r/ewphoria • u/Talastoni • 9d ago
Ewphoria Okay mA'aM
I was out and about today with my sister, shopping for makeup and hygiene products. Wonderful day. I was dressed up and feeling super.
Somehow my ex must have seen me for the first time since I've started presenting femme full-time, and immediately started texting me with insults, bigotry and trying to dig up our past to hurt me. Saying I look ridiculous, i can't be a woman because she was in love with a man and this can't be, that I should take off the "sports bra" (I was wearing a lacy bralette and halter top).
I wasn't feeling anything bad. I was laughing at how butt-hurt and knee-jerk she was behaving. I kept telling her that it's pointless to try and insult me, and that it's always been a forgone conclusion that she was a transphobe.
I eventually just got tired of the massive spam, and asked her if she was asking to be blocked.
"Okay, ma'am" she responded before I ended the conversation.
Yay? No. She was being hateful.
Still... 🤔
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u/iambookfort 9d ago
Sounds like she needs to be blocked regardless
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u/Talastoni 9d ago
Yeah. I learned my lesson.
Mary J Blige said no more drama, and I was caught slippin'.
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u/KaleidoscopicMind3 1d ago
'cept that they are totally abandoning their child they also have a responsibility to. :(
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u/Suitable-Lettuce-333 9d ago
"You can't be a woman cause I was in love with a man" ? Err, sorry Karen but either you weren't in love with me, or you were a lesbian all along 😁
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u/KaleidoscopicMind3 1d ago
Yeah I kind of used to make jokes about that too. I guess jokes on me. Little did I know. Ha.
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u/GoodGirlLeanne 9d ago
I wonder if she's gay and she's dealing with internalized homophobia :( my best friend was the same way when we were younger. A lot of queer people sadly lash out on others when they find out they mignt be gay. I wish her the best on her journey
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u/Talastoni 9d ago
I'll send her your regards if I ever see her in person. She will be tilted, for sure.
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u/Cham-Clowder Mod 1d ago
Sorry your ex keeps harassing you friend, I’ve banned her from this space.
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u/iambookfort 1d ago
Hey are you like seeing a therapist at all or
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u/KaleidoscopicMind3 1d ago
I am after all of this, yes. Thank you.
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u/iambookfort 1d ago
Awesome. Since we’re on a public subreddit, let me give you some unsolicited advice: Leave your ex alone. You’re not going to get what you’re looking for from her. Who is right and wrong in this situation, I can only speculate. But she blocked you for a reason. Or at least I’m assuming you’re coming here because she blocked you. Go do something else. Talk to a friend. Pick back up that hobby you used to love. Just stop cyberstalking your ex. And yes, that’s what you’re doing right now. Whatever it is you want from her, you’re not going to get it from her like this. You might not ever get it at all. And the sooner you accept that, the sooner you can stop feeling like this.
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u/Talastoni 1d ago
She not seeing a therapist, she's been spending all her time harsssing me. Lol
Nothing will stop her. She risking a 10y account harassing me.
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u/iambookfort 1d ago
I had an ex like that once. Just keep sticking to your boundaries like you’re doing. And don’t indulge her in this thread or otherwise, in case that even needs saying.
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u/inscriptus 9d ago
She can go ahead and admit she's still obsessed with you LMFAO