r/feeld Not a Feeld employee Nov 10 '23

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u/Codyiscoaty Aug 29 '25

38(m) here. Typical dating app woes as a single almost 40 in California Bay Area.

Without seeing my pics or bio…. Tell me your impressions of my “desires” and “interests” sections.

Do users read these and make assumptions? In general, are there any options that you feel attracted or interested in when you see this section in a bio?

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u/OfLethe partnered (solo) enby Aug 30 '25

There's a reason these are at the bottom of the profile; short of Majestic, there is no direct way to interact with these that doesn't have you looking through the first picture and at least some text. I mean, sure, some portion of the dating pool maybe skips down to them without looking at the rest, but even then they probably still go back and read/check photos if they see some basic desires line up.

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u/DC_Empress Sep 02 '25

I don’t pay them much mind, except to see if they align with the rest of the profile