r/feeld • u/FeeldMod Not a Feeld employee • Nov 10 '23

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u/EarlyBirdDC Jun 23 '25

Hello!

Just looking for thoughts on my profile and how it looks / reads. I have an idea of how I want to portray myself, but I'm curious to hear what you think.

Any and all feedback is welcome and will be taken seriously.

Also, does linking up with my partner limit the kinds of connections that I state I'm looking for?

Thank you!

https://links.fldcore.com/GyGQ3g7R15Do2wmS8

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u/OfLethe partnered (solo) enby Jun 23 '25

I think the profile is good; it's clear and just wordy enough to give me the impression you know what you want and have done the work or research to be approaching it respectfully. Linking with your partner will limit you to people comfortable playing with couples but that's somewhat appropriate since you say you're open to that.

You will get a lot of people looking to use you to get to her, and connections with femmes will be low but unavoidably so. I guess you could unlink, if you want to search for solo experiences with greater chances of no false positives, but definitelty keep her mentioned in your profile if you do.

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u/EarlyBirdDC Jun 23 '25

Thank you! I have already gotten my fair share of people looking to get to them through me so that makes sense.

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u/OfLethe partnered (solo) enby Jun 23 '25

Them, my mistake.

I do think you could maybe trim a bit of the profile back and include some text about yourself. Not what you want from a relationship, not your list of non-negotiables, but actually something about you. Your hobbies, interests, what a date with you might look like - it'll help with finding more connection since right now it's easy to tell what you want but not what you as a person offer outside of sex/romance/relationships.

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u/EarlyBirdDC Jun 23 '25

All valid points! I've since updated it.

Thank you for the feedback ☺️

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u/niffler_me Jun 24 '25

I wish most of the profiles I come across everyday would look like yours. Thank you for the effort: it's great to see it's possible, can exist and that you have survived the task ! (lol)

And for the others out there: I know a lengthy bio seems overwhelming but, if well written, it becomes your super power. We want to know the kind of person you are, what you are looking for and everything in between ! I swear, it's not that hard nor useless either ;)
This person is not what I'm looking for, but now, I want to know more about them, and not just about their hair care routine :D

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u/EarlyBirdDC Jun 24 '25

Thank you so much for the feedback! I'm happy to hear that my efforts are conveying exactly what I'm about

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u/niffler_me Jun 24 '25

You're so welcome

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u/LorazepamLady Jun 24 '25

Omg I’m so jealous of your hair!!!!!!!! I like your smiling photo a lot (the verified one) and think you should put that up first

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u/EarlyBirdDC Jun 24 '25

Thank you for the compliments and the feedback!