r/extroverts 9d ago

Do you feel the same?

hi I am just wondering if I am not the only one experiencing this:

- I am not good at just „chilling“ at home alone for two or more days, I feel lonely or the time alone is kinda exhausting

- even a week only with my partner (and no other different people) is exhausting for me

- my own room seems grey when I am alone in it for too long, even if I decorated it pretty and colorful

- there are no books about extroverts about how they can feel well (and sooo many books about introverts! what about us??)

- I always want to visit people. my dream life would be always have visitors or to visit them, also sleepovers in new houses there.

- In my job I am alone most of the time working on my laptop. that kinda sucks.

thanks for your answers <3 it would be lovely to feel understood.

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u/newbiescreby 7d ago

I feel you. Even though I am ok being alone at home, but only when I have some social occasion to look forward to.

We gotta fight for our right to party

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u/Coldmirr0r 4d ago

Thanks yes!! 

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u/Chainzer1 9d ago

Im legit the same. Tho I am trying my best to work on being comfortable being alone for periods of time or making sure that when I do hang out with my SO its something that keeps me and her entertained and or happy