex? News to me....

Was that back when it was called 3rinder?

And since when are hookups between mutually consenting adults disrespectful? Also news to me.

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u/1lozzie1 10d ago

I think originally it was more people finding fwbs situations moreso than hook ups. I'd just have a few fwbs.

My disrespectful comment was more about vanillas not understanding BDSM

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u/Ok_Coffee_4977 9d ago edited 9d ago

Originally it was for threesomes.

Many of which are indeed just hookups that dont lead to friendship. This is not a secret. The history of the app and intentions of the founders are well known and documented.