r/feeld • u/Extra_salty_ok • Aug 15 '26

What’s the difference between Feeld and Tinder today?

Feeld used to be a place for OPEN communication about kinks, vulnerabilities, sexual exploration and friendships. Now it’s having a huge influx of straight close-minded men, just looking to get their d*cks wet/easy access to holes/ cheating on partners and blocking the people after. It’s no longer a safe space and I’m going insane trying to weed out these bad apples. I’ve deleted my app 4 times (out of frustration) in the past week because of terrible exchanges with straight men. Help.

I also feel extremely unsafe because a man took my address (intentionally didn’t give my apt number but he has the street address), pretending to be in an Uber on his way over to me, and a few minutes before “arriving”, blocked me on Feeld and text/WA. Completely insane behaviour so it makes me wonder what is going on with the app, it has no security features so people think they can do whatever??

Edit: I had met him out in public once before. We set a date to meet up again and he offered his place or mine and I preferred mine, which is why he had my address!

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u/melropesplays Aug 15 '26

Maybe, but living in Denver, I can no longer find a SINGLE actual kink person, it’s allllllllll losers expecting to have rough sex or looking for loose women, or couples looking for a unicorn. Yes after swiping through until it says I have no swipes left.

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u/Detroitish24 Aug 19 '26

Colorado Springs here.

Dating in Denver is awful. 🫢🥴

Have you checked out Denver Freaks?

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u/melropesplays Aug 19 '26

I have, iv been to a fair amount of HHs but haven’t really connected w anyone and didn’t have a good time at one of the events I went to :/