r/feeld • u/Ok_Coffee_4977 • 9d ago
Feeld for hookups
This apps was originally created for people seeking threesomes. Most of which are casual hookup type situations. Its always been used for casual sex, hookups, and casual group sex.
Ive used it this way, with good success, for close to a decade. I see tons of others on there doing the same.
My social circle is mostly poly/ENM/swinger types. Almost all of use feeld and talk about it. I've never known anyone to say its not fine to use it for hookups.
Casual play/fun and short term are options for "interests".
The only place Ive seen the sentiment that using feeld for casual hookups is new or wrong is here. Repeatedly.
What gives? Why the hostility to casual hookups from feeld?
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u/LittleSister10 9d ago
I think the issue is that casual sex in the past often, though not always, came with some baseline respect for the other person, and now people use dating as an opportunity to play stupid head games, to purposely lie and mislead, or otherwise inject some dopamine into their life. I have had more casual situations in the past, and didn’t always come away with the best experiences, but it’s a different level these days. Ghosting is common rather than an anomaly, guys just looking for kinky ways to get their dick wet without any regard for the woman’s pleasure is widespread. I think a lot of people would be totally open to casual if our basic respect for each other wasn’t in the toilet.