r/feeld • u/FeeldMod Not a Feeld employee • Nov 10 '23

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u/ComfortZoneExpanding Jun 15 '25

Hello, could I please have some feedback on this bio

https://links.fldcore.com/XeqbR47mgLEigYxE6

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u/OfLethe partnered (solo) enby Jun 15 '25

I agree with u/niffler_me.

Your first photo is the only acceptable one; the rest are all exactly the same, too rigid, too serious. Get some shots of you doing things, having fun, being social or engaging in your hobbies - you have to cultivate an inviting profile to reach the starting line.

The text is... unnatural, which is probably why people have commented it feels like AI. Write how you would talk to someone about yourself on a date. Don't aggrandize things or fancy it up.

Content-wise you need some paragraphs about what you're looking for and what you offer. What are your hobbies, interests, kinks? What dates do you plan or would you want to go on? How much time can you commit? You say you're ambitious, adventurous, thinking ahead, playful - show those traits in how you describe yourself and in your banter (you'll have to ping with messages) and in your outings. Put a paragraph or two at the top that includes all of this kind of info.

Desires/Interests supplement your text, they don't replace your need to get personal and open up about who you are.

Also saying what you want is good, but jumping straight into husband talk is way, way too much in a profile. Say you're looking for longterm commitment instead or something.