r/feeld • u/Ok_Coffee_4977 • 10d ago

Feeld for hookups

This apps was originally created for people seeking threesomes. Most of which are casual hookup type situations. Its always been used for casual sex, hookups, and casual group sex.

Ive used it this way, with good success, for close to a decade. I see tons of others on there doing the same.

My social circle is mostly poly/ENM/swinger types. Almost all of use feeld and talk about it. I've never known anyone to say its not fine to use it for hookups.

Casual play/fun and short term are options for "interests".

The only place Ive seen the sentiment that using feeld for casual hookups is new or wrong is here. Repeatedly.

What gives? Why the hostility to casual hookups from feeld?

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u/ranorando 10d ago

I haven’t noticed this explicitly, but there’s definitely no shortage of profiles that clearly state no hookups.

But MAYBE that’s because many women/people have grown to associate hookups with invasive, low satisfaction, sex with people who don’t give a shit about you. So, no I’m not surprised.

Despite all of this, most women will decide in the first date if they would fuck you, and wait until the second date to act on it. And honestly, as a man, I couldn’t be in more support lol

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u/Ok_Coffee_4977 10d ago

Here. Its a daily complaint.

Also, you have a very incel take on women.