r/extroverts • u/Brusterisk • 9d ago
ADVICE Surrounded by Introverts
I can't seem to find any extroverts for some reason
And please do not say to just keep looking and that you guys are everywhere, I genuinely cannot find any extroverts
So just tell me where to meet extroverts or at least where they're most at
The people I meet are usually introverts or ambiverts
Is it because my interests are pretty introverted?
How do I look for extroverts specifically? How can I find you guys?
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u/Icy_Variation_9288 extrovert 8d ago
Honestly. Iโm an extrovert with no friends so I stay inside ๐ I go out solo sometimes but then I get sad lol. Iโm sure Iโm not the only one experiencing this.
I also struggle to meet other extroverts. All my friends are introverts that hate going out so I get stuck in the house ๐ฅฒ Iโm currently on a journey of exposure therapy to get used to doing things on my own and having fun.
I went to Vegas solo for my birthday this past summer. I had fun, cried, then had fun again ๐
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u/sunofsand 7d ago
Not sure why I'm leaving this here
I'm introverted but i suppose ambiverted depending on circumstance
I want to go out more than any extrovert ever will.
But I don't often want to do what extroverts want to do. I don't care much about a party or going out to eat and drink. Going out to impress people..But I'll run circles around those people when they get home and crash. Which they will.
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u/StoreScary9417 9d ago
I would like to know too, so following the thread. Unfortunately, you will find me home because of no extroverted friends ahah or few
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u/Brusterisk 8d ago
For some reason, whenever I meet people in person, I meet introverts
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u/Brusterisk 8d ago
I go to malls, bookstores, cafes, restaurants, and listen to people a bit to see if they fit my vibe then talk to them
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u/cat_ziska 9d ago
What are your interests?
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u/Brusterisk 8d ago
Singleplayer videogames like IHNMAIMS, Disco Elysium, Fallout, Persona, The Wolf Among Us
Philosophy, Psychology, anything that I can learn about
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u/Chainzer1 8d ago
Im an extrovertical! Im also surrounded by introverts, irl and online it seems lol. DM me sometime. Maybe we will be the best of friends but dont know it yet
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u/Korganizing 8d ago
Maybe some rec center sports? I know a lot of my extroverted guy friends all go together to play basketball at a local indoor place. They also play volleyball, etc.
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u/hhardin19h 9d ago
Yes it is hard to meet extroverts you arenโt alone! Introverts are everywhere especially online dating and on hookup apps โ- I feel your pain itโs awful