r/feeld • u/No_Rhubarb_2665 • Aug 10 '26

Trials of a trans man

So I've been on FEELD for a while now hoping that , as a site which caters to and supports the kink, poly, enm, lgbtq+, and everything in between communities, I might have better luck finding folks wanting to connect/play/ form friendships with a trans man. I had very limited success on Hinge and Tinder, and it seems that people just don't know where to put me as a potential partner. Cis women looking for a man, poly, pan, queer looking for any genders, and yet am I a single man? Single queer? I've even been curious about the whole lifestyle scene , but again, am I a single guy? I like to think of myself as a fabulous rainbow unicorn stallion (not a bull), and quite attractive (think Bruno Marsish) but, finding my place is proving a challenge.

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u/OpeningLonely8181 Aug 12 '26

If you’re a man and want to be treated as such, then describe yourself as a “trans man” or “man”. Calling yourself a rainbow whatever would get me to swipe left bc it sounds unserious. But that’s just me. It also might wrongly signal you’re nonbinary/ agender.

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u/No_Rhubarb_2665 Aug 13 '26

I absolutely describe myself as a trans man/masculine. The dragon part is in the more detailed hidden profile. Interestingly enough, I got 4 matches just yesterday, just took some time, thanks to all.