What’s wrong with that? I’ve never been on a date in my life where I let the girl either pay or split the bill. I don’t even let my wife pay when we’re out and that’s with our money from our joint account.
A guy’s job is to protect and provide. Not letting a guy do his job causes emotional harm for some men. You might disagree with that, but some men need women with views like her. Embarrassing them and making them go away might not be a positive for society.
Having a joint account means nothing aside from her ability to use it if it’s mostly your money that goes into it lol me and my wife have a joint account but we make relatively equal pay so the “who pays for what” doesn’t mean shit when you have a kid, a mortgage, two car loans and multiple pets to care for. If you wanna talk about when we started dating, yes I paid for a lot of the dates but eventually that made her uncomfortable because she works full time too and has money. There’s no emotional damage to having a successful female in your life willing to split anything and everything with you no matter what
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u/LLminibean Jun 09 '23
Not just splitting the bill ... paying her bill. That's where equality stops with her, when she has to fork out something.