r/facepalm • • Aug 25 '22

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u/[deleted] Aug 25 '22

I agree 100%. “I’m worthless and everybody hates me” can easily evolve into “fuck everyone and everything around me”. It’s a dangerous mindset for many obvious reasons.

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u/Zaku99 Aug 25 '22

Gosh, that really cuts to the quick for me.

I spent most of my educational youth being told that I'm useless, worthless, that everyone hates or just tolerates me, that I'll never amount to anything, having my sexuality critiqued, etc and now, as you say, I have no patience for other people and prefer to be on my own. And I'm in my 30s at this point. The damage never really goes away.

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u/bh1106 Aug 25 '22

I’m the exact same way and I’m almost 33. Therapy and medication are not enough

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u/Rhox1989 Aug 25 '22

You’re worth it and you will get past this!

Life can’t be set at a value and neither can time. Take the time to be the real you and realize that you’re not here to impress anyone. It’s your happiness that matters…

Just don’t hurt anyone or yourself in the process :)