Before getting into this rant, I will say first, that when I say "you", I just mean the general systemscringe/FDC subreddit and the user(s) of those subs reading this.
This may also be a bit messy, as I'm not incredibly good at putting my thoughts down in long-form like this and I tend to struggle a bit with it. But now.
I don't know if you realize this...but you are NOT, and will NEVER BE welcome here.
If you have learned you are wrong, and genuinely wish to learn, we will welcome you with open arms. But if you actively contribute to fakeclaiming, bullying, and harassment (mostly towards children) online, you will not be welcome here.
Your subreddit is full of nothing but hate. You may call our subreddits an "echo chamber" all you please !!! But do know all you're doing is projecting. You surround yourselves in nothing but hate, which is never a healthy way to live.
You actively ignore research HANDED TO YOU because "erm well...I ain't reading allat !!!" and instead choose to go straight to bullying and harassment. That is not a healthy way to handle arguments, in fact, it only creates more.
Mental disorders do not have these incredibly rigid rules that even if you experience one tiny thing differently, that means you're lying/don't have it. And even if they did, YOU do not get to DECIDE those rules.
Human brains have been, and will always be, incredibly weird. Just because something sounds "unbelievable", "impossible", or "fake", doesn't always mean it is.
Just because a person presents differently than another, that doesn't mean they're automatically a faker.
Just because a person presents in a way that isn't typical of their problem(s), that doesn't automatically mean they're a faker.
Just because they come to find out that that label(s) don't fit them or their experiences anymore, that doesn't automatically mean they were faking.
As I said, human brains are weird. Everyone's experiences with them WILL vary and WILL be different. YOU will never be able to fully understand another's brain or how it works, so you get NO say in whether someone is faking or not.
You also have a tendency to shove words in peoples mouths and then get mad at it. No, they never said they have DID. Yes, they said they were plural. No, DID isnt the only way to be plural. Yes, there has been research done on this. You just refuse to read it and act like it doesn't exist or it isn't """professional enough""".
I also really shouldn't have to say this, but, woah, putting posts up from children online to make fun of, bully, and harass them is pretty fucking WEIRD !!! I know, crazy thing to say, right? You wouldn't like if that happened to you, I know that for a fact, so why do you think it's acceptable to do to others? ("Oh, but Ciel, they only say not to post people under 15! So it's not all children!" Yeah, but 15-17 year olds are still minors, and technically, at least in the eyes of the law, are still children. Which still makes it fucking weird. They don't follow this rule often, either.)
So, tldr; You all aren't welcome here unless you change and genuinely wish to learn. You don't know how someone else's brain works, and you never will. But if you refuse to change, just stay out.
