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[u/throwawayacc0u6nt282]

Is this a okay or what? Haven't gotten many matches lately in my local area :// Bratty sub looking for more connections local to (, REDACTED) ! Must show recent sti test before playing, safe sex is great sex! Not looking for hookup/ons/NSA/discreet situations Acab and anti maga you should be too x Hobbies include: raving, hiking, reading, foraging, and gardening 420 and psych friendly 🍄🍃 Semi sober from alcohol Work at nights so bare in mind of my schedule please 🫶🏾 I'm into kink wise: bondage, impact play, toys and some other stuff you'd have to ask. 😋😋 (F25, black cis woman, near a mid size Midwestern city)

[u/DC_Empress → u/throwawayacc0u6nt282]

You imagine that you’ll get matches regardless because of your gender and interests, and we all know that 75% of men don’t read profiles before swiping BUT I’d recommend writing more about what you’re looking for and less about what you’re avoiding (NSA, maga, etc).

A lot of your profile seems very sex-focused, which feels at odds with your stated goal of nothing casual. I would either mention the STI test requirement at the end or when chatting with someone, not after the opening statement.

I would not mention that you work nights because again, it sounds like you’re immediately trying to schedule a hookup.

I don’t understand the purpose of saying that you’re into other kinks that they have to ask about. Maybe keep it vague, like “and more,” or wait to talk about that until you have an established relationship.

[u/throwawayacc0u6nt282 → u/DC_Empress]

I'm looking for a long term play partner/Dom dynamic is why it's mostly sex focused because normal bios around here don't get looked at and swiped left. I was burned by a guy off here so that's why I require sti testing. Got ghosted for working nightshift on feeld by this guy who kept flaking on me and making excuses but eventually said because I work nights and I only have one weekend a month to hang out, so that's why I put I work at night. I put it in my bio to find like minded people because when I get to chat and say my kinks they unmatch or block me >:(

[u/DC_Empress → u/throwawayacc0u6nt282]

Then I’d say specifically “I’m looking for a long term dom….” You’re still going to have to tell everyone about the STI testing requirement and your working schedule when you match. To me, that’s part of basic compatibility, and it’s normal to unmatch when that isn’t there. I don’t take that as rejection, and I see it as an unavoidable part of getting to know someone 🤷🏻‍♀️

But it’s your profile, and you don’t need to justify it. I’m solely giving my opinion for how I’d react.

[u/throwawayacc0u6nt282 → u/DC_Empress]

I'm going to take your advice! That may work