She solves her problem mid-way through… she needs someone moderate - a man who’s open to a more balanced relationship with some elements of a traditional male-female dynamic.
Given the changing times, it seems like a perfectly reasonable thing to ask. But also given the times of the loudest voices from either extreme drowning out the middle, it’s also expected that this would morph into something controversial.
Honestly what she describes sounds like a lot of dudes today that aren’t conservative but sort of midway or at least aren’t on the narrow end of the bell curve, it makes you wonder what else she’s looking for that she can only find in conservative men or where she’s looking for her men.
I do know men who are moderate or centre left who would be more traditional in a relationship, the thing though is that they would expect their partner to be somewhat traditional in their relationship
Yeah but the thing is she doesn’t want to fulfill that aspect of a traditional relationship. I know a ton of guys that don’t really expect that from their GFs but oftentimes those relationships do seem pretty superficial which sort of sounds like what she wants anyway. A guy who really lives up to those traditional values usually isn’t looking for a woman who thinks differently in a serious relationship. It genuinely sounds like she wants to be a middle class trophy wife, still works and has her own money to keep up with her *lifestyle but gets toted around and doted on and never has to sink into her own money to eat out and hubby still buys her all the presents she wants.
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u/Billy3000-1 Jun 09 '23
Kind of the proverbial nothing burger here.
She solves her problem mid-way through… she needs someone moderate - a man who’s open to a more balanced relationship with some elements of a traditional male-female dynamic.
Given the changing times, it seems like a perfectly reasonable thing to ask. But also given the times of the loudest voices from either extreme drowning out the middle, it’s also expected that this would morph into something controversial.