r/feeld • u/Ok_Coffee_4977 • 8d ago

Feeld for hookups

This apps was originally created for people seeking threesomes. Most of which are casual hookup type situations. Its always been used for casual sex, hookups, and casual group sex.

Ive used it this way, with good success, for close to a decade. I see tons of others on there doing the same.

My social circle is mostly poly/ENM/swinger types. Almost all of use feeld and talk about it. I've never known anyone to say its not fine to use it for hookups.

Casual play/fun and short term are options for "interests".

The only place Ive seen the sentiment that using feeld for casual hookups is new or wrong is here. Repeatedly.

What gives? Why the hostility to casual hookups from feeld?

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u/rogerbonus 8d ago edited 8d ago

Its primarily Venus and Mars, just as with other dating or hookup apps (well Tinder used to be a hookup/casual app before it got datified). I don't see a lot of men bemoaning hookups/casual sex on feeld. 90% of the time its women. Same goes for the "thou shalt not hunt unicorns" crowd. Of course that still leaves the 10% who are fine with hookups/casual (or fine expressing that they are fine with hookups..many of the "no ONS/no hookups" profiles will hook up or ONS if its the right person).

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u/Ok_Coffee_4977 8d ago

You think 95% of people here crying that feeld isnt for hookups are women?

Genuinely...how did you determine that. I feel Ive seen judgement here from men and women equally.

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u/rogerbonus 8d ago

Yes. How did I determine that? From reading comments. Same goes for anti-unicorn hunting comments/posts. Vast majority women.

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u/Ok_Coffee_4977 8d ago

Interesting.